have you suffered from the what ifs......

have you ever suffered from the ifshow many time have you saidwhat if i had thiswhat if i was therewhat if i was successfulcheck out this article lets make some of the ifs into positive realities u can ......Most of us, if not all of us have at one point or another in our life.Did you know that 51% of new business' started today are home-based business'? But another statistic says that 99% of home based business' fail. I personally think that's sad.I would like to shed some light on one of the reasons why I think so many small business owners fail, and why so many people fail at life in general.Have you ever voiced or thought about any of these?If I had more money...If I had enough pull....If only my boss liked me...If I were younger...If I could only do what I want....If other people didn't have it in for me...if I had the talent that some people have...If I could meet the right people...If I could save some money....If I could just get a break...If luck was not against me...If I didn't have so many worries...If people didn't get on my nerves...If I was smarter...When you say things like this to yourself, or worse use these alibi's with someone else, you are shooting yourself in the foot. These if's can break your spirit, make you lose focus, take away your drive. They can be fatal to your success in life or in business.So the next time one of those If's come to mind, don't say it.. And I ask you to take it one step further. Turn it around in your mind. My boss does like me, Luck is not against me, People don't get on my nerves. Look for a way to make it positive. This may be hard at first, but just stick with it.I can promise you this. If you start turning those if's into positive thoughts and statements, you will be surprised what a difference it can make in every area of your life.And It doesn't matter what your profession is. Whether you work a job, are in network marketing, or in MLM, or are a janitor or a doctor or lawyer. Cut those If's out of your life, and you will start seeing just how great your life can be.And remember:Success requires no apologies, Failure requires no alibis!written by Faye Correll is a professional marketer living outside of Charlotte, NC
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