MONKEY BAR AFFECT/PAYROLL

Men think they know the game, and I won’t deny the fact they play it well; but they learned from the best -- women! That’s right, I said it! If men could do it alone, GOD would not have made a woman to help him. Stop with the ego trippin’ fellas. We ladies have the gift of giving birth, so we are born with a powerful tool. No need to get into that, you should already know. For those who don’t know, you’re slow! We love you, we teach you, and guide you; but just as easy, we can dismiss you.Men, there is in no comparison in the game when a woman is playing. Let me break it down for those who seem to think they have mastered it. Woman can be gullible because we tend to share our feelings more than men; But when it comes to pain, we can handle it with the best of them. Don’t confuse this type of behavior for weakness. Don’t be fooled because a woman will cheat on you. We don’t cheat for sport like men. Women cheat for other reason, especially when we are hurt. What men don’t understand is a true pimp-tress does not sleep around like a mistress or tramp. A pimp-tress can get what she wants, while keeping her respect.Pimp-tress - a woman who can obtain single men who can offer her pleasure and or entertainment in return.Mistress - a woman who can only use her pussy for evil by borrowing other women’s men. She is weak minded and pathetic. Her daddy forgot to tell her she is pretty, and give her hugs and kisses. Ultimately, she’s searches for that fulfillment no matter how or whom she gets it from.Now that you know the difference, let’s move on. Every woman knows her own strengths and weaknesses when it comes to a man. Therefore, every man is treated differently. It is a great feeling when you enter a room, and people stop what they are doing to see who you are. For ugly girls, they look at you because they don’t understand how you got like that.Then, there is the monkey bar effect, which stems from women getting what they want from a particular type of man. For example, your man is strong, passionate, and sexy as hell, but he tends to step out of bounds from time to time. When it happens, and you are not getting the attention that you need, get a substitute, a need-filler. He comes over when needed, and he doesn’t nag you. He loves spending time with you regardless of your sexual activity together. He knows about your man, but he knows his limits and his place. Chapter 3, read it as many times and you need to. Listen up fellas, we don’t like being lied to and cheated on. You would never find out about us, unless we want you to know. For us, honesty is always the key. Trust and believe that anyone we swing to, while still obtaining your attention, will indeed know about you. Everyone is on the payroll!Payroll - a list of employees willing to work at the employers expectationsSUCESSFUL PAYROLLRULES OF ENGAGEMENTDo not allow your men to just pop up at your house.Give them limits.Make sure they do not overlap each other on any given day.Always make each one feel as if he is the one.He must know that you need him; this will keep him around.He must respect that fact that you need your space.All your men should be able to blend in together.You can’t date any of his friends or family.He must be of legal age. (19 yrs old is not grown)FIND OUT MORE INTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?
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