Posted by bustabitch on February 15, 2009 at 12:24pm
February 14: the day that strikes fear in the heart of every single person. The pressure starts to mount after New Years Eve. The countdown begins, six weeks to get a date. You can do this, you tell yourself, six weeks is a long time, you will find a date, you will not be alone THIS Valentine' s day.You sit and you devise a plan. You call all your coupled friends, you let them hook you up. You start going to church again hoping to find a good Christian man or woman. That does not pan out so you say forget that, you hit the clubs, but every buster and pigeon seems to be on the prowl...looking for you. No luck; so you try all the online sites, anyone with a pulse and a job you start to talk to. You try to convince yourself that he or she has potential, even though you know deep down in your heart that they are just triflin and not up to your standards. Anything so you wont be alone on February 14th.WHY...what is wrong with being alone. Is singleness a disease that no one wants? Alone is good. You get to to do whatever the hell you want, whenever you want... anytime ,any place. Walk around the house naked, eat ice cream in bed. You are the master of your domain. The king or queen of your world.Why is it that everyone else who is with someone (and in a majority of the cases miserable) tries to guilt you into making your one a twosome.Do we really appreciate our singleness? Do we understand the purpose for it? It is the period in your life where you get to be 100% selfish and focused on no one else but you. Get your education on, excel in your career, get over the ISH from your childhood, learn to love and appreciate you and everything that makes you ... YOU. Singleness the period in your life where you discover the good, the bad and the ugly about yourself. And guess what, it is all good. Deal with your issues, refine your game, learn your non-negotiables, set your standards. Become YOU, a whole individual.So before you let the pressures of this one day, cause you to abort the journey of your singleness. Think about it, it is better to be alone and content, than be with someone and miserable.So tomorrow celebrate the greatest love of your life. YOU!!!. Take yourself out to the best restaurant you can afford, go to the spa or go on that weekend trip that you wanted to go on forever. Don't listen to what those coupled or married people are telling you.. its all lies..because if it wasn't, the divorce rate would not be what it is.Yes you want someone special to share your life with, but until you find someone worthy of you.. make sure you are worthy of yourself.That is rule five in the bitch busting arsenal never allow anyone else to define or determine your worth. Because there are bitches out there waiting and preying, looking for the unsuspecting or the one who has not determined his or her worth. The one who has not learned to love themselves but wants love and validation so bad that they are willing to do and put up with anything to get it. Yes those bitches are out there..and those are the bitches you need to bust.To my favorite couple: Pinky and my favorite diva..Have a happy valentine day.....--Posted By bustabitch to BUSTABITCH: at 2/13/2009 04:40:00 PM
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