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LALA TALK ON LOVES LEARNINGS

Posted by EMMA WHITE on March 30, 2011 at 3:30am

LALA TALK ON LOVE LEARNING FOR ALL MY SISTA IN NEED

LOVES LEARNING !
HEY NOW THIS IS FOR THE LONG TIME COMING And slumming of,,,,,,,,!!!!!!
YOU BETTER THINK IT OVER MAMA SAYS LA LA DID DIFFENT Y IM TAKE YOU BACK DOWN MEMORY LANE WITH MY MANY AND PLENTY OF LOVE GAMES THAT WAS PLAYED AND MADED I KNOW THAT MANY WOMAN CAN RELATE TO THIS AND MORE WITH THERE MEMORY OF HEART THERE STORY
REMEMBER THOSE MANY DAYS OF WONDERING AND KNOWING THE UNPLEASENT DEALING OF YOUR MAN
LATE NIGHTS OF SITTING AND WAITING FOR HIM TO ANSWER YOUR MANY CALLS LISTEN FOR THE DOOR TO OPEN TO YOUR HOME EXCEPTING HIS UNFAITHFULNESS IT CAN MAKE SOME WOMAN AND BREAK SOME WOMAN IT ALL IN HER LIFES DETERMINTATION YEAH HE WAS WITH THE NEXT GIVEN HER SMOOTH SAILING AND LOVING AND YOUR SITTING UP INTOXICATED AND SMOKING CIGARETTS WONDERING WHY AND CRYING TO YOUR TIRED BODY COULD PRODUCED ANY MORE UNWANTED TEARS YOUR TEARS OVER YOUR TROUBLED WATERS
BELIEVE ME LA LA KNOWS THE UNTRUTH OF MEN SAYING IM SWEEP YOU UP AND YEAH THEY SWEPTED ALL RIGHT MY HEART AND LOVE FOR THEM RIGHT OUT OF THEIR SIGHT
LA LA LEARNED IN LOVES DEALINGS FOR ANOTHER IS LIFES EXPERIENCE AND JUST BECAUSE YOUR MAN SAY THAT YOUR WALKING HAND HAND WITH HIM THAT DOESNT MEAN THAT YOUR CHAINING HIS SOUL THERE A BIG DIFFERNTS IN THAT LADIES YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT TO UNDESTAND IT REALLY
I LEARNED THAT JUST BECAUSE HE SAY HE LOVES YOU AND MAKES LOVES TO YOU THAT DOESNT MEAN HIS LYING KISS'S OR A CONTRACT OF HIS DEVOTION AND HIS GUILTY PRESENTS DIDNT MEAN HE WAS TRULY SORRY FOR HIS BROKEN PROMISES
LA LA LEARNED THIS THE HARD WAY THAT A MAN COMPANY DOESNT MEAN HIS SECURITY LADIES AND I EXCEPETED THAT LA LA LEARNED WITH A HEART OF A WOMAN AND THE TRUE MEANINGS OF LOVES LEARNING FOR MANY GRIEFS OF A BOY I LEARNED TO BUILD MY ON HOUSE THATS MAKES MY ON LOVE FOUNDATION AND I LEARNED THAT BEING IN LOVE AND OUT OF LOVE WITH A MAN IT IS YOUR PLANE THAT DIDNT STAY A FLIGHT YOU GET MY DRIFT? I LEARNED TO LOVE ME AND I REALLY WAS STRONG I CAN ENDURE REAL LOVE FOR A REAL MAN AND I LEARNED HIS WORTH WITH MY HEAD HELD HIGH AND TO BUILD MY LOVE AND LIFE PLANS ON TODAY BECAUSE TOMMOROW IS UNCERTAIN TO WALK ON A NO EXISTED LOVE ROAD! LA LA LEARNED AND LEARNED And STILL IS IN EVERYDAY CHOICES OF LOVING AND PLEASING HER MAN LADIES SO LEARN WIDE EYED AND REMEBER EVEN HAPPY SUNSHINE HAVE AWAY OF BURNING YOU TO LADIES YOU GOT TO REALLY UNDERSTAND AND WANT TO GET THAT LIVED ADVISE
LA LA TALK LOL MAN I DID WALKED BACK DOWN MEMORY LANE JUST NOW BUT IM STILL MOVING FORWARD WITH A KING LADIES NOT BACKWARDS

Hello my friends

Posted by Tammy Matheson on June 7, 2010 at 10:06pm

Hello my name is Tammy Matheson. I own a cleaning business in Poughkeepsie NY . I start my business about three years ago. My business is name after my grandmother who past away. My grandmother cleaned for living. Cleaning is actual something I enjoy during how about you. My Grandmother inspire me to start my own cleaning business. I also own an all natural health business (to keep me looking good, feeling good and smelling good) http://www.usana.com/webhosting/feelinggreat2010

