Karma - what goes around comes around.Watch what you do to others because it will come back to you. Don’t burn your bridges; you never know when you may see them again or need them again. You don’t want to have a bad reputation with that person. Men, be careful what you do to women. A woman scorn is dangerous. She’s not just dangerous because you hurt her, now she is armed with the “I don’t give a fuck syndrome”. She doesn’t care what man she hurts or what she does as long as she is in control.Men and women operate differently. Men don’t try to get even; they do more “in your face” kinds of disrespects. Women, in turn, will only put what she has done in your face if she wants you to catch her. You may get a situation like this: you come home one day from working really hard expecting dinner to be done, and your wife has another man in the house. He is sitting there with his shoes off, and she is in the shower. What do you do? She has had enough of your bullshit. It doesn’t feel good, so you get mad and drag her ass out the shower to find out that it is her sister. Feel stupid, huh? She tells you that your wife went to the store to buy some food to cook for the evening. She had no reason to be at home in the shower with another man there. Just the thought of her with another man has got you fired up. That is the exact reason why you shouldn’t do things to people that you don’t want them to do to you. If you were paying attention to the Payroll section in Chapter 7, then you would know that, as women, we have mastered that concept. Here is an example of how Karma is always lurking out to get you; a true story from our own lives:CONSEQUENCESLet’s start with the men since they seem to be the worst at getting caught. Men do not seem to understand the power of a scorned woman. Your wife may be the nicest, sweetest woman that you’ve ever met, but let her get fed up with you and see what happens. The same woman who will set a bug free before trying to kill it is the same woman that will put your butt in the hospital. Men think that their pride is a big deal, but it’s much bigger for women. Men yell and fight over trying to protect their pride. Women put Windex in your cereal and then drive your ass to the ER. As much as that woman loves you, she is capable of hating you with the same intensity. Men work hard and play hard, but women love hard and hate harder. Once you have put hate in a woman’s heart, you can hang it up.Women are sneaky and conniving. This is not a secret; you all know it’s true. You just don’t think that your woman is capable of being like the rest, poor naïve sole. Your woman is no different than the others. You can only push her so far before she breaks. Snapped, it comes on every Sunday. Some women can take more than others. I personally take pride in how strong I have been in my relationships, but others are not so lucky. It does not matter how well you think you know your woman; you have no idea where her breaking point truly is. We have very vivid imaginations and we will re-play things in our head over and over again. We say we forgive and forget, but we never ever forget. What you have done has now given us a free pass to do whatever the hell we want to do. What could you say? Nothing! I’m not saying that she is going to cheat on you, but she might. I’m just saying that things are going to change. She knows what makes you happy. She knows what pisses you off, which means she knows exactly what to do to ruin your life. Women as a whole don’t believe in walking away; they believe in getting even.FIND OUT MORETUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?
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Men think they know the game, and I won’t deny the fact they play it well; but they learned from the best -- women! That’s right, I said it! If men could do it alone, GOD would not have made a woman to help him. Stop with the ego trippin’ fellas. We ladies have the gift of giving birth, so we are born with a powerful tool. No need to get into that, you should already know. For those who don’t know, you’re slow! We love you, we teach you, and guide you; but just as easy, we can dismiss you.Men, there is in no comparison in the game when a woman is playing. Let me break it down for those who seem to think they have mastered it. Woman can be gullible because we tend to share our feelings more than men; But when it comes to pain, we can handle it with the best of them. Don’t confuse this type of behavior for weakness. Don’t be fooled because a woman will cheat on you. We don’t cheat for sport like men. Women cheat for other reason, especially when we are hurt. What men don’t understand is a true pimp-tress does not sleep around like a mistress or tramp. A pimp-tress can get what she wants, while keeping her respect.Pimp-tress - a woman who can obtain single men who can offer her pleasure and or entertainment in return.Mistress - a woman who can only use her pussy for evil by borrowing other women’s men. She is weak minded and pathetic. Her daddy forgot to tell her she is pretty, and give her hugs and kisses. Ultimately, she’s searches for that fulfillment no matter how or whom she gets it from.Now that you know the difference, let’s move on. Every woman knows her own strengths and weaknesses when it comes to a man. Therefore, every man is treated differently. It is a great feeling when you enter a room, and people stop what they are doing to see who you are. For ugly girls, they look at you because they don’t understand how you got like that.Then, there is the monkey bar effect, which stems from women getting what they want from a particular type of man. For example, your man is strong, passionate, and sexy as hell, but he tends to step out of bounds from time to time. When it happens, and you are not getting the attention that you need, get a substitute, a need-filler. He comes over when needed, and he doesn’t nag you. He loves spending time with you regardless of your sexual activity together. He knows about your man, but he knows his limits and his place. Chapter 3, read it as many times and you need to. Listen up fellas, we don’t like being lied to and cheated on. You would never find out about us, unless we want you to know. For us, honesty is always the key. Trust and believe that anyone we swing to, while still obtaining your attention, will indeed know about you. Everyone is on the payroll!Payroll - a list of employees willing to work at the employers expectationsSUCESSFUL PAYROLLRULES OF ENGAGEMENTDo not allow your men to just pop up at your house.Give them limits.Make sure they do not overlap each other on any given day.Always make each one feel as if he is the one.He must know that you need him; this will keep him around.He must respect that fact that you need your space.All your men should be able to blend in together.You can’t date any of his friends or family.He must be of legal age. (19 yrs old is not grown)FIND OUT MORE INTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?
