Look at Who Is Judging You!

I was almost the victim of Vampires this past weekend!  You are probably saying huh, what, she is “crazy.” Actually, I was the victim of vampires for a few hours and then I was nursed back to life and snapped back into consciousness!  I’m still recovering actually as I type this post.  In business, people are always going to judge you.  In network marketing and MLM, people are going to judge you even more!

If you are a Jerry DRhino Clark fan, you know exactly what I’m talking about and I encourage you to read his article titled,  “ BEWARE OF THE SPIRITUAL DRAINING, ENERGY ZAPPING, TIME WASTING, DREAM DESTROYING, EMOTIONAL DEPLETING VAMPIRES” after you finish reading my blog post of course.

What is so sad is that if you are reading my blog, 95 percent or more of the people that are presently in your life fall into this category of vampires that want to deplete you, suck the life out of you and keep you down on the level that they are on.  What is even sadder is that you probably don’t even realize it! You go to church with them, dine with them, work with them, play basketball with them and you may even be sleeping with them!!!  This is their purpose in life!  What are the characteristics of these people you ask?  Well let me see….they are the dream stealers and killers, the joy stealers and killers, the pessimists, the negative, the know-it-alls, the gossipers, the 1 uppers,  the holier than thou folk, the nose turner uppers, the business owner that is praying for a profit but attempting to give you advice, the ones that drive Mercedes Benz but lives at home with momma in her apartment (lol, I see you - Yes, I am talking to you, lol), the really good looking folks that dress really nice that you see out at every function, as well as the not so good looking ones that don’t dress so nice that you also see out every function and the list goes on and on!  Typically, these are people that are hurting!  People that are hurting cannot help you or your business.  Their major purpose is to see that you hurt along with them, though they would NEVER admit this.

So I always say, “look at who is judging!”  If the person that is judging you is not in a place that you would want to be in and/or has not accomplished the things that you want to accomplish, why on earth would you ever let them affect the dream that you are after?  Always stop and ask yourself, have they run their own business and turned a profit, have they been successful in network marketing (meaning made money), have they been successful at anything for that matter?  If they haven’t, you have no business allowing the words rolling off of their tongue to enter your ears.  If you allow it to come in, you’ve just become a victim of a Vampire.  Dismiss it with ease and keep chasing your dream!  After all, this is the only way you will ever make it to the finish line.  Look at who is judging….they got a lot of freaking nerve!  So not sexy!

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