Tammy Matheson

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Change of Decor, At The White House

Posted by TotallyLess.com on February 24, 2009 at 12:00am

Design suggestionsWhat changes do design experts think the Obamas should make at the White House? Here are some of their ideas:Go green: "I'd like to see the White House LEED-certified. If you have an important agenda that you want to get into the American home, starting with your own home is the best thing." - Stephen Drucker, editor-in-chief of House Beautiful magazine.Keep it simple: "Given that we seem to be in for a long economic slowdown, and many families are struggling, the president cannot seem to be extravagant or ostentatious." - interior designer Celerie Kemble, author of the new book "Celerie Kemble:To Your Taste." Embrace the digital age: "I see the library as more of an Internet cafe-lounge with state-of-the-art computer, television and surround-sound capabilities." -Lisa LaPorta of "Designed to Sell" on HGTV, who suggests the room as a place for presidential online chats. Use what you have: "Although change is vital to growth, care must be taken to repurpose and reuse as many items as possible." - designer Mark Woodman of the Color Marketing Group.- THE ASSOCIATED PRESSYour Unique Sense Of StyleHome Decor, means everything. After all your home is where you dwell. Its were your relax. Its where most of your meals, should be prepared. It's your place, get it, your place. So, why shouldn't it reflect who you really are. Because my business targets home decor. I've been reading a lot of material in this area. And, I've realized that a lot of people do not focus on making their place just that.. Life, can get very hectic at times.Especially, in these current times. So, why not take a little time to build your nest. One piece at a time. There's a wonderful world of decorating out there. Try new things add new accents. Create a custom theme to express your unique style-it's never been easier, to add beauty and fashion to your home.Today, I want to invite all of you, who happen to read this piece. To visit Totallyless.com, browse around for a moment. See all of the wonderful products, carried to enhance every room in your home. As Will-i-am say's"It's A New Day". And it is, We have a fabulous new First Family. Let's do something new for ourselves also.Let's go home. The Obama's have settled into a totally new home. That their going to take time to, add their signature touchs too. Give it their sense and feeling, of what they want home to feel like, for them. Why shouldnt we.Visit wwwTotallyless.com for yourself and discover your unique home decor abilities. How about adding something to your home or garden to comemorate our new first family. See, that's already a start.Happy New Day! Everyone.Amy SmithTotally LessTotallyLess@gmail.comwww.TotallyLess.com Why Pay More, For Home Decor

D.V.B.L Radio Starts March 10th & We'll Be Doing A Radio Giveaway For An eHarmony Membership!

Posted by Da Vinci on February 18, 2009 at 2:00pm

The time has come for D.V.B.L to expand it's horizons once again. The One Stop Shop For Women Of Today is now bringing you D.V.B.L Radio, a place where all of us can get together to discuss sex, dating, fashion, beauty, health, food, finances current event, and SOOO, much more.

Our first show begins MARCH 10TH @ 8pm Eastern time and the topics we're discussing are; Being Single/Dating In 2009, New Dating Options & Alternatives and more!

You can visit the D.V.B.L Radio Page and register so you can add yourself as a friend and participate in the chat room when the show is going. :)

***WE'LL ALSO BE DOING A RADIO GIVEAWAY!!! So one lucky caller will have the chance to win an eHarmony 3 Month V.I.P Membership Card (ARV $120!)***

Please MARK YOU CALENDARS & Please Help Spread The Word!

Tell A Few Friends :)

D.V.B.L Radio Starts March 10th & We'll Be Doing A Radio Giveaway For An eHarmony Membership!

Posted by Da Vinci on February 12, 2009 at 12:30am

The time has come for D.V.B.L to expand it's horizons once again. The One Stop Shop For Women Of Today is now bringing you D.V.B.L Radio, a place where all of us can get together to discuss sex, dating, fashion, beauty, health, food, finances current event, and SOOO, much more.

Our first show begins MARCH 10TH @ 8pm Eastern time and the topics we're discussing are; Being Single/Dating In 2009, New Dating Options & Alternatives and more!

You can visit the D.V.B.L Radio Page and register so you can add yourself as a friend and participate in the chat room when the show is going. :)

***WE'LL ALSO BE DOING A RADIO GIVEAWAY!!! So one lucky caller will have the chance to win an eHarmony 3 Month V.I.P Membership Card (ARV $120!)***

Please MARK YOU CALENDARS & Please Help Spread The Word!