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First and foremost ladies, a man will only do what you will allow him to do. On some real talk right now, we gave men their game and put them onto the hustle. The word here is WE! We are the reason they play this game. We are their hustle. On that note, let me introduce you to a man’s hustle, women.Men walk around this world thinking that they run it. Because of women, they try to. A man will tell you what you want to hear, as well as attempt to make you feel like you have his attention and his trust. We all know the real reason in most cases, G.T.D. (get the draws). Either in their cells phones or a little black book, they will have a minimum of 50 females. Now if he doesn’t, this is the man that may be on track, or who knows how to keep his numbers low, so he doesn’t cause too much of a stir up between our species.Have you ever known a man to lie, cheat and deceive you? Well ladies, we all know they are capable of it. Men have just as much insecurity as we do, maybe even more. The truth is a man scorn is hell to pay because they hate or resentment women, which is either caused by a poor upbringing, or a woman who has stomped all over his heart. You first have to understand where his mind is at. There is no use in playing games with this man; he is a hunter from birth, and we all know hunters love to stalk their prey. Learn who your opponent is and watch his approach.FIND OUT MORE IN OUR BOOKTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?
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YOU CAN FIND OUT MORE IN OUR BOOKTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?“Love him or leave him but never feel that you need him.”KNOW YOUR PLACE, MISTRESSIf you are going to be a mistress, you need to know your place. You do not have any rights to this man. He already has a woman, and all rights are reserved for her. Remember, if he wanted to be with you, you would have the title. There are rules that you have to follow.Rule # 1: Never feel that you are better than his wife.If you are so much better than the woman that he is with, why is he not with you completely? The answer is simple, you’re not better. Wifey is forever; a mistress is always temporary.Rule #2: Never refer to him as “your man”.He is not your man. You cannot give a man the title when he already holds it somewhere else. Women think that just because a man spends time with you, he loves you. He doesn’t love you! (at least not on that level) He tells you what you want to hear. In reality, he spends time with you because he can. Maybe the sex is good, or maybe you have good conversation. WARNING: YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY WOMAN WITH GOOD PUSSY WHO CAN HOLD A CONVERSATION. As soon as you mess up, he will find the next girl to replace you. Mistresses are always replaceable.Rule # 3: Never call his wife.Who do you think you are? Oh you forgot … you are the mistress! Why mess up things in his home because you caught feelings? All you do is make yourself look stupid. A real man will always take care of home first. Either he is going to deny you all together, or he is going to tell his woman that you are someone that he used to mess with who won’t leave him alone. Now you are sitting at your house waiting on his phone call while he is at home trying to make things right with his wife. She gets all the attention that you wanted and still has the man on her arm.Rule # 4: Know your limits.Mistresses are limited. You cannot hang out with his friends. You cannot go to his house. If he is with someone in public and he doesn’t speak to you first, keep walking. If he wanted you to know the person that he was with, he would introduce you. You are what we like to call “part time pussy”. When you start trying to go out together, things get messy.Rule #5: You cannot get mad when he says he has to go home.Why get mad when you know the situation going into it? Once again, a real man will always take care of home first. Staying the night is never an option.
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THIS IS A LIL SHORT STORY WE CAME UP WITH ABOUT TAKING SOMEONES CHOICE AWAY AND THE CONSEQUENCES THAT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.CHECK OUT THE TITLEGET IT? HIV/AIDS.HER ITCHY VAGINAAND ITS DISASTERIOUS SIDEFFECTSDemetrius leaves his home one day, angry at his wife. “She just doesn’t understand me”, he thinks to himself.” Driving for 15 minutes, Demetrius decides to stop for happy hour at a local bar. He orders a long island ice-tea and a Corona beer then sits at a table.The waiter tells him that the young lady by the DJ booth would like to come and sit with him. He agrees, and she walks over slowly with the wind in her light brown hair. She stood 5 ‘7, and the Pleasures perfume on her silky skin reached his nose 2 seconds before she said hello. He stands and introduces himself.Demetrius: Hello, my name is Demetrius, but you can call me Dee.Clamytriah: I’m ClamytriahDemetrius: Thanks for the beer.Clamytriah: I saw that you were sitting alone, and since I was alone I figured we could share some space together.Demetrius: That’s sweet of you.Clamytriah: So are you single?Note: Now, he can tell her the truth or lie about his wife, Tiffany, waiting on him at home.Demetrius: Yes, I am single. I live alone. How about yourself?Clamytriah: Yes, I am also single and live alone.Time passes, 3 years to be exact. Demetrius and Clamytriah become very close. The sex is unbelievable and her conversations intrigue him. He is always going out of town to see her.One day, she decides to surprise him since she never comes to visit him. Not knowing of her arrival, Demetrius let’s her in while his wife is out. Tiffany comes in from church early to find Demetrius and Clamytriah laying in her bed.Tiffany: What the hell is going on?Demetrius: Baby!Clamytriah: Who is that Dee?Demetrius: My wife!Clamytriah: Your wife! How long has this been going on?Tiffany: 15 years, bitch!Clamytriah: I’m so sorry! We’ve been together 3 years, and I had no idea.Tiffany: 3 years Dee?! Are you serious right now?! How could you?!Shocked to find out that Demetrius was married, Clamytriah slaps him and grabs her clothes proceeding to leave the house, but not before Tiffany got a hold of her. You do the math. Clamytriah, embarrassed and with her ass whooped, intends to slash Demetrius tires on her way out.Demetrius: Baby, I’m sorry. I didn’t mean for this to go on this long.Clamytriah: Whatever!The front door slams and the air from his tires are released. A week later, Tiffany and Demetrius decide to take an STD test. She refuses to make her marriage work let alone sleep with her husband again without it. Meanwhile, Clamytriah decides to get tested as well. She wonders what other secrets he may not have told her.The results are in, and Tiffany cannot believe it, AIDS. Demetrius calls Clamytriah to inform her.Demetrius: Hey! I know that I am the last person you want to talk to right now, but I have something to tell you.Clamytriah: What Dee?Demetrius: I have AIDS, and you should get tested.Clamytriah: I know.Demetrius: How do you know?Clamytriah: I have HIV.Demetrius: Why didn’t you tell me?Clamytriah: For the same reason you didn’t tell me you had a wife of 15 years.The phone disconnects.Moral to the story: Don’t take my choice away.Can you figure out who gave who the disease?
