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Do You Know What Your Customers Really Want

 


There's a lot of discussion about what customers really want these days. I have to say that, listening is among the most crucial skills that you are able to learn. If you are able to really stop and listen to your customers, you are able to pave the path to ongoing business success.

Listening calls for paying attention and reacting to the needs and wants of customers. If you want to have your own business, you have to practice the art of active listening.

It is not good enough to react to clients. You have to be able to anticipate their needs. Listening to clients is about placing your company to be the answer to buyer needs, ideally previously them even asking.

Listening is about getting involved with your clients. This includes really spending time with them, exploring things that are significant to them, studying magazines and books that are written for them, and being an authority in the things that matter to them.

You’re business ought to have an ideal customer. This is the perfect client for you. You need to get in the minds of your ideal client, and the more ideal the better. These are the ideal type of clients you ought to be paying attention to.


A client is somebody who's purchased from you or the company you work for. You ought to treat clients, prospects, and general public with equal respect. You need to spend your time listening to these individuals who you most want as clients using tools and strategies.


Here are some key tips to keep in mind:

1. Offline, you should be conducting client surveys and talking to clients and people. Go to trade shows and conferences that are likewise attended by your ideal clients. If there are none in your area, start one.

2. As your expertise grows, you might want to think about doing a few speaking engagements. This is an awesome way to meet people and to get individuals to tell you about the problems that they face.

3. Online, the opportunities are endless. You are able to listen on Twitter with the help of Twitter Search. You are able to track key words and phrases across the net utilizing Google Alerts.

4. Forums are a great place to listen. You are able to produce your own listening posts with a blog or podcast. Sure, this is about you talking, but it will force you to explore and learn about your clients. And you are able to encourage dialog and read comments.

5. Make sure to listen where clients are talking. If you will are able to find out where ideal clients hang out, online and offline, then you have to be there too.

6. Active listening will help you to better comprehend and connect with your clients. It will make sales and marketing easier, as you'll be able to position yourself right between the client and the need.

7. Becoming a great listener will allow you to connect with the individuals you wish to reach. Everybody loves being listened to.

So put away that profit and loss sheet for a minute, and begin exploring the world of your clients.

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Tips for Managing Goal Setting Worksheets

 

Creating your short and long-term goals will provide you with a roadmap to success. Keep these tips in mind when creating your goals.

1. Visualize your goal and success of the long-term ultimate goals – plant it firmly in your mind as you begin creation of the actions required.

2. Evaluate and consider your resources, skills, and abilities. Determine where there may be a lack of ability or skills and determine how to compensate for this deficit.

3. Make sure the actions are clear and concise. Break them down into smaller steps for greater success.

4. Use positive words in your actions and steps. Positive-thinking has a powerful impact on our ability to succeed. A “self-fulfilling” prophecy, which means we become what we think we can become, is important to remember when creating a goal setting worksheet.

5. Use affirmative words in action plans. Don’t say “I think I will complete the research by April 15”, or “I want to…..”. Instead, use affirmative statements such as “Complete the market research on potential niche products by April 15.”

6. Create relevant actions that will help you achieve your goals.

7. Monitor your actions and deliverables frequently.

8. Create ticklers or calendar alerts to remind you of pending due dates. Don’t wait until the action is due to evaluate progress.

9. Set reminders on your calendar or email to remind you to accomplish certain actions or steps along the way. It’s impossible to keep track of everything in your head and this can sabotage your efforts if you don’t have an organized plan to manage actions towards goals.

10. Plan the necessary steps towards your ultimate goals and monitor them frequently!

Creating a goal setting worksheet is a tremendous asset to you in your professional goal setting strategy and creating your online or offline business.

It gives you the tools, steps, and actions needed to succeed. Once you have a clearly defined goal setting worksheet with achievable, challenging action steps, you’ll be on your way to entrepreneurial success!

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While you could always go to an expensive salon and have potentially harmful chemicals spread all over your head, there are natural ways to get the straight hair you want.  I will show you how to achieve straight hair with  some simple, inexpensive techniques.  These techniques will only be temporary, but it can give you the luxurious straight hair you want for a special event.

The first step is to invest in a quality flat iron.  You should buy a little better, and more expensive, model from your hairstylist or a beauty supply store because the quality of the iron is higher which means better heating surfaces as well as temperature controls.

