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Rich Weaves

Being a business owner and helping others reach their goals is one of the most enjoyable feelings to have. Everyday I put 110% into our company and the individuals who are affiliated with us. It wasn't to long ago that I was just like a lot of people out in the world who wanted change and a better life. I had dreams and aspirations of becoming a successful business man and some day building an EMPIRE in the Hair Industry. I had been working in the hair industry for about 5 years now but wasn't seeing and getting the results that I wanted. I questioned my work ethic and all the swirling questions we have when it comes to becoming successful. I wanted to have success that moment, not understanding that it takes time to get where we need to be in life. You have to have a plan. In my mind I knew what I wanted which was to own my own hair company but was scared to step out on FAITH in fear of FAILURE. You see this is where allot of us stop dreaming, lose motivation, and most importantly lose our FAITH. When it comes to your FAITH, Im here to tell you that no matter what it is that you want in life never give up on it. FAITH is powerful and can win the will of many ways, YOU just have to guide the ship! Helping others is the fuel to my FAITH there is no more gratifying feeling to help another man/women see there potential and watch them go GET IT.....no matter if its a business, relationship, family, etc. Doors have opened for me that I have never imagine would be open, and I am blessed to surrounded by individuals who embrace the opportunity our company has placed before them. I understand that we all fear what we don't know or understand but I can say that Rich Weaves can be the corner stone to the foundation of anyone who wants to achieve there goals in the Hair Industry. Its ok to be afraid of FAILURE, but remember to have FAITH it will win every time. Take a step out on it and watch how GOD works and puts you in position for success.......We DID!!! I hope this small blog helps to be an inspiration to everyone who reads this, we are here to help wherever you need. We stand committed to YOU and your vision so lets set this INDUSTRY ON FIRE!!!!! ONE LOVE!!!!!!

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Sunrise – May 23, 1981 Sunset – December 17, 2014

Tanishia was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis at age 15. And then it happened. What happens with many individuals diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis, Michael and Robin learned about 7 or so years ago that it was NMO (Neuroyelitis Optica).

It was a very long journey for our dear lovely. She left home January, 2012 due to complications, returned home and returned a few days later due to respiratory failure. What we thought would be a visit and return home within weeks turned into almost 3 years. It would be 3 years January that she hadn’t seen her home in Seattle, WA. Although we stood in Faith and believed for manifestation of wholeness we also decided to refuse to be selfish and try to hold her here. We left it to our Father what her journey would be while praying and believing. Says Robin Tramble Tanishia’s Mother.

Tanishia did end up on the ventilator and had to be trached. Her family watched her suffer coming close to losing her life many times. They faced the realization that it was possible that their lovely wouldn’t ever return home although believing every day until the end. She suffered much over the past 3 years while still holding on to her Faith until that moment when she made peace with the Lord and decided she was ready when He was ready.

Tanishia was loved by and an inspiration to many. Very gifted in music and loved God. She graduated from High School and went on to obtain her degree in Early Child hood development. She always wanted a day care and planned to call it Robin’s nest. Like many young women Tanishia desired to marry one day and have children. She did have two precious God daughters that she loved dearly.

Tanishia will be remembered for her beautiful smile, warm heart, humor, Faith and tenacious fight. She loved children, singing and writing songs.

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BGP 2015 Scholarship

It's time for Black Girlz Productions annual $500.00 scholarship announcement. Who can apply? High school seniors or current college students. Requirements: Write a 500 word essay on the below topic. Email all essays to blackgirlzproductions@gmail.com. Please include your name and email address. The deadline to submit is 01/01/15. The winner will be announced February 2015.
Topic: Is affirmative action still needed in higher education?

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For Myself

How many times have we said to ourselves, I am tired of my boss, I am sick of this traffic, I want to start my own entrepreneur business but are afraid. Let's connect and take this company to a different level. This company is sweeping through the nation, why not get a piece of the action. Work part-time or full-time, what do you have to lose.