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WE ALL KNOW SOME MISTRESSES, THEY MAY BE SOME OF OUR CLOSEST FRIENDS. WELL PUT AN END TO THE DISRESPECT. IDENTIFY HER ASS.MORE IN THE TUG-OF-WAR, WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?TYPES OF MISTRESSESMs. MySpaceThis woman doesn’t have sex with the men, but has an online relationship based on how his page looks. She will check your page every day, always questioning who your top friends are and who left comments about you. Talking to her is for pure entertainment. She may leave a message that intrigues you, but that is where it should stay. She has nothing else better to do with her time. When you sign in, you will always see her online. As soon as you sign in, she is hitting your page up with a comment or in your MySpace IM window.Lady Luv – “Hey boo! I miss u!”How serious is she? Very serious, and she needs the attention. This is what you have to do if you don’t want this situation to turn ugly. Yes, I said ugly! She can be lethal if you are in a relationship with a woman who checks your page.Ok, let me break it down for those that seem to be intellectually challenged. This chick is going to get mad if you don’t talk to her often, and when you have a chance to chitchat, she is in love with you. She preys on your page, looking out for any females saying anything too slick. Ms. MySpace will not tolerate disrespect from you. You told her she looked good, and how you want to kiss her body from the tip of her head to the bottom of her feet; so comments to other females won’t compare to how you talk to her as long as you don’t say the same things to those other girls. Watch out if she finds a comment she doesn’t like. You will go to your inbox one day to find a lot of your female friends upset that a chick has been on their page asking questions about why they are leaving messages for her man and how she doesn’t appreciate that. Now you have to clean up the situation.MySpace isn’t that serious people! It’s purely entertainment; put some pictures up, play some music, and give folks a little insight about your likes and dislikes. Blog and post videos you enjoy. Sitting at a desk cyber-stalking should be a crime. LOL. Read a book, find a hobby, knit a shirt, or go outside and pick up some trash. All these things will help you become a better person; not worrying about what other people are doing. It’s their page, and you have no control over what they talk about and whom they share small talk with.Ms. Itchy ItchyBe aware of this one. She is one bitter individual. The cause of her STD came from a man who she put her trust in. She met him one day at the park, and he swept her off her feet telling her how he is like no other. “I love you baby,” he proclaimed. His seduction came without notice. Overwhelmed, she gave in to his mocha complexion, the African musk cologne he sprayed on his body, and his sweet kisses that left her breathless. Months past and she notices a feminine itch that won’t go away with over the counter products. Rushing to the hospital like her life depended on it, she tells the doctor her dilemma. Tests are performed, and the results take a week to return. She’s worried and scared of what it may be, and what she may do. The phone rings and nervously she answers,Ms. Itchy Itchy: Hello.Doctor: Yes may I speak to Ms. Williams?Ms. Itchy Itchy: This is she. May I ask who is calling?Doctor: Yes ma’am, this is nurse Uburnin from the Comanche County Medicare One. I have your test results.Ms. Itchy Itchy: (She swallows the lump in her throat.) Ok. They are?Doctor: I’m sorry to say, but you have Chlamydia.You have done the wrong thing to the wrong girl. She will take her rage out on every man that comes in her life, thereafter. Naïve, she still will have unprotected sex leading her to the hospital on numerous occasions for different types of STDs. Wash chick, and protect yourself! Stop thinking that is all you have to offer a man.Ms. Lady Luv “Temporary Replacement”This is a disrespectful bitch. She is the one who knows that you are married and doesn’t care because she is trying to replace your wife. What she doesn’t understand is that when you have a wife already, you can’t replace her. She will do anything to ruin your relationship. She will call your wife to discuss the sex you and her shared, and will proclaim that you don’t please him anymore, but she does. She will believe that she is the best choice for him because she cooks and cleans as a wife would do; but she is sneaky and vindictive.She falls in love easily, and has more than one child with more than one baby daddy, which is normal for her. Comparing her looks with your wife’s is a subliminal message that screams for your attention. She needs to feel that you need her more than you need your wife. Having sex with you is a competition. She will do anything short of dying to make you believe her sex is golden. Her selective memory fools her into believing he is leaving his wife. Spending too much time with her will cause a problem. She will need you around all the time reassuring her that you love her. When the decision is made to break off the relationship with this woman, NO will not be a tolerated answer. Her moods will be unstable, and she will become a stalker.Ms. Top SecretI love this girl. She is the best mistress of all time, and all the rules apply to her. She is attractive and smart. She has everything that you would want in a woman. She loves everything that you love right down to your favorite sports team. She is a female version of the male buddy. She doesn’t call your house bothering your livelihood nor does she care if you leave your wife. “Your marriage is your problem!” Her payroll consists of you and countless others that make her life better. She is an occasional sex buddy. The conversations you two have are more than sexual; you share a friendship. She will guide you to make the right decisions in your marriage because she wants nothing from you. She has a man of her own, therefore, your issues don’t amuse her. Public appearances won’t faze her. You and your wife can walk down the street, and she will keep walking as if she didn’t see you. She doesn’t have different baby daddies. She is classy and takes care of herself. Unprotected sex is never an option for her. She would never risk her health for a temporary penis. She loves spending time with you, but is in no way in love with you. You don’t see her often because she has to take care of her own home, but when you do spend time with her, it’s amazing. Cheating is one of the worse things that you could ever do, but if you’re going to do it, do it with her.
