Okay ladies…time to confess. How many times have you returned to the house with a trunk full of shopping bags and hid them in the washer, basement, behind the couch, stuffed deep behind your 20th pair of shoes, etc. from your husband or partner??? Or, said to yourself, “he can’t tell me how to spend my money, I can shop wherever I want to!” But you’re using his credit card and checkbook…. Does this sound familiar??? I know -- I’d been guilty of this type of behavior occasionally.This morning I was going over the events of a party last night that I worked - you know, what worked/didn't work/what to improve next time, etc. I mentioned to my boyfriend about when I got ready to close most of the sales, some of the responses were, “I need to talk to my boyfriend/husband first”. I saw women desperately want to buy Minx AND Aurora to get their groove back on track yet they hesitated, let out a disappointing sigh and left. Wouldn’t your immediate thought be – this another stall tactic? I did until my boyfriend gave me a male perspective.A man wants believe that he satisfies his woman in bed. PERIOD!If she goes to a sexy lingerie party where bedroom accessories and toys are featured then one night says, ‘baby, fire this up!’ his immediate reaction might be, ‘what the hell is this thing, am I not enough man for you?!’ His sexual confidence and erection just hit a low because he thought everything was fine and you know ladies, we can fake it really good at times. He’s walking around feeling dejected and you’re still frustrated.Help your honey bear understand you still need him. Tell him about the party before you go. Get him excited by explaining the benefits of how the toy can bring pleasure to both of you. Sit down together and pick which ones you both want to try then watch him ready hand over the card! He’s now ready and excited that it’s about to be on and poppin! You included your partner in the process. Afterwards, both of you will truly be exhausted and satisfied.Another tip: keep the toy(s) on HIS side of the nightstand. Don’t ask why, just do it – it’s a man thang!For more information or product recommendations, send me an email or visit my website at www.bootyparlorparties.com/dsm
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