Posted by Kimberly Ware on February 19, 2009 at 2:12am
Overcoming adversity can be very difficult during a time of despair. At first you may feel pain, but over time you must have the strength to overcome any life changing dilemma.Life can be like a roller coaster ride with many ups and downs and twists and turns. You must hold on tight for the bumpy ride. It may be scary at first but don’t give up. Adversity is like an adrenaline rush of being on a roller coaster of feeling fear and uncertainty. Life can be rough and bumpy but just like a roller coaster ride it will come to an end and your particular adversity situation shall too come to past.Don’t feel alone during the time of grief; you are not alone. As human beings we all face an adversity situation in our lives and it is up to us to follow the right path for our particular life situation.Adversity means change. Change is often difficult to face especially when you are trying to stay focused. Adversity can range from anything such as starting a new job, getting a divorce, losing a loved one, or losing a job. In life anything can happen to cause us to have to make a drastic change in our lives. It is up to us to follow in God’s light and have the strength and ability to move on.Four Basic Steps to Dealing with Adversity:1. Ask God for guidance (What to do?)2. Prayer/Meditation (To clear your mind and build faith)3. To release your fears and pain (To gain strength and courage)4. To remember your purpose and get back on track. (To stay focused)It is OK to ask God for guidance. God loves you and will not lead you astray. Most people use prayer and meditation as a way for guidance. Prayer and meditation clears your mind and builds faith.The last step is to remember your purpose and to get back on track. Facing an adversity situation can be very difficult and scary but do not lose faith that you can overcome your problems. Believe in God and follow in God’s light for strength and courage. Adversity may hurt for a while but you may learn from this life dilemma and grow both spiritually and mentally.Excerpt from Kimberly Ware's book, "Heal My Wings: A Healing Guide for Women". www.kimberlyware.com
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