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TYPES OF MENHERE A FEW TYPES OF MEN WE DESCRIBE IN OUR BOOK,IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO KNOW MORE PICK UPTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?The StripperThe stripper is an interesting man that comes from many different backgrounds. The main thing that you need to know about a stripper is that he’s a hoe. Maybe there’s one or two in the world that are faithful, but I surely don’t know any. If temptation plus opportunity equals disaster, their world is set up for them to fail. A stripper is a local celebrity, and pussy is thrown at them every day. Have you ever been to a male strip show? If there are 100 women there, I guarantee that 79 of them are willing to have sex with him that night. Can you really blame them for being whores? Men are not capable of turning down that many women in one setting. It’s impossible!All strippers will tell you the same thing,” yea, I see other guys who are out there, but I’m not like them”. They’re going to tell you that once you’ve been in it for a while that it is easy to turn sex down. They’ll tell you that it gets old. “I get in, get my money and leave.” BULL SHIT! If you are dating a stripper and you believe that he is being faithful to you, then you have not learned anything from this book. Put it down and walk away now. Strippers are only good for sex. You are able to play out all your fantasies. Let him get dressed up and spin on a pole. When he’s done, make him leave. What else is he good for, Conversation? It’s easy to find a man with good conversation who doesn’t take his clothes off for a dollar. I’m not saying that male strippers are bad people; I’m just saying that making one your man is a big no, no.The BuddyThe buddy (friend with benefits) is a must have on your payroll. This is completely different from a booty call. A booty call is strictly sex! You’re attracted to him, but you barely like him. Men come and go, but a buddy is forever. This is the man who is your best friend. Having a male friend will open your eyes to the game in ways that you can’t imagine. You can tell him anything. He’s just like your best female friend, but he has a penis. He gives you the best of both worlds. You are able to sleep with him with a clear conscious because unlike these other men, you really trust him.I have heard that friends with benefits never work because someone always catches feelings. The reason that happens is people do not follow the rules. When you have a buddy, the friendship is your number one priority. Once sex has become your priority, your relationship is ruined. Occasional sex only; maybe one or two times a month tops. The buddy cannot be someone who you dated in the past or someone you want to date. Women are always confusing good sex with emotion. We have to stop that! Let it be what it is and leave it alone. If you get upset when he goes on dates, then he cannot be your buddy. You should be able to go on a double date with him and not feel any kind of resentment.If you’re doing it right, no one in the room will have a clue that you’re sleeping together. Your buddy is your secret. Only your closest friends know what’s going on between you. The key to having a buddy is making sure that you have other male friends who are truly just friends. If he is your only male friend, it will look suspicious; but if you have many male friends, then he just blends in. The only times you give up having sex with your buddy is when you’re married, but keep him as a friend just in case. Like I said, men come and go but a buddy….Cream PuffThe cream puff is kind of like the mamma’s boy. The mamma’s boy runs to mamma all the time, but the cream puff runs to you. The cream puff is so mushy that it drives you crazy. He can’t make a decision without you. He’s 80% bitch and 20% punk dressed up like a man. Hurting his feelings is an everyday thing. If you don’t give him a hug when he walks in the door, his whole day is messed up. He calls you five times a day just to tell you that he misses you. Don’t get me wrong; the cream puff is nice to have around. He compliments you all the time. To him, you are the best woman in the world. Keep him on the payroll.Whenever you’re having a bad day and you need someone to kiss your ass, call him. You can only take him in dosages, though. If you spend more than three days out of the week with this man, he will become dependent on you. There is nothing sadder than seeing a grown man dependent on a female. The cream puff feels everything that you say and everything that you do is a direct reflection of him. If another man tries to talk to you, he’ll say that you’re disrespecting him. If you tell him to hold on, he’ll think you’re putting someone else before him. This is truly a sad excuse for a man. He was a lesbian in his past life and hasn’t been able to shake it off. I wouldn’t be surprised if this man cries during sex because “it’s so beautiful”.The GOODY GOODYThis guy is the exception to every rule. I want you to think about the man that still gives you butterflies every time you talk to him; the guy that makes you smile when someone mentions his name; or the guy that all of your friends know about, even if you haven’t talked to him in years. If you have to think about it too hard, you do not have a Goody Goody. There is no need to think about who this man is and how important he is in your life. He introduced you to the game.The Goody Goody is a spectacular man, perfect in every way. His smell, his touch, everything about him is amazing. He can do no wrong. He can call you while he is with another female, tell you to be at his house in an hour, and you’ll be there in 40 minutes with heels on. Sex with this man is incredible. He can make you do things that you would never consider doing with anyone else. Even though the sex is great, it is not the best part of him. There is something about his presence. When he walks in the room, everyone notices, and he is well respected. You cannot be in public without running into someone who knows him. He is accomplished and independent; which is why there is nothing that you can do for him, and he knows it. He’s conceded, but you can’t blame him because he’s so damn fine. You will never see him looking a mess. He is always dressed from head to toe.Yes, he’s a player, but you don’t even care. There is nothing he can do that will make you upset with him. If he messes up, all he has to do is touch your face and you’ll forget everything that you wanted to say. The way that young girls feel about Chris Brown is the way that you feel about this man. You find his favorite cologne and spray it on your sheets just so you can smell him when you’re in your bed. You might go as far as to make other guys wear the cologne, so you can think about the Goody Goody while you’re with him. He has a key to your car and your house with his own section in the kitchen filled with the foods that he likes. You will spend your last $50 on a shirt for him before you will pay your electric bill.This all sounds really crazy to someone who has not had the privilege of having a Goody Goody, but to the young ladies who have experienced it, they know exactly what I’m talking about. The Goody Goody is not your husband; he is not the guy that you are meant to spend your life with. You would love to be with him forever, but you know that it would never work. You allow this man to turn you into something that you’re not. This man runs all over you, and that can’t work in a long-term relationship; but then again, he is the Goody Goody so you’ll fight for it anyway. No one can ever say anything bad about this man around you. You defend him more than you defend yourself. You love him in a way that cannot be described in words.