Tell A Few Friends :)

D.V.B.L Radio Coming To You All March 10th At 8pm Est.

Posted by Da Vinci on February 4, 2009 at 4:00pm

The time has come for D.V.B.L to expand it's horizons once again. The One Stop Shop For Women Of Today is now bringing you D.V.B.L Radio, a place where all of us can get together to discuss sex, dating, fashion, beauty, health, food, finances current event, and SOOO, much more.

Our first show begins MARCH 10TH @ 8pm Eastern time and the topics we're discussing are; Being Single/Dating In 2009, New Dating Options & Alternatives and more!

You can visit the D.V.B.L Radio Page and register so you can add yourself as a friend and participate in the chat room when the show is going. :)

***WE'LL ALSO BE DOING A RADIO GIVEAWAY!!! So one lucky caller will have the chance to win an eHarmony 3 Month V.I.P Membership Card (ARV $120!)***

So Please MARK YOU CALENDARS & Please Help Spread The Word!

Are You Using PayPal or Another Company to Process Your Online Payments?

Posted by Michelle McBride on February 4, 2009 at 1:14am

Is your business using PayPal or another company to process online credit card and check payments? If so, why not consider switching to a company that offers you a lower rate on credit card processing. McBride Merchant Services, Inc. offers you a lower rate on your payments processing. Our system offers "lightning speed" state of the art transaction processing at a rate lower than PayPal or other comparable companies. In fact, we can lower your online processing fees by 20-30% in many cases.McBride Merchant Services offers the following online solutions for credit card and e-check processing:* Virtual Terminal* Secure WebPayWe support most online shopping carts such as "Asecure Cart, Fortune 3, and Cart Manager" for E-Commerce sales and we can assist Non-Profit organizations in accepting online donations.McBride Merchant Services can help you to grow your business by reducing your overhead expenses in credit card processing. Visit our website at www.mcbridemerchantservices.com for more details.In these challenging economic times, "every penny saved is a penny earned" for your business. We will work with you regardless of your credit situation or challenges!Michelle McBrideMcBride Merchant Services, Inc.www.mcbridemerchantservices.comEmail: mcbride@mcbridemerchantservices.com

Make 2009 Your Best Year Yet

Posted by Zhana on February 2, 2009 at 2:30pm

Are you achieving the glorious results you want?You have unlimited potential and you deserve the very best.Check out Success Strategies today.Are you a Black entrepreneur? I want to help you promote your business. This is free of charge. Check out my Strong Black Business Community.Not a member of Squidoo yet? Join here for free.Who have you helped? Helping others is said to be the best way to success. Send me your story. The best ones will be published.Here's to your success!Zhana

Enter Da Vinci’s Li Brow Giveaway! Feb 1st - Feb 28th

Posted by Da Vinci on February 1, 2009 at 5:00am

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This Month's Contest "Da Vinci's Li Brow Giveaway!" is running from Feb. 1st - Feb. 28th. It's open to residents of the united states and canada 18 and over. (please make sure you follow the rules)

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What is your competitive edge?

Posted by Lisa Henry on January 31, 2009 at 11:30pm

Greetings everyone!Developing your competitive edge is a must. I am a true guerrilla marketer just the same as most, however what has made me unique or stand out marketing for the legal community is my ability to adapt using media software creatively. I have spent years developing my edge to survive in the industry. There are numerous docket runners and legal marketers in my area in the same business who are creative when it comes to guerrilla marketing, but it is that edge of creating something our competitors cannot offer keeps us going. My competition are other legal marketers.My use of software and informational content are my edge in the industry. Keep in mind people do not buy features as much as they buy benefits. Marketing benefits is the key to gaining paying clients.If you fall and scratch your knee, it may benefit you to get a product that helps heal the wound on your knee. People seek out benefits, then browse or shop for the features. One product may feature an antibiotic creme, another may offer the feature in an easy no mess tube. Benefits usually come before features. When I market using how a service can truly benefit the desired target audience in a format unique from others I have created marketing a product or service with a competitive edge. For example, you have likely seen attorney TV commercials, newsletters, brochures, direct mailers or billboards. Now, how many of those commercials have you seen or heard the statement, "We will work for you" or " If you are hurt on your job, call the law office of ________"? Where is the edge, the uniqueness.?I learned quickly to market quality, not quantity which is another competitive edge rule that when followed, generates paying clients. A lot of "prospects" do not equal paying clients. It may seem as though you are not making progress when you market quality in the beginning, but your bottom line and what you receive in return will prove fruitful in the future. Quality is about planting seeds and preparing for the harvest. Quality marketing is marketing where your products and services benefit.What is your edge? What makes your product or service different from other products and services just like yours? I developed skills, along the way, that I can confidently add to my resume because of adapting and developing my competitive edge. See some examples below of how keeping up with technology has helped me expand into other areas.These are examples of wedding vendor sites: Mir-A-Co Designs and Elegant EventsWhen I created my Ning social network I wanted a unique banner so I designed from scratch this interactive banner: SweeThorn flash bannerYour edge will create business longevity. Create your edge today.It is always a Blessing to Share, Dream a World

Check out From A Writers POV Online Magazine February Edition!

