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Peace and light,

I am happy to have found this site

that is focused on black women being in community

and learning more about various ways to empower and heal themselves.

I hope to learn a lot from this site.

Blessed be!!!!!!

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“She’s Cute for a Dark Skinned Girl”

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Ever since I was in middle school [and I say middle school because in elementary you don’t see color] people have been making statements to or around me, on the lines of “light skin is in” and “I don’t date anyone darker than my skin tone” “all dark skinned girls are ghetto” and the one that I finally experience and still has me upset about to this day [it happened like last week maybe] “your hella cute for a dark skinned girl”. Now personally I don’t know how everyone else would feel or has felt right after a male [or female] tells you that your “cute for a dark skinned girl” but personally I didn’t think anything of it at the moment, however, about five minutes later it hit me and I was highly upset. The thought of someone pretty much saying that I’m cute BUT in reality I would look better if I was light skinned, is not the business. I mean what is it in a skin tone that makes people think that you’re going to act or think a certain way, or that light skinned and pretty hair means that your a beauty queen, or top of the line model, and dark skinned with normal African American hair means that you are ugly, and will never get a man [well a good looking one anyways].

I feel that it’s a shame that African Americans can have arguments with people of different races about racism but is forever skipping over the racism within our own people. Why we have a light skinned VS dark skinned war going on I will never know. Why is it that we can ban together as a people when it comes to racism as a group but we can’t get ourselves together as a people and get the racism that we have within our self’s together. I don’t understand how we can work on racism in the world but not have our own racism under control.

People always wana say that they are not racist but, if you’re making judgments about a culture or even a skin tone that means that you’re racist against that cutler or skin tone. And to be racist against a skin tone is just plain sad because that means for the most part you are having racism on your own people, your own cutler, and your own kind that has had the same struggles that your ancestors have had, so what’s the point in having judgments’ about a certain skin tone

Now I don’t want for people to get me wrong, because there is nothing wrong with having a certain attraction that mainly lies on one skin tone or another; there’s nothing wrong with that at all, its just like how some males like “thick girls” and others like “skinny girls”. HOWEVER when you get to a point when you start automatically believing that one is better than the other, and thinking that one has more class then the other, YA that’s a problem, and it needs to get checked ASAP like a judge that lets a serial killer out on early bail.

Coming from a brown sugar complexion point of view, I feel that my skin is beautiful, and the fact that “dark” skinned girls come in so many colors is a beautiful thing. We are all wonderful as woman and as a people; our strength is amazingly passionate and will never fade away. If we could just come together and see that skin tone does not make you who you are and that being true to yourself is what makes you who you are, maybe just maybe the ignorant comments of “your hella cute for a dark skinned girl” will begin to dwindle away slowly like the idea of us never having a African American president. Its going to take some work, sometime, and some patience, but guess what we do it.


“Brown skin, you know I love your brown skinI cant tell where yours begins, I cant tell where mine ends Brown skin, up against my brown skin Need some every now and thenoh hey Skin so brown, lips so round Baby how can I be down? Beautiful mahogany, you make me feel like a queen Tell me whats that thing you do that makes me wanna get next to you, yeah” India Arie “Brown Skin”

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I have 5 books scheduled for 2010.

IF YOU WERE MY MAN, book # 6 in the Invincible Women series, hits bookstores March 2nd. Gorgeous hostage negotiator Rafael Dunlap finally meets a woman he can't charm.

FOREVER YOURS, book #1 is a reissue of the Taggart Brothers series on March 30, 2010. Big, handsome, smart, rich—Kane is one fine catch who could have any woman he wants. But there’s something about Victoria that leaves this silver-tongued rancher speechless with desire.

