KARMA & CONSEQUENCES

Karma - what goes around comes around.Watch what you do to others because it will come back to you. Don’t burn your bridges; you never know when you may see them again or need them again. You don’t want to have a bad reputation with that person. Men, be careful what you do to women. A woman scorn is dangerous. She’s not just dangerous because you hurt her, now she is armed with the “I don’t give a fuck syndrome”. She doesn’t care what man she hurts or what she does as long as she is in control.Men and women operate differently. Men don’t try to get even; they do more “in your face” kinds of disrespects. Women, in turn, will only put what she has done in your face if she wants you to catch her. You may get a situation like this: you come home one day from working really hard expecting dinner to be done, and your wife has another man in the house. He is sitting there with his shoes off, and she is in the shower. What do you do? She has had enough of your bullshit. It doesn’t feel good, so you get mad and drag her ass out the shower to find out that it is her sister. Feel stupid, huh? She tells you that your wife went to the store to buy some food to cook for the evening. She had no reason to be at home in the shower with another man there. Just the thought of her with another man has got you fired up. That is the exact reason why you shouldn’t do things to people that you don’t want them to do to you. If you were paying attention to the Payroll section in Chapter 7, then you would know that, as women, we have mastered that concept. Here is an example of how Karma is always lurking out to get you; a true story from our own lives:CONSEQUENCESLet’s start with the men since they seem to be the worst at getting caught. Men do not seem to understand the power of a scorned woman. Your wife may be the nicest, sweetest woman that you’ve ever met, but let her get fed up with you and see what happens. The same woman who will set a bug free before trying to kill it is the same woman that will put your butt in the hospital. Men think that their pride is a big deal, but it’s much bigger for women. Men yell and fight over trying to protect their pride. Women put Windex in your cereal and then drive your ass to the ER. As much as that woman loves you, she is capable of hating you with the same intensity. Men work hard and play hard, but women love hard and hate harder. Once you have put hate in a woman’s heart, you can hang it up.Women are sneaky and conniving. This is not a secret; you all know it’s true. You just don’t think that your woman is capable of being like the rest, poor naïve sole. Your woman is no different than the others. You can only push her so far before she breaks. Snapped, it comes on every Sunday. Some women can take more than others. I personally take pride in how strong I have been in my relationships, but others are not so lucky. It does not matter how well you think you know your woman; you have no idea where her breaking point truly is. We have very vivid imaginations and we will re-play things in our head over and over again. We say we forgive and forget, but we never ever forget. What you have done has now given us a free pass to do whatever the hell we want to do. What could you say? Nothing! I’m not saying that she is going to cheat on you, but she might. I’m just saying that things are going to change. She knows what makes you happy. She knows what pisses you off, which means she knows exactly what to do to ruin your life. Women as a whole don’t believe in walking away; they believe in getting even.FIND OUT MORETUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?
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