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THE LAWS OF THE LANDThe following is a list of some of the states that have laws against adultery and infidelity. If you need further information, please refer to the reference section to find the links.Alabama - If any man and woman live together in adultery or fornication, each of them must, on the conviction of the offense, be fined not less than $100, and may also be imprisoned in the county jail or sentenced to hard labor for the county for not more than six months and no more than $300.Colorado - Any sexual intercourse by a married individual other than with that individual’s spouse is considered adultery and in your state it is prohibited.California - Sexual intercourse committed by a married woman with a man other than her husband is looked at as offense against public morals, not merely as a breach of the obligation of marriage.Florida - If you live in Florida and you commit adultery, you’ll end up behind bars; adultery will land you a two year prison sentence. You might be better off sleeping with an orange.Hawaii - when such act is committed between a married man and a woman who is unmarried, the man shall be deemed guilty of adultery.Illinois - If you decided that sex with someone other than your spouse makes the world go around, then considered it worth going to prison for 5 years. Adultery is a crime!Maryland - Adultery is punishable by a fine of $10. That being said, such statutes are typically considered blue laws and are rarely, if ever, enforced.Michigan - In Michigan’s Court of Appeals, the states second-highest court, ruled that a little-known provision of state criminal law means that adultery carries a potential life sentence. Keep playing if you want too.North Carolina - If any man and woman, not being married to each other, shall lewdly and lasciviously associate, bed and cohabit together, they shall be guilty of a Class 2 misdemeanor: provided, that the admissions or confessions of one shall not be received in evidence against the other.Pennsylvania - Adultery is technically punishable by 2 years of imprisonment or 18 months of treatment for insanitySouth Carolina - Any man or woman who shall be guilty of the crime of adultery or fornication shall be liable to indictment and, on conviction, shall be severally punished by a fine of not less than one hundred dollars nor more than five hundred dollars or imprisonment for not less than six months nor more than one year or by both fine and imprisonment, at the discretion of the court.Oklahoma - Adultery is a state law. Adultery is an offense against the marriage relation. This type of offense is punishable, and decided in the courts of the state. In Oklahoma, Adultery is a felony.Utah - Ladies and gentlemen, please note that if you live in Utah and you commit an act of adultery, it can land you a three year prison sentence.Wisconsin - If a married person has sexual intercourse with a person who is not his/her spouse, both parties commit the crime of adultery. Under Wisconsin law (WI Statute 944.16), adultery is a Class I felony. The penalty for a Class I Felony is a fine of up to $10,000, or imprisonment of up to 3-1/2 years, or both; however, for a repeat offender, the term of imprisonment may increase up to 2 years with prior misdemeanor convictions, and up to 6 years with a prior felony conviction.United States Military-In the U.S. Military, adultery is a potential court-martial offense, only if the actions of the accused were "to the prejudice of good order and discipline" or "of a nature to bring discredit upon the armed forces". This law has been applied to cases where both partners were members of the military, particularly where one was in command of the other, or one partner and the other's spouse.
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ADULTERY - voluntary sexual intercourse a married person and one who is not his or her spouse. Some legal jurisdictions have defined it as "crime against marriage”.ALIENATION OF AFFECTION - lawsuit is one in which a spouse can sue a third party if his or her partner leaves the relationship for another person.BITCH - an immoral, malicious, spiteful, overbearing and unpleasant woman.BOOTYCALL CHICK - a woman used only for sexual services, only select occasions.CHEATING - to be sexually unfaithful.COMMITMENT - an agreement or pledge to do something in the future.CONSEQUENCES - something produced by a cause or necessarily following from a set of conditions.CUNNILINGUS - oral stimulation of the vulva or clitoris.FAST FOOD CHICK - a woman readily available to be quickly influenced by food prepared quickly.FELLATIO - oral stimulation of the penis.FORGIVENESS - to give up resentmentGAME - activity engaged in for diversion or amusement.HATER - to express or feel extreme enmity or active hostility.HUSBAND - a male partner in a marriage.HUSTLE - to lure less skillful players into competing against oneself.INFIDELITY - unfaithfulness to a moral obligationITCHY ITCHY CHICK - a woman who has an STD and continues fucking without protection.INTEGRITY - a code of moral values.KARMA - what goes around comes around.LIES - to have a place in relation to something else secretly.LOVE - strong affection for another person based on admirations and tenderness felt by lovers.LOYALTY - the quality or state or an instance of being loyal.LUST - an intense longing, unbridled sexual desire.MICROWAVE CHICK - a female who is quick to give up sex for that one night and or for that one moment and never used again.MISCHIEVOUS - able or tending to cause annoyance.MISTRESS - a woman other than his wife with whom a married man has a continuing sexual relationship.MOBESITY - a woman that is morbidly obese (fat bitch).MONKEY BAR AFFECT - the skill of a woman that can handle more than one man at any given time to support her hustle and or game.PALIMONY - is an award of support, similar to alimony, in which the couple were not married but lived together for a long period and then terminated their relationship.PAY OFF - process of terminating services from a man who deems himself not useful.PAYROLL - Employees willing to work for your expectations.PIMPTRESS - a woman who can obtain single men who can offer her pleasure and or entertainment in return.RAVENOUS - very eager or greedy.REPAIR KIT - the process in when a man has done substantial damage to his relationship, now willing to come together.SHREK CHICK - a woman who is ugly, wishing will only make you hope she looks better.SODEMIZE - anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex.STALKER - to pursue obsessively and to the point of harassmentSTD - sexually transmitted disease.TEMPORARY REPLACEMENT - a woman who is just around for entertainment purposes for a man who is married, yet she wants the position as the wife.TEMPTATIONS - a cause or occasion of enticement.TRUTH - sincerity in actions in accordance with facts, characters of true statements and propositions.WIFE - a female partner in a marriage.