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The Emperor’s New Clothes

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Empire. Who is the real target audience? Over 60% of African American viewers tune into Fox weekly to watch the one hour drama, but by industry standards, is that really enough to catapult the show to top ratings and garner the mainstream attention and advertising dollars considered acceptable enough to renew a show for another season? Black Americans are only 12-15% of the US population, so I seriously doubt it is African American viewers alone who are securing Empire in this top spot. According to TV by the NumbersEmpirehas consistently topped the ratings of Criminal MindsThe 100, and Modern Family, all competing shows airing at 9PM EST on Wednesday evening. It has the highest share of viewers ages 18-to-49.

While it is exciting to have talented Black artists grace the primetime screen of a weekly drama, are the themes of Empire “refreshing” as some has described them, or are these characters dressed in a royal suite of The Emperor’s New Clothes?

Recall that the emperor was convinced by swindlers to believe he was dressed in the finest royal clothing available, but in all honestly, he wore nothing new. In fact, he pranced around embarrassingly naked. Many African American Empire fans suggest this show presents a new perspective on the nuances of “The American Black Family”. I must ask two questions.

First, is this really what Black viewers see? Second, is exhibiting the nuances of “The American Black Family” the primary agenda of the producers and directors? I ask you which viewership is paying attention to the nuances and which viewers are focused on persistent themes of criminalistic behavior that often define Black mainstream characters and perpetuate negative stereotypes about Black Americans?

In the past two weeks alone, Entertainment Weekly has posted a minimum of 5 stories about Empire to its website. In reviewing these posts, not one story focuses on the family system dynamics of the Lyons family- unity, sacrifice, expressions of love. Yes, these themes are there if you sift through the sensational presentations of the more prevalent themes.

A story posted March 2nd to the Entertainment Weekly website reveals the true meaning of Cookie’s famous line “boo-boo kitty” translation-“bitch” to your face. In a post dated February 27th, Terrence Howard asks, “Why is TV showing something different from the reality of the world? Why is there a thing called censorship that stops people from hearing everyday talk? We use n—- every day. It’s become part of a conversation—why aren’t we using it in the show?” 

Are you following me, or do you still see a “refreshing” presentation of the nuances of Black family life? Admittedly, there are Black people who use the “N” word in their conversation. Do you? Are you part of the reality of the “world” Howard is referencing? Do successful Black business owners use the “N” word daily? Do Black women regularly call another Black woman “bitch” to her face daily?

We all have indulgences. Pause for a moment and really watch Empire. Suspend your indulgence. Have you noted that this family’s success is based on their musicality? That their escape from systemic poverty and a life of crime is a result of their ability to sing, rap and entertain their way out of the ‘hood? Have you noted that the oldest brother who is college educated, but without musical talent, is not as favored as the two brothers who are musical artists? Could it be that Black families do not value education? For viewers with a negative perception of Black Americans based on racial stereotypes, Empire
provides a healthy menu of stereotypes to select from.

EW-1353-Empire_459x612_0If watching Empire is your guilty pleasure and you are excited to tune in every Wednesday, enjoy the show. If you choose to allow you children to watch the show, be sure that you are talking with them about the messages they are seeing. Do not be like the emperor’s honest old minister. Do not be fooled by the emperor’s new clothes. For it was the child in Hans Christian Andersen’s fable that declared “But he hasn’t got anything on”.

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You are God wrapped in flesh…

You are God wrapped in flesh…

I was thinking of you today.

I want to give you something beautiful.

I don’t know what that is.

I don’t know what it looks like or tastes like.

I thought about sharing a spoken-word piece I wrote when I was doing my dissertation at Stanford.

I thought about including a monologue from my solo performance piece that went up off-Broadway.

I want to give you something.
Something beautiful.

As powerful Black Women who have walked through life’s fire, we spend our time feeding others—yet very seldom do we have the experience of being fed.

I want to feed you.

I want you to know what it feels like to be nurtured and supported for no reason.

I want you to feel the texture and caress of being loved—just as you are and just as you are not.

 

DH_1135_prayer-RevHave I told you lately that I love you, Black Woman?

