KNOW YOUR PLACE

YOU CAN FIND OUT MORE IN OUR BOOKTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?“Love him or leave him but never feel that you need him.”KNOW YOUR PLACE, MISTRESSIf you are going to be a mistress, you need to know your place. You do not have any rights to this man. He already has a woman, and all rights are reserved for her. Remember, if he wanted to be with you, you would have the title. There are rules that you have to follow.Rule # 1: Never feel that you are better than his wife.If you are so much better than the woman that he is with, why is he not with you completely? The answer is simple, you’re not better. Wifey is forever; a mistress is always temporary.Rule #2: Never refer to him as “your man”.He is not your man. You cannot give a man the title when he already holds it somewhere else. Women think that just because a man spends time with you, he loves you. He doesn’t love you! (at least not on that level) He tells you what you want to hear. In reality, he spends time with you because he can. Maybe the sex is good, or maybe you have good conversation. WARNING: YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY WOMAN WITH GOOD PUSSY WHO CAN HOLD A CONVERSATION. As soon as you mess up, he will find the next girl to replace you. Mistresses are always replaceable.Rule # 3: Never call his wife.Who do you think you are? Oh you forgot … you are the mistress! Why mess up things in his home because you caught feelings? All you do is make yourself look stupid. A real man will always take care of home first. Either he is going to deny you all together, or he is going to tell his woman that you are someone that he used to mess with who won’t leave him alone. Now you are sitting at your house waiting on his phone call while he is at home trying to make things right with his wife. She gets all the attention that you wanted and still has the man on her arm.Rule # 4: Know your limits.Mistresses are limited. You cannot hang out with his friends. You cannot go to his house. If he is with someone in public and he doesn’t speak to you first, keep walking. If he wanted you to know the person that he was with, he would introduce you. You are what we like to call “part time pussy”. When you start trying to go out together, things get messy.Rule #5: You cannot get mad when he says he has to go home.Why get mad when you know the situation going into it? Once again, a real man will always take care of home first. Staying the night is never an option.
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