IT HAD TO BE YOU, book # 4 in the Grayson Friends series, will be released on April. 27, 2010. From the New York Times bestselling author Francis Ray comes a dazzling new novel of the Grayson family and their friends-a duo destined to make beautiful music together....
ONLY HERS, the reissue of Taggart Brothers series book #2 on August 3, 2010. Seeking a change of scene, St. Louis nurse Shannon Johnson claims an inherited piece of land in Texas and is challenged by fellow landowner Matt Taggart to prove her worth as a ranch worker, an event that sparks an unlikely love affair.
HEART OF THE FALCON, the reissue of Taggart/Falcon series book #4 on December 7, 2010. Daniel Falcon, head of the powerful Falcon Industries, is relocating to Houston. After a chance meeting and seduction, Madelyn finds herself pregnant by Daniel, who is desperate to avoid repeating the unhappy marriage his parents had. Daniel can be more than a bit self-righteous and when he finally condescends to marry Madelyn, she firmly declines as sexy and rich as Daniel is, she'd rather face motherhood alone than in a loveless marriage.
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Are you Starting Up or Starting Over?

startup-or-over This past week, I received quite a few emails from women wanting to start their business up or over; interested in my advice. When I get these requests, I like to bring them to your attention (just in case you were also in the same boat). They generally have reviewed my videos and/or my extensive eBook library and are looking to learn how to better market their businesses online. As a matter of fact, I just got this email a few days ago:
Hi LaShanda, I was wondering , I have an on-line biz for a while now. I did well then i hit a dry spell. I was thinking of doing your start up sista 30 day $79 or do you think I should do the other bundle discount that you for 15+ Ebooks and 30 video tutorials for $97.00? I might be better to start all over again reinvent myself and my business and get my customers back. - R.R.
While I did decide last year, to take the bulk of my eBooks and combine them into the Black Business Starter Kit, I decided to take it up a notch for 2010. In addition to my 15+ Marketing eBooks, the Starter Kit now includes 3 eCourses: Startup Sista (starting your business online), Selling On Social Networks (social media marketing for beginners), and How to Find Customers Online (the name says it all). I also decided to add my latest three eBooks in the How to Make Money Online Series: How to Make Your First $1000, How to Make Money MLM and Network Marketing as well as How to Make Money Coaching. I really wanted to make sure that if you are in my circle and you wanted to start up or start over, I gave you a well rounded collection of eBooks and online video tutorials that explained exactly what I did to market, build, and profit from my business online. The new Starter Kit is $197, but for the next few days I am offering it to my sistasense readers and BBWO members for $99. Click here for details. Offer expires after first 50 downloads or 3/12/10, whichever one comes first.
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Prosper where you are planted

We all want the very best that life has to offer, but always fall short of
putting in the true work it takes to get what we want. That is why it
is important to invest the time to work on your spiritual house in
order to prosper, but you must prosper where you are planted to prosper
further in your life. An example of prospering where you are planted
is.... let say you want a 3 bedroom house with a pool, but you currently
live in a studio apartment. You would say when I get that house I will
do this or I will do that. Why don't you change your way of thinking
and start to treat your studio apartment like your 3 bedroom house and
do those things in your studio as if you have your house of your
dreams.....planting the seeds of prosperity where you are in life at
that moment. Awwwww!!! something to think about!!


Create a "Plan B" for yourself in 2010!!!
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Each and every day, millions of commuters hit the highways and city streets throughout America. By placing your company's name and logo in front of these consumers with vehicle advertising, you can rev up your marketing efforts.

Vehicular advertising options are plentiful and can generate a mighty return on investment whether you advertise on a single vehicle or on a company-wide fleet. Hitting the road with advertising on your business vehicles can:

  1. Generate about 8.4 million impressions a year (according to a study by Driving Revenues)
  2. Help you reach a wide variety of consumers
  3. Be very cost-effective
  4. Build brand awareness
  5. Influence purchasing decisions

Action Steps
The best contacts and resources to help you get it done

Match up with magnetic signs: Removable magnetic signs let you decide when you want to use your car, truck or van as a marketing tool and when you prefer it to be sign-free. These easy-to-apply signs also let you switch vehicles or share signs with others.