 

I love your swag, your genius. Your quick wit.

I respect your walk.

I honor your heart.

 

Today I want to give you something beautiful.

I want to give YOU to YOU… through my eyes.

YOU are beautiful.

You are magnificent.

You are perfect.

You are divine.

 

You are God wrapped in flesh.

 

You may not know this, but you are the answer to our prayers.

You are the reason the ancestors bowed their heads.

You are the inspiration that kept our men alive.

 

You are the life force for our children.

You are so special and so unique, being in your presence is simply splendor.

You are God’s promise fulfilled.

You are the reason Jesus wept and rose.

 

You are the future.

You are the world made anew.

 

If you could see you through my eyes, you would be so proud of the women you have become.

 

Not in spite of your walk, but because of it.

 

Here are 3 “Giving YOU to YOU” Defy Impossible practices so you can see you … beautiful:

1. Mirror Love: Go to your mirror (as soon as you can, I invite you to go in the buff so you can’t hide from yourself) and look you in your eyes. The most powerful statement in the Universe is “I am.” Affirm you with the following “I am” declarations:

           Picture7 I am a good person.

            I am becoming the best me possible.

            I am the truth and I live my truth out loud.

            I am perfect in my imperfections.

            I am the answer to people’s prayers.

            I am wanted.

            I am adored by God.

            I am prosperous, affluent, and abundant.

            I am the way, the truth, and the light.

            I am open and ready to receive all the goodness of life.

            I am magnificent—no matter what the past says.

            I am loved.

            I am deserving.

            I am trustworthy.

            I am kickin’ butt and taking names.

            I am doing God’s work.

            I am the one the world has been waiting for.

            I am… (fill in the blank with the highest possible truth about you that you can own.)

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2. Scented Secret Santa Love Note. Take a moment. Think about how you want someone else to value you, acknowledge you, understand and appreciate you. Now give it to yourself. You are your own best thing. Put it on pretty paper. Spray the love note with perfume. Then hide it from yourself. Put it at the bottom of the clean sheets closet or in your winter coat pocket. Then forget about it. When you get to the last set of clean sheets or winter comes, your love note will be there to remind you that you are special and you are loved… by you.

3. Tend to your body with tenderness. Your body is God’s temple. It is the only one you get. Most Black Women who have walked through life’s fire don’t know tenderness. Not with our bodies. I was so used to my body being in pain, I associated pain with being alive. It took purposeful, conscious, and deliberate tender attentiveness to love my body back into wellness. Scented baths, foot massages, energy healings, aligning chakras, rolfing, body work, body wraps, facials, yoga, boxing, weight training, walking, meditation, hand rubs—start small. Touch your face. Your hands.

Take a deep breath.

You are here. You are alive.

You are the miracle.

Cherish you.

You matter.

 

Please post below which one of these practices you will take on this week and why. I bear witness to you seeing you… beautiful, whole, and precious.

 

With all the love my heart can hold…

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10744111890?profile=originalHello Everyone!
I am looking for 'power presenters' for my event on Friday, April 13th at 2pm in Hampton. It does include FM Radio airplay, so if you're interested as an individual or as the group, please send an email to drangelachester@gmail.com with 'Daily Spark Hampton' as the subject line. Thank you!
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OUR COMMISSION

The Kingdom of God Flag Company mission is to give Glory to God. Our vision is for the TRINITY Flag to become the Kingdom flag for Christians. This flag allows Christians the opportunity to commit their loyalty & allegiance to Christ Jesus.

The Kingdom of God Flag Company is established for God to use us as a platform (Isaiah 11 NLT); a channel for which He can unite the body of Christ, to come together for the manifestation of the sons of God. By partaking in the purchase of the TRINITY flags, we can make the desolate places be like the garden of Eden (Ezekiel 36:34-36, Isaiah 61:4), so that Jesus can come for His glorious church, this is when we have accomplished the mandate to “Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature” (Mark 16:15).

