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The Lord Is Not Your Husband - Lord Yes, Lover No

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 22, 2009 at 1:43am

From the author of:The Family In The CarA RevelationTheLordIs NotYourHusbandLord yes, Lover noComing Spring, 2009!Placed in human beings are the needs and desires necessary for reproduction. Along with these natural desires, comes personal gratification, as well as, pleasure. All of these are important to the continuance of the life cycle. Without them, humanity would become extinct.Someone once said that they believed God purposely made sex pleasurable so that procreation would come with ease and there would be no problem in keeping the world populated. As you can see, the world does not have that problem, whatsoever.It is completely normal for women to have desires to be loved physically. Women are physical beings with fleshly needs.For so long, the church has made it taboo for a woman to embrace those physical needs, wants and desires, as if they were types of diseases of some sort. Women have felt the isolation that came with the forbidden, especially the single women.Why has the church continued to propel this false ideology that God was a woman's all in all and if they had Jesus, it was enough? Why hasn't the church come forth in a greater force to make an effort in the liberation of these females? How can a fleshly need such sexual satisfaction be met in something spiritual and sacred? God is a spirit and people are flesh.No matter how many times they repeat "Devil you are a liar" and "Get thee behind me Satan", the needs are still there. Women are walking around wondering what's wrong with them. With all the rebuking and binding, they can't seem to get rid of those sinful, nasty desires. Why?Women have suffered long enough; from self hatred and not feeling good enough, some even to the point of annihilation.Stop asking that your internal desires be removed and just accept the fact that you are wonderfully and marvelously made.It's Time You Set Yourself Free!Copyright (c) 2009All rights reservedBrenda Farrar-EjemaiCEO, Favor Blooms, LLCBoard, United Black Writers Associationwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comwww.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecarISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7

The Heart That Keeps On Beating

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 16, 2009 at 1:34am

THE HEART THAT KEEPS ON BEATINGIt has the most important job. Wounded yet it never skips a beat. There is no gluing or stitching involved, it just continues to work, as if oblivious to attacks.It’s a wonder and many are in awe of it. It’s the pumper of life.Sometimes it’s carelessly handled and is crushed easily.Many are not conscious of its fragileness. It is the holder of emotions and takes a direct hit when trampled upon.Shattered, broken and cracked in many places, however never giving up. It’s as if it has hope that tomorrow will offer it a chance to mend itself.The actions of it are involuntary and are easily taken for granted. There can be times when one is not aware of it, yet it continues to perform its duties.It pumps life and must pump on in spite of circumstances.Second by second, minute by minute, day by day, week by week, year by year, it keeps on beating, refusing to succumb to the blows of life.Copyright © 2009Brenda Farrar-Ejemai(Author of: The Family in the Car, A Revelation)CEO, Favor Blooms, LLCwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comwww.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecarISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7

You Alone

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 15, 2009 at 3:58pm

You AloneYou wish to move that block of stone,to make an opening,to pave a way.You steadily push it before you.Sometimes you tire.But somehow, within, you find the strength to push.Your walk is like beach sand.IT IS ONLY YOUCopyright © 2009Brenda Farrar-Ejemai(author of: The Family In The Car, A Revelation)CEO, Favor Blooms, LLCwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7trailer: www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

Existing

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 15, 2009 at 3:57pm

ExistingNoises, curses, poverty all aroundThere’s hardly a moment when there is no sound.Sad faces, stagnation, ambitions low.Nothing is fast, it all seems so slow.Copyright © 2009Brenda Farrar-Ejemai(author of: The Family In The Car, A Revelation)CEO, Favor Blooms, LLCwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7trailer: www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

A Blank Sheet

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 15, 2009 at 3:56pm

A Blank SheetThey enter blameless into this world, like a blank sheet of paper.New, fresh, clean, spotless,Just waiting to be written on,Who will be the first to write?Will it be Ms. Incest, Mr. and Mrs. Poverty, Madam Rape to name a few?Or, maybe Sir Death will sign in before the others do.Copyright © 2009Brenda Farrar-Ejemai(author of: The Family In The Car, A Revelation)CEO, Favor Blooms, LLCwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7trailer: www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

How Do You Really Feel?

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 15, 2009 at 3:55pm

How Do You Really Feel?Good morning.How are you?I’m fine.How are you?Are you always fine when you say those words?Or are you being repetitious in your everyday greetings.If you stop to say how you really feel,Your morning greetings might turn into evening goodnights.Copyright © 2009Brenda Farrar-Ejemai(author of: The Family In The Car, A Revelation)CEO, Favor Blooms, LLCwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7trailer: www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

Holding On

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 15, 2009 at 3:54pm

Holding OnReaching, reaching I can’t stop now.I have got to make it no matter how.Stepping stepping, I’ve got to keep the paceGrace, more grace to run this race.Copyright © 2009Brenda Farrar-Ejemai(author of: The Family In The Car, A Revelation)CEO, Favor Blooms, LLCwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7trailer: www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

Caged

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 15, 2009 at 3:53pm

CagedFreedom to dwell wherever I treadNot confined to locations with boundariesZoning, districts, busingUnleash me so I can roam freeTo see mountains and rivers and trees of all sortsTo open up and breathe in fresh airSomewhere where the sky is not blockedbut in plain viewUncage me so I can go FREE.Copyright © 2009Brenda Farrar-Ejemai(author of: The Family In The Car, A Revelation)CEO, Favor Blooms, LLCwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7trailer: www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

THE STORM BEFORE THE CALM

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 15, 2009 at 3:52pm

The Storm before the CalmSirens blowingPeople rushingHorns blowingAccidentsViolenceBody partsWhole bodiesGuard dogsCrack vialsWindow barsCar alarmsCries for helpPit bullsHomelessnessDon’t careCouldn’t carStray bulletsAmbulancesEmergency roomsBody bagsOh! So many body bagsNo timeOn timeToo lateThe world is sick and is in need of a physician.Copyright © 2009Brenda Farrar-Ejemai(author of: The Family In The Car, A Revelation)CEO, Favor Blooms, LLCwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7trailer: www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

When Night Falls

Posted by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai on March 15, 2009 at 3:51pm

When Night FallsWhen night falls, do you have a place to lay your head?Or do you search for a cubby hole or a card board box to crawl into?Maybe you’re blessed enough to have relatives or friends,Or maybe you’re not.While it is day, it’s okayYou can walk the streets or seek shelter in a mall or restaurant.But when night falls,It’s natural to find a place to lie.While others are going into their abodes and shutting the doors,You seek a safe, warm, refuge just to lay your head.Copyright © 2009Brenda Farrar-Ejemai(author of: The Family In The Car, A Revelation)CEO, Favor Blooms, LLCwww.TheFamilyInTheCar.comISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7trailer: www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

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