The next step is to buy a thermal protective spray for your hair, this can help protect your hair from heat damage.  This is especially important if you will be using your flat iron on a regular basis.

Wash your hair and use a quality conditioner.  Since using a flat iron can really dry your hair out, you may want to leave your conditioner on for a little longer than normal.

Towel dry your hair thoroughly, apply a leave in conditioner,then gently comb your hair with a wide toothed comb.

Blow dry your hair the rest of the way.  Using attachments that will allow you to get the blow dryer closer to your hair will make a big difference. After the hair is dry, brush it out completely to get out any tangles and snarles.

Separate your hair into sections and pin the areas you aren't working on, up on top of your head.  Taking your hair in sections about 2" wide and about 1/2" thick, than clamp it into the flat iron close to your scalp. 

Than smoothly, and slowly, pull the flat iron through your hair.  Make sure you keep the move one fluid motion because if you don't you could end up with horizontal lines in your hair and getting them out will require more passes of the flat iron and more damage to your hair.

If you see a little steam rising from your hair, that is normal since your hair still has some moisture in it.  If, on the other hand, you hear your hair sizzling that is not normal and you should readjust the temperature settings.

Continue doing this with small sections of hair all over your head.  Make sure to carefully examine your hair so you don't miss a section since that would look a little weird! Once you've gotten all your hair straightened make sure to avoid adding any moisture since that will cause it to curl up and get frizzy.

If you want to make sure your style stays put, apply some hairspray once you have the look you want.

That's it! You've gone from curly and wavy to straight and exciting.  Just follow these simple tips on how to achieve straight hair and you can save yourself a lot of money by being able to do it yourself and also less damage to your hair by not adding a lot of harsh chemicals.
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3 Easy Steps to Avoid Gray Hair



If you want to know when you will turn gray, one thing you can do is look at your parents.  How early in your life you'll gray will depend quite a bit on genetic factors.  Graying is a natural part of aging and happens when the cells in the hair shaft stop making pigment.  That lack of pigment will make the hair lose most of it's color and turn gray.  But the good news is that while you may not be able to stop from getting gray you can slow down the process and learn how to avoid gray hair for a while.

Here are some tips you can take that can slow down the advance of your gray hair:

1.  I don't want to sound like a nag, but if you don't want gray hair early in life, give up the cigarettes.  It has been scientifically proven that smoking will age your whole body, inside and out, and that aging includes making your hair go gray.  If you are serious about preventing gray hair for as long as humanly possible, the first thing you have to do is stop smoking, you'll look younger everywhere not just your hair.

2.  Another thing that has been proven to age you, everywhere, is stress.  We do live in a very stressful society, we're told that every time we turn on the t.v.  But what you're not told is that there are a lot of things you can do to relax.  It really depends on the person, some people will find reading a good book relaxing while others find it more enjoyable to go on a nice long run. Whatever works for you try to fit in some relaxing activity at least daily, even if it's only for a few minutes. 

Many people will think they are just too busy to fit in something relaxing, but for almost everyone that's just not true.  No matter how busy you are you can probably find a few minutes to de-stress.  It's really just a matter of priorities.  Instead of getting stressed out reading the paper or watching the nightly news, why not relax by doing some activity you actually enjoy?  Pretend like your life depends on it.

3.  Are you getting enough metal in your diet?  The breakdown that causes gray hair can be found when your body isn't getting enough copper.  The good news is that there are many things you can do to get more copper into your diet.  You can take a supplement, or you can eat foods that have a lot of copper such as lima beans, spinach, yams, and meat.

Today we don't have to just go with the flow when it comes to getting older.  As a matter of fact many of us have found that instead of aging gracefully we'd rather just age slowly!  There is a new attitude of youth and health in our society.  We no longer think of ourselves as old as soon as we cross the 40 year old threshold, as a matter of fact, many don't think of themselves at old at 50 and over!  So if you're young at heart and want to look your age, you will be happy to learn how to avoid gray hair.  These simple lifestyle changes can pay dividends in many aspects of your life, so enjoy!
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Ever heard of affiliate programs? These are forms of Internet advertising that rewards the affiliates for driving traffic to the advertiser or for other transactions. The advertiser pays the affiliate to place a link on their website, and the affiliate sends traffic to the advertiser in return. Simply put, it's about paying commissions to people who help you make sales. It's that easy.