I recommend: Order magnetic signs for as little as $25 each at MagneticSignsOnTime.com.

Explore vinyl lettering: When you want a more permanent solution, try self-adhesive vinyl lettering. These ready-to-apply letters come in several design options and can be applied to vehicles or vehicle windows.

I recommend: View vinyl lettering options as they'll appear on your particular type of vehicle at SpeedySigns.com.

Get better night-time exposure with reflective signs:Don't limit your vehicle advertising to the daylight hours. Make your vehicles visible day or night with reflective lettering.

I recommend: StreetGlo offers reflective fleet graphics and a free design tool.

Shout it from the rooftop: You don't have to be a taxicab to take advantage of signs atop your vehicle. Most restaurant delivery services opt for car toppers because they're magnetic and can be attached to any delivery vehicle.

I recommend: Find a variety of sizes and shapes of roof-top signs at CarSigns.com or at Autosox.com, which also offers antitheft cords to protect your car toppers.

Wrap your entire vehicle: Wrapping vehicles from bumper to bumper in vinyl graphics is one of the most attention-grabbing forms of fleet advertising. It looks like you've painted the entire vehicle in graphics, but the wrap is removable for seasonal campaigns and costs less than painting the vehicle.

I recommend: Bumper2Bumper Media and Custom Auto Wrap provide full-service fleet graphics wrapping.

Tout your business with truck graphics: There's no better way to get regional or national exposure than to equip all of your delivery trucks with advertising to drive your message to consumers.

I recommend: Graphic Concepts is a good choice for small businesses with a single truck because they have no minimum vehicles required. RoadBoardz Truckside Ads has an in-house team that can design your graphics and offers a 30-day money-back guarantee if you aren't satisfied.

Tips & Tactics
Helpful advice for making the most of this Guide

· When designing your vehicle graphics, choose contrasting colors and large type that can be seen at a distance. White type on a colored background is very difficult to see on the road, so if your logo includes white type, consider reversing the image to a dark colored type with a white background.

· Keep copy simple. Don't list your entire services, rather try to use a company logo, motto and phone number.

· When purchasing vinyl graphics and wraps for your vehicle, ask about warranties. Some vinyl will stay on five years, whereas other vinyl is meant for short-term usage.

· Always ask about the proper care and usage of graphics. Any warranties may be voided if you care for the graphics improperly

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Top Ten Marketing Mistakes

Marketing is a contest for people's attention. Traditional mass marketing fights for people's attention by interrupting them. A 30-second spot interrupts your favorite TV show, a telemarketer calls right when you are sitting down to dinner. In the past, this has been quite effective. But now, there's been a paradigm shift. There's too much information - too much going on - and we're being overloaded with interruptions.

Last year, the average consumer saw or heard over 1 million marketing messages - that's close to 3,000 per day. No one can pay attention to that many distractions. So what consumers have started to do is ignore them. So how does a small business owner combat that?

Most small business owners complain that "Nobody knows who we are or what we do!" I know the answer to that predicament: "They don't tell anyone!" And if they are marketing and promoting - they are not doing it effectively. They are forgetting who their customer is (target market) and they give little consideration to how to reach them.

Most companies market haphazardly. They are drawn in a million marketing directions and often fail to create a targeted marketing strategy.

Just like The David Letterman Show - Here's a list of Top Ten Small Business Marketing Mistakes:

1. a different logo, look and tagline with every promotional piece

2. Believing one or two print ads will give a business instant success

3. Not hiring professionals to do a professional job

4. Forgetting to make the most of a first impression

5. Not understanding, defining or remembering your target market

6. Creating a marketing plan but never looking at it or implementing it

7. Neglecting to track marketing dollars - return on investment

8. Ineffective use of time and money with networking and charitable giving

9. Selling features not solutions, benefits and value to the customer

10. Not reserving their domain/URL

Have you evaluate last year's marketing plan or do you have a plan at all?