Posted by Dominique on January 31, 2009 at 6:12am

From A Writers POV has been updated for it's February Edition! We are so excited about this edition because this month we are introducing our virtual magazine.You can view our virtual magazine on the homepage. Simply go to this link: www.fromawriterspov.webs.com and click on magazine. You will then see a link that directs you to the virtual magazine.Also, our Writing Events are back! This month's Writing Event is Love's Dedication. Check in each week to read each writers submission on Love! http://fromawriterspov.webs.com/thismonthswritingeven.htmAlso New!Weekly Feature (Celebrating Back History Month!) Get details here: http://fromawriterspov.webs.com/advertisemywritings.htmInspirational WritingArticlesNew Writing Event for March: "Just my Luck" We are looking for 4 writers to submit short stories on unbelievable moments. Get details here: http://fromawriterspov.webs.com/writingevent.htmDon't forget to leave your feedback in our survey!From A Writers POV wants to hear back from it's subscribers. We want to make some changes to our magazine. In the process, we want to make sure we are providing the services our subscribers need.Please take a moment to answer a few questions in our survey here: http://fromawriterspov.webs.com/magazinesurvey.htmWe truly appreciate your honest feedback!

DUI supports - March for Babies - help us reach our goal

Posted by Divasunlimited on January 31, 2009 at 5:27am

2009 MARCH OF DIMES MARCH FOR BABIES….Is back againWalking to give every baby a healthy start!I had the pleasure of attending the March of Dimes Kick - Off this week.As I was sitting at lunch listening to the speaker, she asked the question" Why are you a Team Captain?" (4yr veteran)The Answer for me: Enthusiasm is a result of being inspired!I am always inspired every time I go to the luncheon and hear a family's struggle and with the help of the March of Dimes they are able to overcome the odds in difficult situations. I also realize that this could have easily been my situation or someone I knew or cared about.So, yes I am ENTHUSIASTIC about the MARCH OF DIMES and that is why I need your help in helping me reach my goal. No amount is too small.Thank you in advance for your support ...General Donation2009 Goal - $1500.00go on-line - http://www. marchforbabies. org/rhondawilkins - no amount is too small

Looking to Be Your Own CEO ?

Posted by Rasheda Chabane on January 31, 2009 at 4:00am

Then wait no longer we have a low-cost startup fee of $35 plus shipping and tax. You will receive your partner kit within one week of your order to start marketing and promoting your business to potential clients and business partners. Visit the site at http://divinestyle.soulpurpose.net and click on Join then complete the enrollment form for membership. I hope you will join our stylish and innovative group of business owners.Yours Truly,Rasheda

Do You Understand Your Season of Change?

Posted by Narda Goodson on January 31, 2009 at 1:10am

The caterpillar knows his assignment; he understands and recognizes his season of change. He does not fear or fight against it but willingly positions himself to embrace and endure the severe process of metamorphosis.He does not despise his beginnings because he understands that the matrix of his world as a caterpillar is only a temporary form that carries his future. The ‘caterpillar’ is the larval stage of what he’s been created to be, a butterfly. He knows that beneath his uncomely exterior awaits a new birthing.The word caterpillar is a compound word. The word cater is a verb meaning to furnish, provide, and supply. The word pillar is a noun meaning support, rock, and leader. Caterpillars do nothing but eat and nourish on plant life during this humble beginning. However, this season of its life grounding, preparing, and becoming a tower of strength and support for its next phase of life.When you find yourself in the caterpillar stage of life, it is your job to feed on the nourishment of God’s Word so that it can sustain you during your pupa stage. When you have completed your pupa stage, you are then ready to emerge into maturity. Your life as a butterfly is to pollinate the lives of humanity through the gift of God’s love.Tilt your heart towards the SON!Pastor Narda GoodsonFirst Lady of Whitewright, TexasOfficial Website: http://anointedarrowsproductions.org\Social Network: http://christianwomenpredestinedbygod.ning.com/Copyright 2008 Gospel "PiLLs". All Rights Reserved