Affiliate marketing has its ups and downs. It could be draining if you are not armed with updated information and the technical how-tos. But this article's sole objective is to reach out to you and not to badmouth affiliate marketing.

Here are the following reasons on why web marketers go gaga over affiliate marketing as a form of Internet advertisement.

1. Low cost

Many are scared to go on a home based business because of the capital required. In affiliate marketing, you don't have to spend much to start raking in moolah.

2. Inventories not included

Product management fuss could be very stressing. An inventory is not asked to be maintained. The merchant does the maintenance required.

3. Unlimited income through leverage

When you have a paid job, your monthly income mainly relies on whether you go to work or not. With affiliate marketing, your affiliates could all just lead traffic to your site without having to lift a finger after providing them your ad copy and links. Though not every web marketer earns limitless, it still is a fact that all the necessary matters for the advertiser or Internet marketer are all there to be successful.

4. Go worldwide

With affiliate marketing, you are dealing with a global market place. All you have to do is choose a niche product and prepare all the necessary tools for your affiliates to lead traffic from just about anywhere to your website.

5. Low risk
 
The very main reason for Internet marketer's enthusiasm with affiliate marketing is its having a low risk factor. Especially for those with low budget set aside for advertising, affiliate marketing is just the way to do it.

6. No closing time

With affiliate marketing, your business works every single second of the day while targeting a worldwide market! What could be better than that?

But all of these will be put to waste if you don't have the right niche product and all the other important tools to make it big in affiliate marketing. So you better work on this first before ever considering those benefits.
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People get stuck in a lifestyle of procrastination because they believe their own excuses for not taking action. Procrastination is the main reason that people fail to live richer and more fulfilling lives. If you're stuck in a rut of continual procrastination, make up your mind to stop making excuses.

If you've been making excuses for putting things off, here's how to take charge of your life. First, think about all the things you've been postponing-at work, at home, in your personal relationships, or for your personal development.

 

Make a list.

Now choose one thing on that list that you can do something about today. Write down every excuse you've given yourself for not having done anything about it yet. Ask yourself if you have considered all the consequences of your procrastination in this area. Do you want to live with them? Do you have a legitimate reason for postponing this job?


You have to be honest about this or it won't work. Forget about what other people think; look in the mirror and ask the hard questions. If you have a legitimate reason for delaying action in this area, move on to another item on the list. Find something that you can make happen today, simply by deciding to make it happen. Now do it. When you've completed this task successfully, your satisfaction will motivate you to repeat this process with another item on your list.  

Successful people know that their accomplishments depend on two things: taking action and staying focused on their goals. People who are successful in any business or profession have an ability to make things happen. All successful people win the war against procrastination because they develop certain traits. To defeat procrastination and get all you want out of life, you must:


- Know what you want.
- Force yourself to take action.
- Be willing to make mistakes and learn from them.
- Stop making excuses!


Now go back to your list and choose another project. Write down every excuse you've been giving yourself for not getting started, or for leaving it unfinished. Put as many things on the list as you can think of. Now try to eliminate one excuse at a time. Ask yourself hard questions: Why do I have to postpone this project? Is it necessary to go on postponing it? If Oprah Winfrey were in my situation, would she postpone it? What will happen if I keep putting this off? If I keep putting this off, when will I get it done? Can I get started on it now? What part of the job could I complete now? If I postpone this job now, what other job will I tackle to make better use of my time?


As you eliminate your excuses, think of what you can do today to make this project happen, and do it. Anne Frank wrote in her diary, "How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world." Make a decision to start improving your world today.

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Men Can Avoid Hairloss In 4 Easy Steps



In our society, a man losing his hair as he ages has long been held as one of those inevitable things in life, such as death and taxes, and that there isn't anything that can be done to stop it. Fortunately for many men, science has made advances in understanding what causes hair loss and finding effective ways to stop it and possibly even reverse it.  That means that you can learn how to avoid hair loss in men.