The TRINITY Flag is not only used as a point of contact to God, such as a cross or rosary beads, but much more. The expectation of the TRINITY Flag in the world is that with its purchase, it brings comfort to people in need. The TRINITY Flag is "SHOWING GOD, WE ARE MINDFUL OF HIM."

We believe by funding the established programs and project of ministries, we are making a great difference in the lives of many people. The programs are the distribution of food, clothing, and housing; be taught skills in life, education, computer & basic finance, provide discipleship enlightenment, healthcare, pro bono lawyers & more.

Wherever injustice is, we would like to play a part in providing help.

The TRINITY Flag is also designed as a token of love to give while evangelizing; they can be given with gospel tracts or with new Bibles.

The TRINITY Flag's key components are its three colors; purple, red & gold, which represent the government of the Kingdom of God; the color purple is for God the Father, for He is Royalty, the color red is for God the Son, for Jesus’ Precious Blood, and the color gold is for God the Holy Spirit, for His Power. Our design now displays images for those who would like the TRINITY Flag to have a more specific impact, while praying, using their faith with scripture; God’s promises.

The TRINITY Flag is on the standard of the United States flag; from 4x6 inch stick flag to 3x5 feet sizes or larger, with & without fringe.

These TRINITY flags shall stand tall indoors (as in attention to our King) in sanctuaries, halls, on stages & in offices.

For outdoors; they shall be installed on our buildings, the TRINITY Flag shall fly high in the wind, as if pointing to the Heavens and then bow down to God as the wind changes.

The TRINITY Praise & Worship Banners comes in the TRINITY Flag’s colors with or without images, the Streamers with the colors only.

Dancers who enjoy dancing before the Lord in the privacy of their homes or praise & worship the Lord with the congregation, will enjoy watching the TRINITY Flag's vibrant colors, as it flows in the air with their every movement.

Just by having the TRINITY Flag in the world, shall change the atmosphere for the better. People will finally see that there is another way; they don’t have to conform to the status quo. There is a way out of their circumstance, there is a better way; it is through Prayer, Praise & Worship, in Jesus' Name, AMEN !!!

Please join me in doing God’s will by manifesting the sons of God to a world that needs so much love.  I am ready for Jesus to come for us, aren't you? Together, we can make the difference, let us give God the glory, He deserves. #God #Love #Difference

Matthew 24:14, "And this Gospel of the Kingdom shall be preached in all the world for a witness unto all nations; and then shall the end come."

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WHERE DID THIS FLAG COME FROM ?

I would like to share with you all how the TRINITY Flag was created. Growing up, I have always enjoyed art, especially colors. I’d received the highest grades in Art, than any other subject. Not because everything I had drawn or made was good, but because my teachers saw something, whether it was potential or my passion in doing my best. Their encouragement helped me to grow & explore more.

History of Business (how it started to where it is now) … Isaiah 48:17

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The Kingdom of God Flag Company is a for-profit ecommerce company.

I know now that God has been directing my steps (Psalm 23). The Kingdom of God Flag Company started step by step. As I look back, I can see how it came together. In the 1960’s, as a child in school, everyday, we all sang the “Pledge of Allegiance”. This song’s lyrics included “One Nation under God”. Also in school, we read about Betsy Ross as being the woman credited with making the first American flag. I am realizing now, what an impact that song and the United States flag had on me at a young age. I believe this is where the concept of making my flag with my God came from.

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As a teenager in the 1970’s, my sisters and I joined a neighborhood church called Holy Trinity Church of God in Christ. During this time, my grandmother gave me a sewing machine and I took sewing classes in high school. I began altering my clothes. My sisters & I were in the choir, so I made at least four skirts (we wore long skirts to church at that time, they were called “maxi” skirts). I believe this is where the name of my flag originated in my heart.