2009 Summer Programs For High School Students

Posted by Jim Neusom on January 30, 2009 at 10:00pm

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According to Quantcast.com, their demographics consisted of mostly middle aged, educated, Black women, with an average annual income of over $60,000.Connecting Black is an excellent site for black professionals to network with each other and invaluable to black business owners who want to meet and interact with black interest groups and black entrepreneurs.They went down for almost a year, but they’re back and stronger then ever….let’s support them in their efforts to regain their former prominence in the Black online Diaspora.***************(Advertisement)*********************Need some great ideas for corporate or personal gift-giving?Then go to City Lights Software(http://www.citylightssoftware.com)and see some of the most unique afrocentric gifts available online!We Deliver ONLINE - Direct To Your Desktop for just $14.95Please take the time to purchase one our afrocentric screen savers TODAY!Don't Just Talk the Talk...Let Your Dollars Walk the WalkIf you have any problems with purchasing online contact me direct at sales@citylightssoftware.comorcall(213) 944-4176***************************************************From: www.connectingBlack.comPosted By: William Hemmans1/29/2009 6:22:51 PM*I received this information from Dr. Charles Mills and want to pass along for anyone who might can use it.*2009 SUMMER PROGRAMS FOR HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTSFREE!! MIT announces its MITES Program, (), a challenging 6 week summer program that prepares promising rising seniors for careers in engineering and science. If you are selected, all educational, housing, meals and activity costs are covered. You must, however, pay for your own transportation to and from MIT. To apply, go to http://mit.edu/mites/www Deadline is Feb. 2.GEORGE WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY Science & Engineering Apprenticeship program (summer) -Applications due: Feb. 27, 2009 - This program places academically talented H.S. students (at least 16 yrs old, sophomores/ juniors) with interest in science & math in Dept. of Defense laboratories for an 8-wk period over the summer. This is an invaluable experience in the world of scientific research, with hands-on exposure to scientific & engineering practices not available in the HS environment. It is a paid apprenticeship ($2,000) and the students are assigned a scientist or engineer as their mentor. To apply online or get more information about the program: http://www.usaeop.com.FREE!! Princeton University announces its Summer Journalism Program for low-income sophomores or juniors with at least a 3.5 GPA (on a 4.0 scale) who have an interest in journalism. The cost is free including travel costs to and from Princeton! Apply now! Go to www.princeton.edu/sjp Deadline is Jan. 23. Please note: The deadline has been extended to February 20, 2009 (11:59 p.m.).FREE!! The National Center for Health Marketing's Global Health Odyssey Museum is pleased to offer the 2009 CDC Disease Detective Camp (DDC). DDC is an academic day camp for students who will be high school juniors and seniors during the 2009-2010 school year. Campers will take on the roles of disease detectives and learn how CDC safeguards the nation's health. The camp will be offered twice from June 22-26 and July 13-17. For more info and to apply to go www.cdc.gov/gcc/exhibit/camp.htm. Deadline is April 20.FREE!! The American Legion sponsors a week-long summer leadership program called Boys State. This year's program will be held at McDaniel College in Westminster, Maryland from June 21-27. If you are a junior interested in a leadership opportunity see your guidance counselor right away for more information.NASA sponsors the National Space Club Scholars Program, a 6 week summer internship at NASA's Goddard Space Flight Center. It is open to students who will be 16 years old and have completed the 10th grade by June 2009, have demonstrated high academic success, and have an interest in space science or engineering as a career. Applicants must be U.S. citizens. Applications are available in the Career Center or online at www.education.gsfc.nasa.gov/pages/placement.html Apply now! The application must be postmarked by February 17, 2009.University of Maryland, College Park: Women in Engineering, E2@UMD, July 12-18 or July 19-25; rising juniors and seniors. Go to www.wie.umd.edu/precollege or call 301-405-3283 University of Maryland Young Scholars Program targets rising juniors and seniors who have a strong academic record and a desire to excel to experience college life while earning three academic credits. 14 courses are offered for three weeks from July 12 - 31, 2009. Visit www.ysp.umd.edu/prCITY YEAR, WASHINGTON DC (Americorps) - Graduating seniors who are not sure what they want to do after high school should consider applying for a paid community service position with City Year, Washington, DC., a group of 17-24 year olds committed to full-time service for ten months in the Washington, DC community. Benefits include: living stipen d ($200 per week), health care coverage, free metro pass, and $4,725 educational scholarship. For more info: www.cityyear.org or email: cmurphy@cityyear.org/dc or call: 202-776-7780, Amanda Seligman. 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Carnegie Secret Formula