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“True forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past could have been different.”The idea for So Above Mistress started when we were in a very low place. Our husbands cheated, and we moved in together. Our husbands did us wrong, but we were the one’s struggling. You know we had it bad when we had to go grocery shopping in other people’s refrigerators. I can’t speak for anyone else, but I know I was angry. I felt that my whole life had been taken from me because my husband wanted to have a mistress. I remember sitting in our living room discussing our situation, and the heart ache that we felt. I said “you break it; you buy it,” and Angie came back with “Alimony”. That statement stuck in our minds, and we went the next week to get it on a welcome mat. There was something about seeing that mat every day that made us feel good. For the first time, we were able to laugh at our situation.That one saying turned into a number of sayings. We realized that there were other women in the world that felt the way that we did, and that we should share our ideas with the world. We started our business and haven’t looked back since. The words So Above Mistress have taken on a life of its own. So Above Mistress is no longer just the name of our business, it is the definition of who we are.So Above Mistress is exactly what the name says; knowing that you are better than just being the other woman. I know hate is a strong word, but I hate mistresses. Being a woman gives us power. We have the pussy, we make the rules. It angers me to see women lower themselves for a man, especially when the man belongs to someone else. I have no respect for women who don’t respect themselves. I’m sorry, but if you are willing to give yourself to a married man, to me you’re worthless. I don’t care what he said to you or how he made you feel. The moment that he tells you he’s married, you need to walk away.There are good men out there; I know a few great ones. Women get so caught up in trying to find a man; they accept whatever man they can get. I’m better than that, and if that makes me better than you, so be it. Either I’m number one, or I’m nothing at all. If a man has a wife, it should tell you two big things right away; he lies and he cheats. If you are still willing to entertain a relationship with a married man, maybe you should ask yourself what’s wrong with you. Are you too simple to have a complete thought and figure it out?Men play games, lie, and are full of shit a lot of the time. We have an advantage because we know the game. We created the game! Do not allow your emotions to get in the way of common sense. I am starting to learn that common sense is not so common anymore. If you’re a young girl trying to play in a real woman’s world, you have to first be able to understand how a man thinks. Pick up the book, “The Ultimate Guide on How to Cheat on Your Woman”, by Kurin Keys. This book will give you a real insight on why men do the things that they do. For real woman, there is nothing in the book that we don’t already know; but it’s always good to brush up on our skills. The game is forever changing. For young woman, (girls, hoes, mistresses … whatever) get it, study it, know it! If you know the game, you can’t get played.The first question you should ask a man when he approaches you is, “are you single”? If he hesitates, he’s lying. If he says that he is in a relationship that is all you need to know. You can continue a conversation with him, but that’s as far as it should go. Do not listen to the story about how bad things are at home. It doesn’t matter. Do not allow him to disrespect the union that he has created. That is his business and his life. If he is able to tell you that he is with someone else and you entertain the conversation, he won. Change the conversation and move on. Believe it or not, a man will respect you more for walking away.I am so sick of young minded females, and I am tired of hearing girls say stupid things about as long as they are number one in their man’s life, they’re happy. Ok simpleton, being number one doesn’t stop you from getting STDs from numbers two and three. Stop making excuses for these men! It’s not about him; it’s about you. What about being the only one? Real woman deserve the throne. Little girls play princess so that they can one day become the queen. Any other position is a waste of time.So Above Mistress is a state of mind. It is the way you carry yourself. It’s not about how loud you can get or how often you say you want respect. How many times have you seen a woman in public yelling at someone about how they want to be treated? I see it almost every time I go out. It makes me sick to see a female lose control like that. Yelling in public proves nothing, but your ignorance. So Above mistress is about your swagger. It’s in your eye contact, your walk, your talk, and your whole attitude. A lady is always a lady. Step up and be the woman that you were meant to be. Don’t ask for respect, demand it!