Also as a teenager, one of my sisters and I participated in the Junior Achievement in our community. I believe we had made those round plastic lamp shades and those flat wooden bat & ball with a rubber string stapled to the bat. We even had the opportunity to sell them at a trade show sponsored by Junior Achievement. I remember when the class was over; we were taught how to liquidate our merchandise. Years later, I had the great opportunity to work for Loyola University Medical Center. We had the most wonderful Administration, who taught us self manage skills. I got elected the co-facilitator for our department’s Patient Care Team. We typed up our own agendas and took the minutes of the meetings. We accomplished a lot for our department. When an issue that involved another department arose, we were able to sit down together for the resolution. I believe all of this combined with the fact that my husband & I have been landlords for over 30 years; my taste for business has only gotten stronger and better. I am ready to learn & do more.

A Learner

I graduated in 2007 from the Joseph Business School, a program at my church; Living Word Christian Center. I know this is where I discovered the purpose for The Kingdom of God Flag Company / TRINITY Flag (Psalm 35:27).

I am being transformed; here is how I know …

I have always enjoyed dancing, when I was worldly. Now, our TRINITY Praise & Worship Banners and Streamers gives me the opportunity to continue to dance. There is not a more joyful way to dance than to dance before the Lord.

I never really felt comfortable in the lounges, but I enjoyed dancing. I would definitely have to have a strong drink just to relax myself to fit into the environment. I never once felt comfortable enough to go out by myself.

What I am pleased to discover is that I could go to church alone with ease. I didn’t need any type of drink other than having my thirst quenched by the Lord. I have finally found where I belong. I really enjoy being drunk in the Spirit.  The first time I experienced this pleasure was at one of our Women Fellowship nights. It was time to leave the sanctuary to go to another area to eat, & when I stood up & I was actually dizzy & begin giggling. Of course, no one could see this from just observing me. They told me I looked fine, even though I felt that my eyes were half closed.

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Now, here is where I was heading …

Our niche is to cater to dancers. I get so much pleasure watching our praise & worship dancers glide around the sanctuary, wielding their flags in love for God, with power, authority & in spiritual warfare, but more importantly I see how much they are enjoying themselves. This is the reason that the TRINITY Praise & Worship Banner and Streamer was created and is dedicated to the Kingdom of God; the TRINITY; God the Father, God the Son, God the Holy Spirit. Because the TRINITY Praise & Worship Banner and Streamer is a point of contact to God, such as a cross or rosary beads, any dancer can dance like David before God, with confidence & unashamed (2 Samuel 6:14).

The Kingdom of God Flag Company’s success is by keeping God first in everything I do, which is doing business God’s way (Matthew 6:33 AMP).

God’s Word is the CEO of The Kingdom of God Flag Company. I have diligently worked on The Kingdom of God Flag Company to where it is now. Now, the time has come: Presenting the TRINITY Flag as a point of contact to God, such as a cross or rosary beads, for the purpose to help align us with the Word of God. All governments have a flag. Now, the Kingdom of God has its governmental flag on earth as it is in Heaven. The profit from the purchases of the TRINITY Flags & TRINITY Praise & Worship Banners will be used to show the Love of God. These funds are sown into established ministries, whose projects meet the needs of people (ABOUT US page).

 

THERE IS SOMETHING INSIDE OF EACH OF US FROM GOD, NEEDING TO COME OUT. GOD IS WAITING !!! :)

Isaiah 48:17 King James Version (KJV)

17 Thus saith the Lord, thy Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel; I AM the Lord thy God which teacheth thee to profit, which leadeth thee by the way that thou shouldest go.

Psalm 23:1-6 King James Version (KJV)

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: He leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for His name’s sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for Thou art with me; Thy rod and Thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: Thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever. 

Psalm 35:27 King James Version (KJV)

27 Let them shout for joy, and be glad, that favour my righteous cause: yea, let them say continually, Let the Lord be magnified, which hath pleasure in the prosperity of His servant.

2 Samuel 6:14 King James Version (KJV)

14 And David danced before the Lord with all his might; and David was girded with a linen ephod.

Matthew 6:33 Amplified Bible (AMP)

33 But seek (aim at and strive after) first of all His kingdom and His righteousness (His way of doing and being right), and then all these things taken together will be given you besides.