Posted by Kemi Fadojutimi on January 30, 2009 at 3:59pm

Carnegie Reveals His Secret FormulaIn 1883, while Carnegie was at the peak of his career, a boy was born to a poor family in a log cabin in the mountains of Virginia.It would be another 10 years before this boy would own his first pair of shoes, and 12 years before he saw a railroad train.Yet, this young man would one day become the advisor to presidents and mentor to millions. His name was Napoleon Hill."I discovered why my father named me Napoleon. I had a great uncle by the name of Napoleon Hill who was a multimillionaire. My father expected that he would leave some of his money to me on account of my having his name."But when the will was read, when I was 14, he had left out the entire branch of Hills from where I came. And I think that was the greatest favor that anybody ever did for me, because having had no inheritance, I had to go to work and learn to make my own money. The second great favor that someone did for me came from Mr. Andrew Carnegie."While in his early twenties, and working his way through college as a part-time reporter, Napoleon accepted an assignment to interview Andrew Carnegie — the wealthiest man in the world — and write an article about him.Carnegie, who was known as a great picker of men, saw something in young Napoleon that intrigued him.Without Napoleon knowing, Carnegie tried a little experiment. During the interview, Carnegie carelessly tossed his secret formula for success at young Napoleon.Then he sat back in his chair, with a merry twinkle in his eyes, and watched to see if this young man had brains enough to understand the full significance of what he had said to him.Napoleon grasped the concept right away but was unprepared for what the canny Scotsman had up his sleeve.Carnegie had finally found the person he was looking for. Now, at 73, he wanted to do more than just give away his money. He realized the potential good that his formula could do for others.He answered Napoleon's questions for three hours. When the time was up, Carnegie said:"This interview is just starting. Come on over to the house and we'll take it up after dinner."Napoleon was glad that he said "come on over to the house.""If he had said go over to the hotel and come back tomorrow morning, I'd have been broke because I had just about enough money in my pocket for the train ticket back home."After dinner, we went into the library and he talked about the necessity of passing on to future generations the sum total of what men like him had learned by a lifetime of trial and error. He said it was one of the sins of the ages that this knowledge was buried with great men when they died."Nobody had ever organized this information and made it available to the man on the street."Napoleon couldn't understand why Mr. Carnegie was wasting his time on a cub reporter like him. He was curious and kept his ears open and mouth shut.Carnegie went on to describe his philosophy — and formula for success — and explain what it would do for coming generations.Then he said:"Now, I've been talking to you for three days about this new philosophy. I've told you all that I know about it, about its possibilities and its potentials. I wish to ask you a question which you will please answer with a simple yes or no."If I commission you to become the author of this philosophy, give you letters of introduction to people whose help you'll need, are you willing to devote 20 years to research, because that's about how long it will take, earning your own way as you go along without any subsidy from me ... yes or no?""What would you have done if you had been sitting there in front of the richest man in the world, with about enough money in your pocket to pay your way back home, who had propositioned you to go to work for 20 years without compensation or without a subsidy? I knew I couldn't do it. I was certain of it. [Note: the reason why Carnegie asked him to do it without compensation will be clear in one of the following chapters.]"Isn't it strange that when you put an unusual opportunity before a person, the chances are 1,000 to 1 that his mind jumps to the 'no can do' part of it immediately."I didn't know this at the time, but I learned about it later. Mr. Carnegie made up his mind that when he put the question to me he would allow me only 60 seconds in which to say yes or no."Sixty seconds, that's all. I didn't see it, but he was sitting there with a stop watch behind his desk timing me, and it took me exactly 29 seconds to make up my mind that I would accept."Then, as Napoleon was about to leave, Carnegie said to him:"Well, Napoleon, 20 years is a long time and I have given you a pretty tough assignment, and you have accepted it. I want to warn you now that you're going to have many temptations along the way, long before you complete your 20 years of research, to quit, because that's the easiest thing that a weakling can do is quit."I don't think you're a weakling. If I had thought so, I would not have given you the opportunity. But I do know that you need something to bridge over your temptations to quit if and when they do come."I'm now going to give you a formula that will enable you to condition your mind so thoroughly that nothing in the world can stop you from going ahead and completing the task to which I have assigned you."Carnegie gave Napoleon a sentence to repeat — once at night and once again every morning.He told him that by repeating this simple sentence, Napoleon would never quit until he succeeded.This sentence, based on Carnegie's success formula, had the power to keep a person on track until he or she succeeded at whatever the person chose to do. Nothing could stop a person who repeated this sentence.At the time, Napoleon was puzzled by it. But as he started his research, it all made perfect sense ... and Carnegie's genius was evident.

