Posted by bustabitch on February 16, 2009 at 11:47pm
Ok ladies, it's Monday!The beginning of a brand new week. Winter is winding down. Valentine's is over, so now you have no more excuses to gorge on chocolate and other ISH that is not good for you. Whether you were eating it because someone bought it for you, or because you bought it for yourself. Put it down, walk away.Today is the first day in the rest of your life. Today is the day when change begins. To borrow Barack's phrase, CHANGE:YES WE CAN!!!The winter blues are winding down and spring is ahead of you. So like the seasons, let's change for the better. So my question to you is what have you done today, to make you a better you? In every realm of your life spiritually, financially, socially, professionally, physically?No more excuses, today is the first day, the first step in that journey. A bitch buster is on top of her game, in every facet of her life. Because true revenge is being successful.So what have you been procrastinating about? What do you need to do to be on top of your game. You want to lost the weight, then get up off your behind and exercise. Leave that red velvet cake alone. This is not rocket science, you know what you need to do. GO UP AND GO OUT THERE AND DO IT.Your finances are upside down, sit down and make a list of every bill you owe. Create a plan to pay them off, call your creditors set up an automatic payment plan. Place it somewhere where you will see daily. Cut all those credit cards up (OK that may be to drastic for some of you, at least take them out of your wallet). If you want something pay cash for it. Each week make a vow to save some money. I don't care if it is $5, but every week save $5 and put it in a separate account that you have no access to. It is not about the amount you save, but getting in the habit of doing it. It take 21 days to form a new habit. Discipline yourself.You want to meet someone, well you won't meet them in your house. Go out there and do the dam thing. Join a professional organization, Kiwanis, Rotary, Toastmasters, Black Business Meet up. Get out of your comfort zone and do something new. If you keep doing what you always did, then you will keep getting what you always got (i.e. the club is not the spot, leave Pookey, Rayray and Buster them alone).Read a book ( the Bible is a good one) :). Learn a skill, go to your local college and sign up for a class, take an online class. Do something that will expand you and cause you to grow. The only way to grow is to learn something new everyday.That is rule six in the bitch busting arsenal... be a DAAG: DEVELOP, ASPIRE ACHIEVE, GROW. Because sometimes you don't have to Bust that bitch you can just outshine her!
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