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THE TEN COMMANDMENTSI. THOU SHALL NOT MESS WITH A NOWNUTTA BITCHII. THOU NAME SHOULD NOT RESEMBLE AN STD MEDICATION (Clamyrtriah)III. THOU SHALL NOT CLAIM THAT IT’S BABY FAT, ITS FAT BABYIV. THOU SHALL MAINTAIN PUSSY MAINTENANCEV. THOU SHALL NOT FUCK WITH MY MAN, BITCHVI. THOU SHALL JUST BE CLEAN, BITCH, JUST BE CLEANVII. THOU SHALL NOT CHEAT WITH FACIALLY CHALLENGED PEOPLE.VIII. THOU SHALL GET OFF FOOD STAMPSIX. THOU SHALL NOT BE A STALKERX. THOU SHALL NOT USE YOUR PUSSY FOR EVILTHIS WAS ALL IN FUN HOPE WE DONT OFFEND ANYONE. BUT YOU KNOW WE RIGHT LOL
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MISTRESS QUESTIONAIRE1) Have you ever been involved with a Taken man?2) Have you ever had a quickie with a man you didn’t know?3) Does “your man” call you from a blocked number?4) Have you ever been to his house?5) Does he only come to see during “club time”? (11pm to 4am)6) Have you met any of his family?7) Does he always find an excuse to leave?8) Does he answer his phone around you?9) Does he introduce you as his “friend”?10) Can you go thru his phone?11) Is your name, your name in his phone?12) Does he only call you because you’re always available?13) Does he ever stay the night, but leave before breakfast?14) Do you know where he works?15) Does his phone ever ring around you and he doesn’t pick up?16) Are your conversations with him more sexual than meaningful and intellectual?17) Does he ever plan trips with you that you never go on?18) Does he only have a cell phone/pager and not a house phone?19) Does he always have an excuse for why he has to leave?PLEASE FEEL FREE TO LEAVE US YOUR COMMENTS ON THIS BLOG, AND TELL US HOW MANY MISTRESSES YOU KNOW.
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Are you a mistress? Now isn’t that a question to ask yourself? Being a mistress is in no way shape or form a positive thing. Mistresses are the wrong type of female friends. Have you ever had a friend that gave your man more compliments than you did? Did she always want to be around when you were having a date or a special occasion with your man? How about that friend that calls him to see if he is ok?First and foremost, if she has your man’s number, that is your fault! She should never call him, even to find you. The point, she shouldn’t have anything to do with you and your man’s relationship. Learn to respect yourself as a woman. As women, we have a great power; the ability to make men bend at our will.So, why be a mistress? If you know that you can make any man do anything, then why not find a man that isn’t already attached or involved with another woman. It is pathetic for a woman to prowl out for things that don’t belong to her.A lot of women are misguided. They don’t keep positive people around them, and they don’t strive to do better. If you have one of the friends that I listed in the first paragraph, then you should know that those friends are not the positive people. Mistresses allow themselves to be overwhelmed by the articulated words a man uses. Ever feel like you have the male friend that always wants something from you? Does he only call when he needs something? Does he act like he never wants to be out in public with you? Maybe he even tells you that he is always busy, but always finds the time to see you when he gets horny? Red flag ladies; think about it.A man that can treat you like you are not a priority is a waste of time. Move on, and keep it pushing. Don’t let what seems to be his confident behavior control how you treat him. Learn all the signs, so you won’t become a victim. That’s right, a victim! It’s what you are. Once a man knows he can manipulate the situation, he will. Don’t let him. Fight back, and don’t become a mistress.Mistresses never prevail. Think about it! How many mistresses do you know that have won a man over and kept him there with no repercussions? We see it all the time, like Angelina Jolie stealing Brad Pitt from Jennifer Aniston. She fought her way into a married man’s arms. You have to give her cool points for her efforts, though. Angelina is better at it than most, but now she is struggling to keep her man. By the end of this chapter you will be able to tell if you are a mistress, learn how not to take the choice away if put in that situation, and how adultery affects relationships. Stop living a lie.
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A WIFE’S TEARSI cry for all the pain I feel,in her arms you do laymy trust you did stealits ten o'clock and you’re still away.I had to work late is what you'll sayshe called twice but did not speakas I stare at uneaten dinner platesI can smell her perfume on your cheeks.In my bed she did sleep,I can't take no more of thisI remember an extra copy of the keyhome alone while you’re with your mistress.A wife's tears, seems not enough its ok, Allen is helping me move in my stuff.Was she worth it?You say you love me.You say you care.You tell me not to leave but you’re never there.You see the tears running down my eyes and all you can say is “please don’t cry”.You say she means nothing but you allowed that nothing to ruin a part of me.You tell me that I’m your everything…How could you tell her that you loved her?How could you sleep with her in our bed?You forgot about your everything for a moment of nastiness.You forgot about our home because of your loneliness.You forgot that your loneliness was your fault.Our home is broken.Our lives have changed.Happily ever after is no more.When I look in your eyes, I see her.When you touch me, I feel her.I hate her.I hate you because of her.When you look in the mirror, are you proud?Is this what you thought we’d become?Was she worth it?BITCH HE’S MARRIEDBitch he’s married, you heard what I said,Don’t come at me with your bullshit because he got in your head.He preached he wasn’t married, he said he lives alone,By 815 he has fucked you and on his way home.You didn’t see it coming, you didn’t think twice,That maybe just maybe, he’s leaving to be with his wife.How pathetic you are settling to be second best,Bitch I know one thing; you will never walk down a runway in my wedding dress.I got to give it to you for distracting him and disrespecting me from behind,But his ass knows to be in my house by nine.The moments you’ve shared, the lies he has told,You believe him with every breathe, what a simple hoe.Time is passing and you still have no clue,That when all else fails, bitch he won’t end up with you.Bitch if you think I’m playing ask him and you will see,That even if he leaves, I will be getting alimony.Then I’m coming for you, you are weak and lame,Your hustle is no match for how I play the game.Oh don’t be scared now bitch, you thought you had him,I’ll see you in court; by the way my lawyers name is Adam.I’ll sue you and I’ll win,Alienation of affection is how this began.You cry and moan that you didn’t know,But the calls and text messages is what my phone bill shows.Sneaking around has its repercussions,Bitch I warned you about fucking my husband.Karma is here, and these are your consequences,That’s what you get for being a temporary replacement.A mistress knows nothing else besides using her pussy to be carried,This should be the last time I say this,BITCH HE’S MARRIED.By: Angela PittsIFIf I told you that I loved you would it matter? If I asked you not to leave would you stay? If I kissed you would you kiss me back? If I cried on your shoulder would you wipe away my tears? If I gave you my heart would you break it in two? If I could look past the pain could you? For "IF" to only have two letters it is such a BIG word. If I loved you could I move on? If I cared could I forgive? If you looked in my eyes could you see my soul? could you see the damage that has been caused? If we could go back in time would we? If I told you the pain was killing me would you stop? please stop... then again If grandma had balls she’d be grandpa so in the end "IF" never really matters.BY JASMINE MCKETHAN