Planning is the key to effective marketing - but it doesn't have to be complicated or costly.


STOP BEING THE BEST KEPT SECRET. STAND OUT FROM THE CROWD.

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Core Value In Business Is Integrity

Integrity in business is defined as an ethical action that includes speaking the truth and not telling lies. We seek to say what we mean, and mean what we say. Our walk should be consistent with our talk.

"Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity."

Henry Cloud points out in his book "Integrity" that in the end, character always rules. Integrity in business and life is a fundamental important attribute that will bring blessing in the end.


"Integrity is doing the right thing, even if nobody is watching."

Integrity in business is not optional if you are seeking longevity. There are no short cuts, blurred lines or adequate excuses available to cover up a lack of integrity. What characteristics people are looking for is consistency, knowledge in the field, competency, and trust.


Integrity in business is a quality that is highly under-rated these days. Many people are so "pushed and pulled" by a not so hidden force called the "profit motive", that they often find themselves compromising something, their values, their morals, their family, etc. They could also lose all credibility and trust from those they are trying to retain business from.


Integrity in business is as important as an individual's personal reputation and self-worth. The pride we all take in working demands that we be honest, fair and ethical. My goal is to develop challenging opportunities for growth, be a blessing to others and a balance between my business and home life.


Integrity in business is giving high-value, high-content, as often as possible. When you hold a teleclass, even if you're promoting product at the end, give really good content, material they can walk away with even if they don't buy.

There can be no friendship without confidence;
and no confidence, without integrity"

Just Remember:


Integrity in business is built and earned over a long period of time through prompt honoring of commitments and fair dealing with all.

By: Monique Hrebeniuk Business Developer

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Keeping Black marriage in the forefront, will keep Black families together. Stronger families have stronger communities.
Black Marriage Day 2010 w/Rev.Angela Chester in Long Beach, CA


Black Marriage Day 2010 w/Rev.Angela Chester in Long Beach, CA

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Mar 11, 2010 – Black Marriage Day 2010: “Celebrate The Joy”

Blessings All Around, Angela Chester Ministries and Wedded Bliss Foundation, Inc., will present the Eighth Annual Black Marriage Day celebration, Sunday, March 28, 2010, with the theme “Celebrate The Joy.”

Blessings All Around and Angela Chester Ministries, will join activists hundreds of cities around the country to highlight the benefits of married life and offer celebrations to strengthen and promote marriage in Long Beach’s Black community. Offering free premarital counseling to those getting married, Rev. Angela Butts-Chester, knows having a good foundation is the key to a great marriage.

Wedded BlissFoundation is also encouraging local Black Marriage Day sponsors across the country to involve youth in their Black Marriage Day events on Sunday, March 28, 2010, with film festivals, workshops, conferences, marriage vow renewals and much more.

“You don’t have to liveup to the current statistics on Black marriage in the US. You can be the one to change the fate of your family. Take back Black love and marriage! Making a change for yourself, is making a positive change for the world. You will always be a statistic – why not make it a positive one?”, explained Angela Chester Ministries’ Spokesperson Rev. AngelaButts-Chester.

“We’re creating a cultural shift in the Blackcommunity to reconsider the benefits of marriage and “Celebrate The
Joy” that exists in spite of the pain we often experience,” Wedded Bliss Foundation Executive Director Nisa Muhammad said. “Much of what we hear about marriage in the Black community is a blues song about low
rates, out of wedlock births, escalating divorces and how somebody done somebody wrong. We want to replace that blues song with a love song of joy. We want to Celebrate The Joy!“

Black Marriage Day hasbeen celebrated annually at locally sponsored events hosted by faith-based and community groups on the fourth Sunday of March since 2003. Marriage activists in more than 300 cities participated in 2009, Mrs. Muhammad said.