The Rites of Women Pt. 2 - Celebrating the Mother to Be

Posted by Tonya K. Freeman on January 30, 2009 at 1:47pm

The Rites of Women Pt. 2By Tonya K. FreemanRite of Passage: Celebrating the Mother to BeAs a woman awaits the birth of her child, there is a ritual that is practiced in America and it is called a baby shower. It is the closest that we come to celebrating the state of being that a woman is in…the anticipation of the “almost here time.”There is another ritual that is becoming popular known as the Blessing Way Ceremony in honor of the Navajo Tradition. Some call it a Belly Blessing or Mother Blessing but it came to me as the “One Who Carries Life Within Blessing.” These celebrations usually take place in the latter part of the Oneness. Women who are family members and/or friends come to celebrate the wonders of Motherhood.When women gather in SiStarhood there is a healing effect that is in place. The bond that is formed in ritual is very strong and lifetime friendships develop.The celebration is usually planned by female members of the family, close friends or even a woman who facilitates these types of rituals and ceremonies. In fact the Mother to Be can create her own ceremony if she is so moved.On the day of the ritual, those who arrive to participate in a day of celebration, are smudged with the smoke of sage, cedar and lavender. If the smoke is irritating to the Mother especially, then an aromatherapy blend of the same ingredients can be added to spring water and sprinkled instead or they can be symbolically “swept clean” with a broom.The women then gather around the expectant Mother, encircling her and giving praise and thanks for the sacred space that is being created at that moment. Giving thanks for love and bless the space with moon water, moving in clockwise motion…making a joyful noise, gathering around, sharing birthing stories and tales of Motherhood.A specially decorated chair, designed for comfort is where the expectant Mother is seated, with flowers strewn about giving off a fragrant bouquet. Colorful pillows are placed on the floor for the adoration of the belly with henna painting or belly casting.Pampering can include tending the hair with loving strokes…all the while affirming a most beautiful birth with ease and grace. Women have traditionally given their community of SiStars a footbath scented with oils and herbs to comfort, rejuvenate and refresh one another. Follow through with a foot massage and the senses are truly pleasured. It is a time of sharing birthing stories that speak of joy, courage and love.In Africa, India and various cultures throughout the world there is a custom where the women of the clan paint the swelled belly with henna designs that speak to health, luck, joy, prosperity, spiritual awareness and protection. This beautiful work of art will adorn her belly until the day the child comes forth through the Web of Destiny. The painting, created only weeks before the day One became Two, is a reminder of the love, support, strength and courage of the SiStarhoodWomen like to help their SiStars look and feel beautiful from the inside out. The Hair Ritual is a relaxing experience that will prove to be beneficial to the body, mind and spirit. Weaving flowers into the hair or placing a crown of flowers upon the head is a way of showing honor to the initiation process of this Shamanic Priestess.A special piece of labor jewelry is presented and given by the Elder of the clan. This piece of jewelry is symbolic of all who gathered together in SiStarhood, that the Mother would be well prepared spiritually, emotionally and mentally for the journey that she is about to embark on.The dance of the belly is always a great way to end the festivities. That is when all of the women circle around the One Who Carries Life Within and they move their bodies like the ocean waves in celebration of an easy birth. It is a fun and joyous time being shared.Rites of Passage mark a very special time in our lives. These times should be acknowledged, honored and remembered for years to come. The ritual for the One Who Carries Life Within is inspired by the Ancestral Mothers and created for modern women.“Giving birth is priestess work; it requires a woman to pass through a painful and dangerous initiation in which she journeys to the threshold between worlds and risks her own life to help another soul to cross over.” Jalaya Bonheim Aphrodite’s Daughters

