Are you a mistress? Now isn’t that a question to ask yourself? Being a mistress is in no way shape or form a positive thing. Mistresses are the wrong type of female friends. Have you ever had a friend that gave your man more compliments than you did? Did she always want to be around when you were having a date or a special occasion with your man? How about that friend that calls him to see if he is ok?First and foremost, if she has your man’s number, that is your fault! She should never call him, even to find you. The point, she shouldn’t have anything to do with you and your man’s relationship. Learn to respect yourself as a woman. As women, we have a great power; the ability to make men bend at our will.So, why be a mistress? If you know that you can make any man do anything, then why not find a man that isn’t already attached or involved with another woman. It is pathetic for a woman to prowl out for things that don’t belong to her.A lot of women are misguided. They don’t keep positive people around them, and they don’t strive to do better. If you have one of the friends that I listed in the first paragraph, then you should know that those friends are not the positive people. Mistresses allow themselves to be overwhelmed by the articulated words a man uses. Ever feel like you have the male friend that always wants something from you? Does he only call when he needs something? Does he act like he never wants to be out in public with you? Maybe he even tells you that he is always busy, but always finds the time to see you when he gets horny? Red flag ladies; think about it.A man that can treat you like you are not a priority is a waste of time. Move on, and keep it pushing. Don’t let what seems to be his confident behavior control how you treat him. Learn all the signs, so you won’t become a victim. That’s right, a victim! It’s what you are. Once a man knows he can manipulate the situation, he will. Don’t let him. Fight back, and don’t become a mistress.Mistresses never prevail. Think about it! How many mistresses do you know that have won a man over and kept him there with no repercussions? We see it all the time, like Angelina Jolie stealing Brad Pitt from Jennifer Aniston. She fought her way into a married man’s arms. You have to give her cool points for her efforts, though. Angelina is better at it than most, but now she is struggling to keep her man. By the end of this chapter you will be able to tell if you are a mistress, learn how not to take the choice away if put in that situation, and how adultery affects relationships. Stop living a lie.
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