Often times I hear it said by man ythat they feel like everyone around them is out to harm them. I also see these same people, continue to exhibit self destructive and non constructive behavior. They are unable to maintain any healthy relationships. They are insecure and they seem to find joy in the act of self pity. They struggle with forgiveness and are unable to accept the blame for many of the wrong turns that they have taken in life.
So, again I ask… Are YOU the Common Denominator?
It is imperative that we take an extensive look at ourselves on a regular basis to establish what type of person we would like to project ourselves to be. Do you want to be someone who lives a lonely and destitute life, lacking of true friendship, true happiness and the knowledge of self worth? If you answered NO to any of these questions, there is help. But it starts with you.
Once you realize that you have the power to change these obstacles, then and only then can you begin to change them. It is absolutely necessary to remove the blinders from your eyes, the plugs from your ears and the hardness from your heart.
The world is not out to get you, It is not everyone else………the Common Denominator is YOU!!
If you have a problem with keeping friends……..There is a reason!
If you have a problem maintaining healthy relationships…..There is a reason!
If you can’t seem to find true joy in your life……There is a reason!
If you find yourself isolated……..There is a reason!
First you must find the root of the problem and then you can trim the dead leaves and branches and establish a healthier life that grows better with time!
Don’t be afraid to ask for help if needed. We can’t do it all on our own!!
Stop being the Common Denominator!!
Randa Johnson
"Helping You Brand the Best You"