Wedded Bliss Foundation and BlackMarriage Day activities have been featured nationally in Black
Enterprise and Essence magazines, plus on CNN News, and the Michael Baisden Show.

Rev. Angela Butts-Chester is a PastoralCounselor in Long Beach, Ca, with Angela Chester Ministries. She offers Officiant services with Blessings All Around and hosts I Do Radio. RevChester is the author of Before You Tie The Knot –A Premarital Counseling Workbook for the DIY Couple.

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About
Rev. Angela Butts Chester, DD, is a pioneer in the field of family destiny fulfillment. As a Pastoral Counselor, she blends a motivational spirit with a love for helping others, into a system that shows families how
to keep the happiness, love, prosperity and abundance within the household.

Following in her family’s footsteps, she became anordained minister in 2005. Starting a family ministry was a must for Rev. Chester, thus Blessings All Around was born. This blessing ministry not only focuses on marrying couples, but various ceremonies that form bonds and traditions; ways to keep the family together.

Rev.Chester has taken her expertise to the Internet. As the host of I Do Radio, she discusses wedding issues to assist engaged couples with ceremony dos-and-don'ts and wedding vendor issues.

As theauthor of Before You Tie The Knot - A Premarital Counseling Workbook For The DIY Couple, Angela Chester Ministries, focuses on keeping you on track and faith focused.
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Literary Friends!

Tonight is a special night! Author Don Savant will be stopping through the Authors and Writers Meeting to speak about his books and himself as an author. It's always a good idea to stop in and meet and greet other authors. The meeting is at 8PM EST and you can RSVP here: http://authorswritersmeeting.webs.com I hope to see you there.

If you are interested in being interviewed at one of our meetings, check out the website above for further details.

We are now accepting advertisements for our newsletter that will go out Monday. All newsletter advertisement can be seen here: http://fromawriterspovmagazine.com/issue/march-2010/section/paid-advertisements You can also find out how to have your book advertised before it hits stores.

So have you seen our new website? www.fromawriterspovmagazine.com What do you think?

Don't forget about our Literary Divisions and Book Club. These are still projects in the making and if you are interested in anyone of them or simply need a little more details, don't hesitate to contact me!

Have a great Thursday!

Thanks!

Dominique

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In this interview on the "View" and Jess

e Ventura states that the World Trade Center, The Pentagon, the death of JFK and Dr. Martin Luther King, Farrakan was the work of the government. He states that all these people were killed by a lone nut who failed at everything in their lives, but they were smart enough to kill the most famous people in America. They never talked about what they were going to do, just did it. I personally feel that every thing he states is most diffinitely possible. I wouldn't put it past the government, but yet there are a lot of naysayers. Listen to the video and tell me what do you think?

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Having Core Values For Business Is The Foundation Of A Truly Successful Business.

What is a Value?


A value is simply a label for something that is most important to you. It is important enough that you spend time trying to obtain it or keep it as a part of your lifestyle.


Values are essential to effective leadership. They are the uncompromisable, undebatable truths that drive and direct behavior. They are motivational, giving us the reason why we do things; and they are restrictive, placing boundaries around behavior. Values are those things that we deem important and that provide direction and guidance in spite of our emotions.


Your values reflect a vital part of who you are. Knowing what is most important to you and why can be helpful when making meaningful decision and for developing effective relationships.


It is very tough to make decisions about your business without first knowing what is most important to you and your business.


People who are confused and unclear about their values often have difficulty making the bigger decisions in life because they do no know themselves well enough to decide what would be best for them and their business.


Businesses, organizations, families and individuals all benefit from knowing and living by their core values.


In Business we use core values as a foundational statement that guides you in evaluating your options, and inventing new ones. If you understand the core values that motivates you, in turn your actions will directly have a massive impact on your actions!


Here are 7 Core Values For Business:


Humility
Integrity
Respect
Enthusiasm
Time
Talent
Treasure

By: Monique Hrebeniuk Business Developer

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