Scientists used to think that baldness was an inherited trait, but new research is showing that that may not be the case.  We now know that an overabundance of the hormone DHT might actually play a role in hair loss.  When your body has too much DHT it tends to lead to what is called Follicular miniaturization. That means the hair shaft becomes smaller and smaller over time. 

Here are some things you can start doing right now. These tips will help you keep your hair and scalp healthy so you can minimize the effects of DHT(Dihydrotestosterone) and stop, or at least slow down, your hair loss:

1. Keep your head clean.  All the hair products you use on a day to day basis can build up on your scalp and prevent the hair follicles from growing properly. Thoroughly washing your scalp every day can help remove that buildup which can  keep the coast clear for new hair growth.

2. Great hair starts on the inside.  No part of your body can function at it's best if your body isn't getting the nutrition it needs.  Eating a well balanced diet will pay many dividends, not the least of which is healthy hair. Make sure you get plenty of zinc, copper, and lean protein in your diet by eating things like: fish, leafy green vegetables and eggs.  Also make sure to drink plenty of water, that will keep your body and your hair properly hydrated.

3. Use shampoos that amp up the hair you still have. These volumizing shampoos can make your hair thicker so use them on a regular basis.

4. You can also make a trip to your doctor or your local pharmacy. There are many prescription and over the counter hair loss treatments that have shown to be effective for some men. Remember, not all products work for all people so it may be necessary for you to do a little trial and error.  Also keep in mind that many of the prescription drugs for hair loss have a lot of unpleasant side effects.  Carefully discuss these possible side effects with your doctor or pharmacist before you choose which product to use.

We're  lucky we live in a day and age where science is learning more and more about many of things we had for so long thought to be inevitable.  We now know that we can learn how to avoid hair loss in men.  By following the simple tips above you can dramatically reduce your hair loss and maybe even regrow some of the hair you've lost.
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Do you have it in you to join the elite brand of the rich and famous? Then bring out the star material in you; your strongest asset should win you accolades of success.

Push all your petty weakness down the drain, promising yourself never to lean on it for self-pity and remorse.Bring out the hidden lion in you; dare to dream big. Keep one thing in mind; only when you dream big, you can achieve that kind of big and stupendous success. If you wallow in your small and secure world, you will always remain so. Fame can touch you and turn you an overnight star, but that intense craving is needed. The real hunger and want for big success should be in your blood, so much so, that lady luck finally relents and showers herself on you! If you have it in you, you can join this fascinating field and attract the audience towards your performance.

Be exceptional in your talent, whereby no one dares to touch you or point you wrong. Be that unparallel and unique in your talent field – the ultimate best. Therefore, developing your inborn talent is very essential, in fact the first step to success. After honing your skills you need to market it in proper way. Your imagination and desires should be in tune with the reality world. Work out your potential talent, reshape it in accordance and start the action. This will definitely set the ball rolling in your direction. Be practical at the same time- aim for the impossible. Change your plan into reality by making unbending efforts that is within your reach. Hours of research and hard work may be required for attracting the right attention. Learn something from other people. The profiles and history of prominent personalities might give you an idea and motivate you. Their story from rags to riches may help you keep your nerve and struggle hard.

Daydreaming without moving a limb will take you nowhere. Watch lots of inspiring movies; subscribe local and international magazines. They can further your cause. There is an element of drama, literally in the lives of many high-profile Americans. So take a cue, bring out a surprise package through your performance for the audience to revel in it.

Once you are sure of yourself, go right ahead and market your talent, learn to sell and broadcast your skills. Tap the audience including event organizers, agents, managers and producers. If you limit and slot yourself into any particular category, it will be a big mistake for further growth. Famous personalities exude oodles of self-confidence and a distinct style of their own. Aim high and be ready to take on risks, you will surely succeed. And even if you stumble, remember ‘failure is the stepping stone to success!’ So have faith over your capabilities and dream on, who knows, the destination may be just round the corner!

 

Cheers,

 

Charlotte

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The phrase 15 minutes of fame is very common and alludes to the fact that every person can somehow achieve fame for at least a short amount of time. However, the Internet has changed the concept of transient fame to one which might be easy to get, easy to maintain and last for ever. With the Internet becoming a great part of people’s lives, being famous has got a lot easier. 