Genesis 1:26 King James Version (KJV)

26 And God said, Let Us make man in Our image, after Our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.

Acts 10:34 King James Version (KJV)

34 Then Peter opened his mouth, and said, Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons:

James 1:17 King James Version (KJV)

17 Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.

James 1:16-18 The Message (MSG)

16 So, my very dear friends, don’t get thrown off course. Every desirable and beneficial gift comes out of heaven. 17 The gifts are rivers of light cascading down from the Father of Light. There is nothing deceitful in God, nothing two-faced, nothing fickle. 18 He brought us to life using the true Word, showing us off as the crown of all His creatures.

1 Peter 4:10 Amplified Bible (AMP)

10 As each of you has received a gift (a particular spiritual talent, a gracious divine endowment), employ it for one another as [befits] good trustees of God’s many-sided grace [faithful stewards of the extremely diverse powers and gifts granted to Christians by unmerited favor].

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It is very important that you understand your personal hits style. That is because you will be doing quite a bit of promoting of your, services, and courses. You will need to get comfortable with asking your audience to invest in your course. Here are some common pitch styles. See if you can pick out which one most accurately reflects your own personal style.

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde

This style typically go between very orderly to very aggressive. It may take a few minutes go between aggressive and 40. There tends to be two extremes. Audiences typically either respond with rate adoration because of the appearance of transparency and willingness to cut product their weaknesses.

 

The Girl Next Door

This style comes across as super nice. They seemingly give endlessly. The pitch is typically given by first asking the audience if it is all rights to offer them something. The audience typically responds in a positive way. The downside is that once you start off with the girl next door style, it is difficult to go to a more aggressive style later.

 

Cloak and Dagger

The cloak and dagger style is one in which the promoter first starts in a very matter of fact way. They typically have a very rupture way of delivering content. After delivering the content, the promoter then offers a strong argument for stand regarding purchasing the course. The audience typically appreciate that direct of approach that this style exhibits.

 

Please Baby Baby Please

This style typically sells a bit whiny and typically employees a guilt trip tactic to get the audience to register for the course. This tactic will work on some, but is not a long term strategy for pitching a product or course.

 

It is important to know that each one of these strategies can have good outcomes but also unintended consequences. We will be exploring this further this week in 1% mentorship group mastermind.

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How to Gain Self Confidence

Sometimes our self-confidence is shaken when we make decisions that are not supported by family, friends or people we respect.  When we feel that we are by ourselves regarding our choices, it is important to apply the universal law of cause and effect. Acknowledging others rights to their opinions opens the way for us to receive the same treatment. The adage shows itself over and over, what you do unto others will be done unto you.

Remember you can create the life you want to live by your actions. Being gentle and loving yourself is the way to bring that behavior into your life from others. Although it may not feel apparent, life supports you. The universal order of life does support you. This may sound airy-fairy, but it is a real and important principle to believe in when feeling challenged. Understanding that everyone has a right to live and think as he or she chooses removes the emotional conviction that others opinions are personal attacks. Each adult is their life decision maker, and one’s opinion does not overthrow anyone else’s choice.

Your ability to hold this idea and conduct yourself on this principle will govern others manners when engaging or having a relationship with you.

Valuing yourself is a requirement for a successful life. Lacking self-worth is mirrored back to us through our personal and work relationships.  The characteristics of caring and respecting yourself are reflected in how you address other people’s degrading and dismissive attitudes. Life already supports you; you are here. The statement, "you are an accident", is only an attempt to devalue your existence. It is your primary responsibility to embrace and love yourself.

Sometimes we allow the opinions of others to reign over our internal voice. That is a sign that we need to stop and remember what is important to us. Getting clear about the way you choose to live your life and what you value gives you the strength to make seemingly hard choices. You regret less when your actions are decided from how you choose to be in this world. Living this way opens you to new ideas and activates your potential.

Aiming for a successful life based on your values can sometimes feel like a struggle but the end results are worth it. Gaining self-confidence is the practice of making and moving forward with your decisions that are founded on what is important to you. Every opportunity you have to apply this principle will help you become self-confident authentically.

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