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I NEED MORE ENCOURAGEMENT

I'm a newbie business woman who's trying to spread the word about my two online businesses. Today isn't my day and I've been feeling dejected all morning and afternoon long. I need more encouragement because *Speechless*

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Permalink Reply by Glenda Cates on September 1, 2010 at 3:46pm

I know you have heard it time and time again but do not give up. Put one foot in front of the other and say I think I can I think i can take a breathe and move forward. Also take a look at your business are you excited about it? Can people tell this? Have you honestlt sat down and treated yourself as a customer would you buy from yourself? Why or why not and make changes then go out there and get those customers your needing. But first and formost you must turn it all over to God as e is the one who can help you more than we ever could. Now tell me about your businesses as i have never heard of them Please.

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Permalink Reply by Landra Booker Johnson on September 1, 2010 at 3:46pm

So much of running your own business is nothing more than a mental game - a test of how well can you cope with the inevitable stress. I've learned to begin each day acknowledging and anticipating that something unexpected is going to happen. That "something" may be negative or it may be positive but there will, no doubt, be some sort of surprise everyday. Having that mindset prepares me for the day so when that unexpected "something" reveals itself, I'm not surprised or upset about it - I can simply roll with it.

One more mental shift that I find very helpful: "Problems" are not really problems, and "Setbacks" are not really setbacks - they are all simply "Challenges". Inherent in those Challenges are valuable "Opportunities" for us to learn, grow, get stronger, and ultimately be better businesswomen.

Don't let those inevitable challenges distract you from your business strategy or your mission - embrace them. You'll get there, and it will be that much sweeter having weathered the storm :).

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Permalink Reply by Penny Jones dba Zivalacewigs on September 1, 2010 at 4:12pm

Hannahbanana: Here is a big virtual {{{hug}}}. You are getting very encouraging information and you are at the right space to be empowered, uplifted and motivated.

My business is new as well. I do understand the frustrations and dejection. I posted something on a forum regarding a client that I felt was good. I got SLAMMED. It stung a little bit but I took it as useful information.

Remember to BREATH. The money will be there when you need it and when it is suppose to be there. Do not live on what you FEEL because it is just that. A feeling. You will overcome this. Refocus. Breath. Say some positive things to yourself so you can clear the fog and your head.
Take the negative voices out of your head and keep plugging away.

I am certain that the dynamic ladies on this Board will have better advise for you. I look forward to reading it.

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Permalink Reply by Sharnica Barnes on September 1, 2010 at 5:05pm

Hey, Im Sharnica

I really understand how you feel. I just start my fundraiser for my non-profit business, and the event is paid in full. But I have no support from the board memeber to help with the event.The event is tomorrow and I dont no what to do. I just have to give some of the tickets away and asking for donates at the door.

What type of business you have.Maybe i can help
email sharnicabarnes2yahoo.com

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Permalink Reply by Penny Jones dba Zivalacewigs on September 1, 2010 at 5:13pm

@ Sharnica Barnes:

Could you possibly get some teenage volunteer's to assist you?

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Permalink Reply by Sharnica Barnes on September 1, 2010 at 8:51pm

Penny thats a good idea, I will give that a try. thanks

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Permalink Reply by Penny Jones dba Zivalacewigs on September 2, 2010 at 9:11pm

@Sharnica - how did the Event go? How did things work out

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Permalink Reply by Regina on September 1, 2010 at 5:17pm

Hey Sharnica. I had the same problem with my new non-profit. I work with alot of models and they arelooking for ways to raise money and get sponsors. What type of non-profit do you have? Maybe we can work together on a few things... Email me at ginakifashion@yahoo.com. Also, I am an event planner. I do my own events and have been in business now going on 2 years, but getting a team of dedicated people is VERY HARD!

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Permalink Reply by Sharnica Barnes on September 1, 2010 at 8:48pm

Hello, Regina I will email you now

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Permalink Reply by Cathleen Williams on September 1, 2010 at 5:19pm

Hannah,

We all have days like that. Stay positive and focused and you can weather the storm.

Cathleen

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Permalink Reply by Tracey Ferguson on September 1, 2010 at 5:42pm

You CAN do this!!! Focus on what absolutely has to be done and hone in on it. How can we help?

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Permalink Reply by Evelyn on September 1, 2010 at 7:37pm

Hannah,

I see that many of the women warriors here on BBWO have already given you some encouragement, which makes me feel so proud to be part of such a nurturing community. I wanted to let you know that today won't be the last time that you are feeling dejected and defeated, but those who ultimately see success are the ones who do not ever give up.

Keep at it and focus on creating the very best content that you can. I'm going to share a few tips off the top of my head because I was exactly where you are a few years ago.

Network--BBWO is the perfect place to meet other business women at all stages of business development.

Join or create a Mastermind group with other business women who have more ideas than money. Share your strengths and cross-promote on each others sites.

Barter your services with other emerging business women.

Focus on *FREE* marketing opportunities. Work your webcam and create a series of videos. Post them to youtube and facebook with links back to your website. Join other forums and participate. Where appropriate spread the word about your sites.

Create a podcast and interview authors and/or natural hair experts and product creators.

Be a guest on Internet radio shows to talk about your sites.

Grow your Twitter following and really engage with your audience. Twitter is a great place to generate leads and traffic for your site.

Don't lose your passion because it's your passion and authenticity that will attract people to you and to your sites.

There is a basic law of the Universe that states that you've got to give that which you would most like to receive. Giving freely of yourself and being grateful for what you already have are the keys to getting everything that you want. You just can't ever give up.

I wish you all the best in your entrepreneurial journey.