My reason for being single in the past: ive always seen the comfort of a man in my life as a pillar of strength, it completed me, a reason to look good every day, a reason to go out the list is endless. As you all know this is so not true these are all LIES LIES LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and if you are reading this and you can relate and you havent stop this thinking method please my dear STOPWe as single woman should use this time to get to know who we are, most importantly get closer to GOD because his the only one that can make you complete not YOU and certainly not a MAN. And another lie is men are only into pretty, sexy, slim, well groomed, well off woman the list here too is endless the person who you going to meet if he/she uses the above criteria he/she is a big NO! NO! NO! if you find that you are day after day living to please this person and you find you no longer the person you use to be YOU NEED TO GET YOUR LIFE BACK. Many married and then divorced woman will tell you that two incomplete souls equals a DISATROUS MARRIAGE hence the very high divorce rate in the world. How do we change this well, i want us to discuss this and also let this be a platform for all single non single, married woman/men to share thier stories and views on relationships in todays world. My prayer is that we will help, with the help of GOD mend those broken hearts and prevent any a broken hearts.GOD bless Colleen
You are right about it being lies. Too often people think that women dress to impress men. I think that I have always wanted to look good for me (just the way I wanted to look) I have a style that others have always commented on since I was a teen and could select my own style. I have been called Bohemian, Hippie and other names to describe my style. I've been laughed at many a times because it would be something my friends could never see themselves in as they did not see it as what everyone else was wearing. My husband met me with my own style and he has accepted and appreciate me for who I am. I'm not sure but I do believe that if one is confident in his or herself, then it would attract those who can appreciate him/her. It's not a complete fact as others do try to change others to their own preferences. However, if you remain true to your soul, your standards and not conform to impress or appease others then you can possibly find a mate that can compliment you.
I also want to mention that there is no perfect relationship as we are only perfect in our own eyes. The person you meet will not always be in a good mood, loving and affectionate. You will disagree and not necessarily like their actions at times. What you have to determine is this someone you are willing to work through life with? Do you both share an understanding that you will not always be that perfect partner? Are you both willing to share the challenges of life together? Holding each other up? It's about the couple - the two people involved - it's not about one pulling all the weight - whether it be emotionally, financially, physically....... It takes two to make it work.
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You are right about it being lies. Too often people think that women dress to impress men. I think that I have always wanted to look good for me (just the way I wanted to look) I have a style that others have always commented on since I was a teen and could select my own style. I have been called Bohemian, Hippie and other names to describe my style. I've been laughed at many a times because it would be something my friends could never see themselves in as they did not see it as what everyone else was wearing. My husband met me with my own style and he has accepted and appreciate me for who I am. I'm not sure but I do believe that if one is confident in his or herself, then it would attract those who can appreciate him/her. It's not a complete fact as others do try to change others to their own preferences. However, if you remain true to your soul, your standards and not conform to impress or appease others then you can possibly find a mate that can compliment you.
I also want to mention that there is no perfect relationship as we are only perfect in our own eyes. The person you meet will not always be in a good mood, loving and affectionate. You will disagree and not necessarily like their actions at times. What you have to determine is this someone you are willing to work through life with? Do you both share an understanding that you will not always be that perfect partner? Are you both willing to share the challenges of life together? Holding each other up? It's about the couple - the two people involved - it's not about one pulling all the weight - whether it be emotionally, financially, physically....... It takes two to make it work.