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Are You a Mistress? Are You Worth More?This book is inspired by “The Black Man’s Guide on How to Cheat on Your Woman”, by Kurin Keys. We know that men cheat. What we need to know is why the mistress is willing to be second best. Men play the game well, but they’ve learned from the best; women! Learn everything from the different types of men and mistresses to how to repair your relationship. Reading this book should have helped women know who is a mistress and why the lifestyle is unacceptable; but if you’re going to be one, do it right. It should have taught the men how women can love them, guide them and dismiss them.Devaluing yourself comes with karma and a lot of consequences. Being the mistress represents everything that women should be against. However if you are going to be the other woman, you need to know the rules and regulations that go along with it. Mistress’ are forgetting that they are only for a man’s temporary use. A man will hustle you and take your choice away; adding you to his payroll on his wife’s tears. The mistress’s job is to stroke a man’s ego, and then to send him home. The mistress should never feel that she has a chance to take the lead position. If you are a man, this book will show you how to be So Above having a Mistress. If you are a mistress, this book will show you your place, and teach you how to stay in it.No woman should ever settle for being second best. So Above Mistress is exactly what the name says; knowing that you are better then just being the other woman. It is a state of mind. It is the way you carry yourself. When a man is in your presence, he should know that he has to step his game up if he wants the chance to get to know you.Question. If women created the game, why is it so hard for them to stay in their place? Mistresses are trying to take over. They have forgotten their role in the game. The Webster dictionary describes a mistress as “A woman filling the place, but without the rights of a wife. A concubine; a loose woman with whom one consorts habitually.” Real women have their own men, and don’t have to borrow another woman’s man. Sleeping with someone’s man is not cute; it’s pathetic.If you are going to be the mistress, stay in the background. If you don’t know how to play the game, take a seat on the bench. It doesn’t matter which category you fall under; wife, girlfriend or mistress, this guide is for you. By the end of this book, you should be able to answer the question, “Who’s man is he really?”.TUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY? WILL BE ON AMAZON.COM SOON WE WILL BLOG OUR RELEASE DATE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.IN THE MEANWHILE PLEASE FEEL FREE TO GIVE US SOME FEEDBACK ON THIS TOPIC. WE WILL POST SOME INTERESTING TOPICS.SO ABOVE MISTRESS
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BLACKPROFESSIONALEVENTS.COMBlack Professional Events is a real time event portal. Event Planners ,Promoters and Organizations are encouraged to post events on our portal.Come on in and join us!http://www.blackprofessionalevents.com/-- Members Blog-- Members Submit Articles-- Members Profiles-- Members Connections-- Real Time Event Calendar of African American events-- Job Openings Section-- Instant message other members who are online now-- Recommended Websites area , add your link todayEmail us at blackprofessionalevents@gmail.comFor more information and advertising opportunities.__._,_.___
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Joy of Connecting is about bringing women togather. Whether you are an entrepreneurial woman, or looking for a great opportunity, or even if you are just looking for new friends, I cordially invite you to our for a nice dinner and an amazing evening out with the ladies!! It is an opportunity for you to talk about yourself, your passions, where you are and what you want to do in an understanding, nurturing environment. This biweekly experience is open to anyone interested in building relationships, expanding her business and having fun! There is nothing as effective as sharing dinner and conversation with someone to make a lasting impression and connection. No membership required! Invite friends and remember to bring business cards/brochures!We will be have our first Joy of Connecting Event on May 29, 2008. Visit us at http://socialnetwork.meetup.com/1002 to get more information.
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"How to Keep God in your Life" can be purchased at Barnes and Noble!Check it out!http://search.barnesandnoble.com/How-to-Keep-God-in-Your-Life/Dominique-Watson/e/9781602641587/?itm=1
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I speak with individuals all the time that want to start their own business. We all have dreams we want to bring to reality, but many of us don’t have the experience or knowledge to launch the successful business of your dreams.Alive Incorporated wants to assist aspiring entrepreneurs in making their dreams a reality, providing you with the financial independence you always dreamed of.Through our Pay It Forward program, clients will provide the idea, the hard work and $249. This $249 will be your investment in the services provided through the Pay It Forward Program.For a six month period, the team at Alive Incorporated will work with you for 1 -2 hours a week. This is time will be used to advise you on your business plan, your marketing strategy, developing your goals and coaching you along the way. Throughout the week you will work on the established goals. If you need to, you will email the team for feedback and guidance.The team at Alive Incorporated wants to see you succeed. All we ask is that you allow us to share your story with the readers of our magazine, ALIVE Magazine, as well as post information about you on our website and various blogs. Think of this as a way to get exposure for your business before you even launch!Think of all the benefits you will receive over the next 6 months for a minimal investment. Make your dreams a reality. Start your business today!In the end, our hope is that once your business is established, you will help another aspiring entrepreneur and Pay It Forward!This is our new program and we are offering new clients a special of $249 through April 30, 2008. After April 30, 2008 the price will go to our regular price of $399. Contact us at coach@aliveincorporated.com to find out more information.Listen to the most recent interview with our CEO, Brandy Adamson.http://www.blogtalkradio.com/empower/2008/04/05/-Living-Your-Life-OUT-LOUD-How-a-life-coach-
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