Posted by Erica Johnson on November 10, 2010 at 7:41pm
It seems like there is this huge phenomena that is going on today where single women are always saying “I love me.” They say that they love themselves however they let others mistreat them, talk down on them, take crap from other people, and mistreat themselves. This is not considered self-love.Self-love is being patient with yourself, having self-respect, speaking to yourself with kind words, and just showing appreciation to yourself. When you begin to love yourself unconditionally, then others will do the same.This topic fits so well in attracting Mr. Right. I have seen countless women always complain about the way that men treat them and how they want a man to love them unconditionally.Through my years on this earth I have learned that you train people on how to treat you. If you are always walking around calling yourself fat, stupid, and just demeaning yourself as a woman what makes you think that others won’t pick up on that and start doing the same thing.If you’ve read any of my articles you know that I talk a lot about the Law of Reflection. The Law of Reflection is the way that you treat yourself is the same way that others treat you. It basically means that your outside world is a reflection of your inside world.Ways that you can show self-love:• Speak kind words to yourself• Be considerate of your feelings• Tell yourself that you love you every morning• Demand that people respect your body, mind, and spirit• Only listen, watch, and read anything that is going to uplift your spirit• Only surround yourself with positive people who will bring you good• Tell yourself the truth• Be patient with yourselfMy assignment for you today is to do a self-evaluation on how you treat yourself. Write it down. After analyzing your self-evaluation figure out what you need to improve on. Make a task list and get to taking immediate action.Do you need help in this area with attracting Mr. Right? Visit www.guidingu2success.com and schedule your Free Get Acquainted Call where you can ask key questions and talk about solutions free of charge.
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