• You should get a thorough knowledge of the how the computer and the Internet work. Visit the library, get a few books and practice HTML. There is going to be a time when you’ll be able to change channels from CBS to ABC to Facebook or MySpace. You should have the basics of the Internet and computing under your belt so that you will be ready when the Internet and TV does become one.

• In order to build your own fan base, you should develop a website which will reflect your personality. People visiting your website must feel what kind of person you are and not as if an impersonal webmaster is running the website. It would be great if you would update the page regularly so that your fans will visit your website everyday.

• You should give your IM screen names, Net address, and URLs as much publicity as you can, and everywhere that you can. Reply to every comment which is sent to you. In a nutshell, act like your website is your home, and you should always be there to greet your guests.

• You could upload songs and videos which you like onto your web page. People with similar interests would visit your website often then. People who visit IStockPhoto.com can get images, streaming audio and video.

• You can make your web page and by extension yourself very popular if you make clever and thoughtful posts. If you can interest people with your posts, they will respect you and hold your name or user name in esteem. 

• You could search online on subjects which interest you, and discuss those topics on online forums or message boards. However, make it a point not to enter into arguments with others. You’ll become unpopular if you insist in proving how right you are compared to the other person. Always be polite and friendly.

• However, you should always be careful of the people you meet over the internet and not share too much personal information with them. At least not unless you are building a partnership on a business level that becomes personal.

 

Cheers,

 

Charlotte

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When waiting in line at the supermarket checkout, have you ever ended up buying a beauty magazine that you saw by the checkout counters? If you have, you are definitely not alone. While a large number of individuals, possibly just like you, purchase beauty magazines on occasion or as an impulse buy, many others have to have copies of all beauty magazines and on a monthly or even a weekly basis at that. While it is okay to have a collection of beauty magazines, you need to be careful about wasting your money.

When it comes to buying beauty magazines, there are many individuals, especially first time buyers, who wonder if beauty magazines are really worth the money. In all honesty, you will find that it depends. Beauty magazines come in a number of different formats and they are made and published by different individuals and companies. For that reason, no two beauty magazines are really the same. That is why you should examine each beauty magazine individually to determine whether or not it is worth your money.

One thing that you will want to examine is the contents of a beauty magazine. Beauty magazines, as previously stated, have different materials inside of them. If you are looking for something in particular, like how to keep your face clean and free of pimples, you may want to make sure that the magazine you are interested in buying covers that problem. If it does, the magazine in question may be worth your money, but if not, it may actually end up being a waste of your money.

What you also need to remember is that beauty magazines are not the only way that you can go about familiarizing yourself with the latest in beauty and fashion trends, as well as get tips on how to improve your appearance, beauty wise. You should also know that you can turn to the internet. Online, you may be able to find online beauty magazines, which are similar to the printed magazines sold in stores, but they come in online formats and many are offered free of charge. You may also find online websites that are designed to offer you free tips. There also online websites that have beauty message boardson them. These message boards are nice because you can not only get free beauty tips online or share tips that you know, but you can also make an online friend or two.

Yes, beauty magazines are not all that expensive. In most cases, you will find that beauty magazines cost around three or four dollars an issue. With that in mind, however, you need to remember that some people have a hard time with buying just one beauty magazine. Beauty magazines, over time, can get fairly costly; therefore, you will want to make sure that you examine each magazine that you want to buy before actually doing so. Even if you stop yourself from buying a beauty magazine even just five months out of the year, you may enjoy your extra savings.

In short, the decision as to whether or not you want to buy a beauty magazine or a number of them is your decision to make. However, with that in mind, it is important to remember that you don’t need to buy a beauty magazine to get beauty tips and information on the latest trends. If you do decide to buy beauty magazines though, you will at least want to take a few minutes to skim through them. This will give the opportunity to see if the magazine or magazines in question are really worth your money.
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African American hairstyles range from the basics of short to long haircuts. Therefore, a larger selection. Many women prefer to have a short and easy way to manage a professional African American hair style and still look trendy. The fact that the general vote to African American short hair style is a choice of different styles to choose from at any given time.

African American hairstyles should be very based according to face shape, personality, hair texture, as well as lifestyle. Therefore, when one is acquired it should be personal choice. Although, there are a wide variety of choices on styles.You still have to be creative about it. You can try at home first to see which African American hairstyle you like. Start with something that will inspire you to change your swag even more.


