Spend Time with People Who Appreciate You whom have the "Welcome Joy Attitude"If you want to feel joyful, choose to have people in your life who:Treat you with the utmost love and respect!Want the best for you as you define it! What makes you happy.Help you find out what you want to do and how to do it!Encourage you to explore all your talents and interests!Listens to you when you need to complain without sitting in judgment!Helps you learn from failures without making you feel like a bad person...for no one can or should sit in judgment because we are all human!The group of people you associate yourself with says a lot about your character.......Who do you spend most of your time with?Ask yourself "after spending time with this person, do I feel stronger or weaker/happy or sad?" We tend to pick up on the attitudes, language and moods of the people we hang out with. I encourage you to spend less time with critical people and more time with those who appreciate you. You'll notice a difference in how you feel about yourself and how much joy you life's experiences. We all carry baggage in life's journey, there are some that bearable for us to handle but then there are some that are just too heavy of a burden.....lighten your load, be it people or circumstances....lighten your load. Stop stressing about the things you can not change, get a handle on the things that you can. Look in the mirror.....do you like what you see? Only you dear one have the power to change it....be the change that makes the difference in your life.Learn to be truly happy, be at peace in all, mind, body and spirit....because you only have one life to live and every second is truly precious and should never be wasted....being happy on a continuous basis for no particular reason - makes you feel the joy inside yourself and you naturally smile and shine as The Father intended you to be. The ultimate goal is to.......Love yourself enough to allow happiness to fully come into your life! Make positive thinking a choice in your life! Happiness and relaxation lowers anxiety, diminished pain, improved mental outlook, and increased energy and connection to the healing power within you. Connected to something that will make you feel good within.If you practice talking to yourself positively, repeating "I am worthy. I am lovable. I am good. Desirable, I am beautiful/handsome.", you can support yourself and keep moving forward in life you don't have to look for someone else to validate you or tell you who you are. For many of us we tend to let the past, haunt us from having a better future...and I am guilty of that myself. The past is the past and we can not change that but we also can not let the past limit us from having a better future. For all mistakes are the learning tool for healing. Forgive yourself or someone else and move on! Stop limiting yourself and your possibilities. Don't let fear keep you from living life...have faith to know that "The Father" will always provide a way for you, for he will never give you more than you can handle and He will always give you what you need. Yes, at times it may seem as if "The Father" has singled you out to say "Let me play this joke on him/her....let me overwhelm their life today to see just how they can handle it". Again my sisters, my brothers, my family, my friends, even to those I don't know but are reading my words, I stress to you to have Faith and Believe.Please know that what doesn't kill you surely does make your stronger for everyday we live is a life's lesson to be learned...but you have to pay attention to the signs, listen to the tiny voice that is inside of you or that gut feeling you may experience for it is there to guide you through. Release all those negative self defeating doubts about yourself or others and tell the Devil he is a liar and he has no control in your life. Ask The Father to give you strength and ask him to show you who people and situations truly are and not what you would hope them to be....stop making excuses and take off those blinders. Being angry, negative, complaining and criticizing makes you a very ugly person inside and out and it shows that there is something unsatisfying within yourself....show yourself and others your are above that which can destroy. I always stress that hurtful words can last a lifetime and can leave an invisible scar that can never be healed. Think first and please be very careful of the words you speak to others, for they can always be forgiven, they make never be forgotten....for words may not be able to kill but they surely can hurt.Always remember that you are not alone in your struggle....for there is someone else going through the same situations as you are. Never give power to or allow someone else to steal your joy. Living by design means taking care of you....Everyday! Don't ever settle for someone or something that is less than you deserve. Love, compassion and faith provide a powerful opportunity for healing to take place in your life....get to know YOU and what makes you happy. If you feel that you can not do this alone.....reach out and get you a support system....a family member, a friend, maybe someone you don' t even know who is going through the exact same thing. Often times people wear masks to disguise their true feelings. Be the change that makes a difference in your life and maybe inn someone else's. Creating a balance between mind, body and spirit creates the ability to deal peacefully with whatever life brings. Give out what you expect or want to get in return. Try each and everyday to stay in this state of peace, love, divine connectedness, and wisdom. Realize your worth, value YOU and celebrate what "The Father created you to beBe the Master of Your Own Destiny!Please remember to pass kindness onto all who may cross your path, be it family, friends, loved ones or strangers.....for you may not know just how much of a difference you can make in someone's life...please do that for me! A SMILE costs you nothing, but creates much with it's lasting effects. It enriches those who receive it, without impoverishing those who give it.In my life EVERYONE is Important! Your friendships are the blessings that binds our hearts together as ONE for a time! I am Honored to call you FAMILY & FRIEND!In the search for me, I discovered truth.In the search for truth, I discovered love.In the search for love, I discovered God.And in God, I have found EVERYTHING!Again Pass the Love and Kindness on!Much Love & Big HugsMz.Gloria
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