Meeting a guy shouldn't be work

“It shouldn’t take this much work to meet a guy.”


That’s how I felt 7 years ago when I was single and looking for love.  I was meeting men I didn’t like but felt I couldn’t ignore my desires for marriage and family.  My love life felt like a job as I went from one singles event to another. 


After a while, dating stopped being fun – until I discovered the key to dating that made it both fun and easy to meet eligible, attractive men.


Now that I’m a relationship coach, my number 1 goal is to help single women enjoy the process of meeting ‘the one’.  


Dating can feel stressful sometimes, but honestly that’s because today we’re dating in a way that makes it virtually impossible to meet the right man.


In fact, over the past few years, I’ve counted 11 different things that keep women from meeting Mr. Right.


I’ve put together a webinar detailing these 11 roadblocks to meeting Mr. Right and I’ll be presenting it LIVE on Saturday, March 12th, 2011 at 12pm EST.


If you want to learn my simple and easy recipe for meeting Mr. Right and why what you’ve been doing hasn’t worked, get access at http://www.readytobeawife.com/webinar.html.


Until then, here are a few things to remember about dating:

  1. Dating shouldn’t feel like a job – If dating stresses you out, then you’re probably looking at it the wrong way.  When I want a good laugh, I just remember some of the crazy dates I’ve been on and the weird men who are out there (no offense if I’ve dating a relative of yours).
  2. It doesn’t take long to meet the right guy – When you know the right way to date, you’ll be surprised how quickly you meet men you could fall for.  If you’ve been actively dating for 6 months and haven’t met a few Mr. Maybe’s, something’s not right.
  3. Being clear on what you need from a relationship makes things so much easier – When you know what you need, there’s no reason to date men who don’t or won’t give it to you.  You know you better than anyone else, so ask yourself “What do I need in a relationship to feel safe, appreciated and loved?”  Date the ones who give you what you need and ignore the ones who don’t.
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