Afros and braids are some of the most famous African American hairstyles. This is only marked by the long hair in the most natural. Afros and braids are easily managed and low maintenance. Afros because it can be easily treated with a finger or pick. Braids you just keep your scalp and hair oiled. You do not need any chemicals to it. Therefore, hair is not chemically damaged.


In addition, another popular type of an African American hairstyle is to cut your hair short. The swag of short layered hair on the head can  be finger-combed. This style is done with a touch of oil moisturize hair for effectiveness. The diversity of these layers can be different styles every day.


Extensive hair braiding is a hallmark of African American hairstyles. There are several different methods by which to reach. Basically the type where small braids woven, stretched across the head. Or in some cases, small and tight braids made with regular spacing, such as decorative beads hanging along with it.

African American hair is far from just about a curl or waves. It's about smooth styles too. African American hairstyles are all beautiful, with the African American community met with the style that is truly amazing and flexible. Femininity of women and beauty is very much associated. A woman's hair is her crown and glory. Most of the general population is very fascinated with African American hair styles, just because of it's flexibility.

 

Develop your own swag for your hair clients and remember to share your results right here.

1. Choose your clients swag based on the above information.

2. Start a portfolioof your work.

3. Get your client feedback.

4. Share it with the world.

 

Have a wonderful week!

 

Cheers,

 

Charlotte

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How to Gather Free Beauty Samples


Have you heard of free beauty samples before? If you have, have you been requesting them whenever you come across free sample offers? If you haven’t, you may want to think about doing so, as there are a number of benefits to requesting free beauty samples, a few of which are briefly touched on below.

One of the many benefits of requesting free beauty samples is that they are free. Many times, you don’t even have to pay for the cost of shipping. Depending on who the free sample in question is being offered by, the product manufacturer or the retailer in question will ship the free sample to you free of charge. When you look at it that way, what do you have to lose by requesting free beauty samples?

Another one of the many benefits to requesting free beauty samples is the products that you can find available. For starters, free beauty samples come in a number of different sizes, but you are often only given a free trial size. As for the actual free beauty sample, you will find that there are a number of products for you to choose from. For instance, free beauty samples often include makeup, perfume, skincare creams, lotions, shampoos, conditioners, and so forth. No matter what you are looking for, in terms of a beauty product, you should be able to find some form of that product type available as a free sample.

Speaking of what you are looking for, that leads to another one of the many benefits to requesting free beauty samples. Requesting free beauty samples is relatively easy to do. In fact, you have a number of different options. One of the best ways to go about requesting free beauty samples is by using the internet. When using the internet to find free beauty samples, you will want to think about performing a standard internet search. You may want to visit the online websites of beauty product manufacturers, as well as beauty supply stores, as they often have free sample request forms on their websites.

You can also use the internet to find free beauty samples by visiting websites that are regularly referred to as freebie sites or free product sample websites. These websites are often in message board formats so that internet users can share free product samples that they come across online with others. What is nice about visiting a free product sample website is that you will not only find links to free beauty samples, but a wide range of other sample types, including books, movies, food, pet products, and baby products.

It may also be a good idea for you to visit one of your local beauty supply stores on occasion. While it is more common to find free beauty samples online, many beauty supply stores also offer free beauty samples to their customers or even those who just enter the store. Since not all retailers offer in store free samples, you should not count on receiving them, but if you happen to be in or around a local beauty supply store you may want to look to see if they have any free beauty samples available for taking.

Perhaps, the greatest benefit to requesting free beauty samples or taking one when you find them in store is that you never really know what you may end up with. Product manufacturers and retailers often offer free samples on their new products; therefore, it is likely something that you haven’t already tried before. In that case, you may be pleasantly surprised with the free beauty sample that you requested, whether it was perfume, makeup, or a skincare product. In fact, you may be so pleased with your recently acquired free sample that you decide to buy the full size product from then on out.

In addition to sending you a free product sample, it is common for a product manufacturer or a retailer to also include money saving coupons with your free sample. This is nice because should you like the product in question, you may want to buy the full sized product and your coupon may come in handy if and when you decide to do so.

 

I hope this has been helpful to you and would love your feedback on implementing this.

 

Talk to you soon!

