Praying for a man will get you a man but will he be the RIGHT man? Praying for a man with a job might be a good start but what other qualities should he have? Tall, Dark and Handsome? Good Provider? Loving and affectionate? Sense of humor? Loves kids? How does he treat his mother? What is he passionate about? Does he place God above everyone and everything else?The first time around I got just what I asked for simply because I didn’t know I could pray to God and ask for exactly what I wanted. God did His part by granting my request. But as I grew older and wiser I discovered I had prayed for the wrong things and then I had to turn around and pray to get out of the mess.The second mistake women make is thinking you can change him once you get him. If God hasn’t changed him yet, what makes you think you can?Today, as my husband and I celebrate our second wedding anniversary, I am so happy to say I got it right this time. I have a wonderful, new husband but I didn’t pray for him in the conventional sense. This time I asked God to create a new creature in me with a renewed spirit so that I would be deserving of a good husband and God did just what He promised and granted my request.I’m just a baby boomer in love!If you want to know more of my thoughts on dating after 40, check out my book, "Whatever! A Baby Boomer's Journey Into Middle Age." Available on amazon.com and barnesandnoble.com
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