The Rites of Women Pt. 1 Menarche

Posted by Tonya K. Freeman on January 30, 2009 at 5:05am

The Rites of Women ©2005By Dr. Tonya K. FreemanFirst Rite: MenarcheFor a number of years now, I have been a strong advocate of women reclaiming their spiritual mysteries. In my workshops, seminars, and Primordial Priestess Training, the women are encouraged to identify and embrace the first mystery that they were introduced to, their Sacred Moon Cycle. By honoring this part of themselves, many have experienced a closer connection to Gaia’s rhythms and cycles, less cramps, less blood flow and in some cases less days of flowing. I love hearing reports such as these because it makes the work that I was born to do and love to do, a lot easier. There are still many miles to go, so to speak.As I think back upon my entry into womanhood the Summer of my thirteenth year. I remember that there was somewhat of a celebration given by my Mother, one of my aunts and my favorite female cousin. I had not really remembered that time, until now, as I am writing this article.These three very special women in my life cooked a special dinner, baked a cake, sat and talked woman to woman with me. My Aunt gave me a greeting card. The card was funny because it had a pill in it and read something like, “Put this pill between your knees and hold it.” I remember laughing and saying that I was not looking to get pregnant anytime soon.They bought me those “special” pads women use during “that time of the month” and showed me how to use them. My Mother even shared with me the use of a natural homemade pad, just in case.I recall a shopping trip with my Dad around that time. He bought me a few pieces of clothing and a pair of heels to add to my wardrobe. As I look back on that time, I am grateful that it was happy and joyful. I had forgotten how I was honored. It didn’t really occur to me what that celebratory Rite of Passage was all about. It never ceases to amaze me how events of the past are so relevant to my work today.Let me share with you some things that can possibly make the lives of women, my SiStars, my Daughters, even some of my Elders, a better experience, thereby, helping to make the world a better place one person at a time.Come with me on a journey into the Ancient Femi9 Mysteries.The first Rite of Passage for a young woman is such a natural one. It is the one where she begins her Sacred Bleed. This is a time of spiritual insight, dreams, visions and knowledge being shared by the Elder women of the family and the community. It is a time of transformation and the realization that you, as a woman can bleed for up to seven days and not die! Not only that, women created the first lunar calendar by counting the days until the next moon cycle. Just think how in tune to the cycles of nature you are at this time! Having the knowledge come to you from a feminine perspective, will allow you to honor yourself and be renewed.Most modern western women have not been privy to a positive experience of entering into womanhood. This point of view is changing, but not quickly enough, especially when I hear women talk about stopping their flow for four months or more. That can only bring disharmony to the female body and psyche as well. Life is out of balance when a woman does not honor the sacred aspects of herself.How about celebrating that special day by having a Blessed by the Moon Rite of Passage Ceremony? There should be Elder women from the family and maybe even the community coming together to celebrate this most auspicious time in a young woman’s life. The young flower may want to contribute her thoughts regarding festivities. After all, this is her day.Here is a scenario…the room is decorated with red and white flowers, red colored fruits and food, a special chair draped in red cloth and a red carpet for her to walk on.One of the Elder women, maybe her Mother, could make a special photo album filled of her previous years on Earth and present it to her. Music can be played for dancing and listening. The women attending could dance for the young maiden to send her loving energy and then have her to dance with them. A special Sacred Blood Bundle could be given to her with some items already in it…crystals, red candles and a special piece of red Moontime jewelry, just to get the bundle going. It can be a pouch or perhaps a doll. Handmade dolls have great meaning and hold great medicine.Our Ancestral Mothers knew of this blessed time and honored it. Will you?

The Toxic Job

Posted by Tsmart78 on January 30, 2009 at 4:00am

Is your JOB toxic?? We have all heard of toxic relationships and friendships. You know the ones that bring you down, lead you down the wrong path, or cause you more harm or hurt than good. So, is your JOB toxic? And how can you tell. If your immediate response to the question was yes, then case closed. If you are not so sure whether your job is toxic or not, I have some things you may want to think about. I'm not professing to be a career counselor, or anything like that, but I had a conversation with a friend that some people may be able to relate to...~ Signs your job may be "toxic" ~- Are you literally saddened by thoughts of your job or the thought of going to work?- Do you constantly go to work in a good mood, but leave angry or depressed?- Have you or are you developing health issues, (for example, high blood pressure, ulceres, anxiety) due to job related stress?- Does your job consumes all aspects of your life, even when you don't want it to?- Does your job interfere with your personal life or cause a strain in your personal relationships? You know, you are constantly missing valuable family time because you have to work late or bring the job home with you. ( Think carefully about this, don't confuse it with a toxic relationship at home)- Has your behavior change negatively since you have been working at your job.?- Do the practices of your company conflict with your personal values?I think that if you've answered yes to more than one or two of these questions then you may have a toxic situation on your hands. But what should you do about it? Now, with the economy today, I would not advise just quitting. 71,000 jobs were lost on Monday, 10,000 on Wednesday, and there are certainly more to come. So chances of getting hired somewhere else are slim.But in the meantime, see if there are other ways to survive and keep your sanity. Instead of griping about your job, thank God, that you have a means to provide for yourself or your family. While you are there, take comfort in knowing that you are doing the best that you can do while you are at work. Set limitations for your self try to work late only once or twice a week, and then set limitations on how late you will stay. Say I'm leaving at "x o'clock" no matter what. And stick to it. If possible, find something you do like, whether it be another job, or your own business. And by all means, be sure not to take the stresses of the day out on your loved ones. They will be there for you long after that job has passed.

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