 

Cheer,

 

Charlotte

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You are great!



One of the most well known confidence building exercises is to list your own strengths and natural abilities.

By looking at the list it can make you say “Wow, I really am good!”

Another great way of building your confidence and getting in touch with how great you really are is to ask friends, colleagues and people who you know for feedback on your strengths and natural abilities.

Your practical assignment is to list 5 people who you know and trust for this exercise.

Make sure they are from different areas of your life.

List them below:

1.    A FAMILY MEMBER



2.    A FRIEND



3.    A WORK COLLEAGUE



4.    AN ASSOCIATE



5.    A SOCIAL CONTACT


You might at this stage be feeling a little nervous about asking these people for feedback.

Don’t worry, because you will be only asking for your strengths.

JUST GO FOR IT!

So, how do you go about it?

Well, below is a list of questions that I’d like you to ask to each of your list.

I recommend that you meet or talk on the phone with each beforehand and explain the context of the exercise and then either ask them verbally or give them the questions and either fill in the sheet of paper or email you with their feedback.

They will feel honored that you have asked them and the feedback that you will receive will truly make you feel fabulous and full of confidence.

Rightly or wrongly, we live in a society where other peoples’ opinions count to our self esteem and confidence.

By completing this exercise you will get some really good insight into some of your strengths.

Often you receive valuable information on the strengths that you didn’t even know you had!

EXTERNAL FEEDBACK QUESTIONS


•    What do you perceive to be my greatest strengths?


•    What do you like most about me?


•    What do you value most about me?


•    What three words sum up the positive points about me?


•    If you needed help with something, what would you call me to help you with?



After you have received all of the feedback it is now time to reflect on what has been written or said:

How do you feel about it?


Are there any surprises?


Do you feel confident about your abilities?


How can you use this information going forward?


How can you maximize your strengths?


If these people think you have these strengths, so do a lot of other people as well – how does that make you feel?


What are the key insights you have learned?


What will you do now that is different to what you have done before?



Have a great week!

Cheers,

Charlotte









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Setting Goals To Get Results

In my life I have learned if you Do Not Set Goals you are setting yourself up for failure. Some people set goals to reflect only their business interests; others set only personal goals. Once you get comfortable setting and reaching goals in one area, however, you may want to seriously think about setting and reaching goals in all areas of your life. So Check the below areas on setting your very own goals in life.

 

 

Personal Goals

 

There are a variety of goals that can come under the heading of personal goals. You can break this category down much further into areas of your personal life that you would like to improve. For example, you may set relationship goals, self-improvement goals, personal issues that relate to your body, such as weight-loss or fitness goals, or even personal health goals.

 

Professional Goals

 

This is one area where most people are comfortable setting goals. Professional goals usually have something to do with improving an area of one’s work life, such as preparing oneself to qualify for a certain job or improving on an area in your current job. Professional goals may also relate to getting the required education to qualify for a better job, or perhaps learning a new skill that doesn’t require formal education.

 

Perhaps you’re terrified of making public speeches but need to be able to do so to qualify for the position you’d really like to have. Maybe you already have the skills to speak in public but you just can’t bring yourself to do so. Moving past this obstacle could be a personal goal or a professional goal; it doesn’t really matter where you put it in your goal setting guide. The only thing that matters is that you set the goal and begin to work on that area.

 

Financial Goals

 

Financial goals could be goals that mean you want to earn more money professionally or they could be goals where you work on spending less money in your personal life. Whatever area of your life is affected, that is where you want to put your financial goals. Whether it is a personal goal or a professional goal it is still what’s important. What is important is that you identify an area of your life where you are committed to making an improvement and begin by writing down your goal setting strategy.

 

 

A Goal for Each Area of Your Life

 

Balance is the key when it comes to setting and reaching goals. That’s because setting and reaching goals is a tool we use to lead happy and successful lives. For this reason, try not to have every goal in one category only, such as your professional goals or your financial goals. In fact, see how many categories you can think of to set goals in order to help you achieve that balance. Did you know that some people even need to set goals for their leisure life? That’s right! See how many categories you can come up with to set and reach goals. Go ahead, have fun; don’t limit goals to the work part of life; set goals for fun too!

 

Cheers,

 

Charlotte

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