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As far as New Year's resolutions go...

Mini Excerpts from RedBookMag.com/Sex & Relationships"Get a better sex life" probably falls way down on the list, after "Lose weight," "Exercise more," and "Eat leafy greens." But the truth is, sex is healthy, too — for you and for your marriage. (Plus, working on it is a lot more enjoyable than counting calories.) So this January, take charge of your sex life by following these fun resolutions — we guarantee they'll lead to exciting and satisfying trysts and take your sex life to a whole new level.Resolution #10: Have sex (sometimes) when you're not in the mood.Like most women, you probably have nights when sex is the last thing on your mind, and you'd give anything to sprawl out and get eight hours of shut-eye. But then your husband gives the signal that he's ready for some nooky. What to do? Well, going along with the idea can actually be a titillating surprise for you. "If he knows how to push your buttons, then having sex when your husband is ready and you're not means it's very likely you'll get aroused once you get going," says Zoldbrod. It can also give you and your husband a boost outside of the bedroom. A recent study by the National Bureau of Economic Research found that sex plays a major role in a person's happiness. Don't think of it as giving in to him, think of it as giving in to pleasure.Resolution #5: Get yourself some (or some more!) grown-up toys.Experts say that variety, novelty, and fun are all keys to keeping sex hot. A good sex toy provides all of the above and can help you and your husband live out your sexual fantasies. There's a wide range of products to choose from, so start with what you're comfortable with. For beginners, vibrators that don't look phallic, such as the Pocket Rocket, tend to be less intimidating. If you already own the basics and are ready for more advanced toys, try a vibrator that stimulates both your C-Spot and your G-spot (My recommendation: Freddy). Or get something that's made for both of you, such as the Jelly Tool Belt — a dual penis ring that has a vibrator in it to stimulate you. My recommendation: - Aurora - it is the #1 toy for couples.If you're not sure how to bring up the idea of experimenting, here are two ways: (1) Surprise your husband with some edible massage lotion (the Pure Romance line is a good choice) to spur a conversation — say, "Do you like this? Does it feel good?" (2) Make shopping a task you do together at a store, with a catalog or online. Some good, discreet Websites are Adameve.com, Mypleasure.com and Babeland.com....and BootyParlorParties.com/dsm!!!!!Resolution #12: Break out of your routine.Every couple has a tried-and-true method for getting in the mood. But let's be honest — the same old thing can get a bit boring. So mix things up. Even small tweaks can increase the passion in your marriage. Have sex in a different room of the house, make out in the car, take a bath together, spend more than five minutes on foreplay or "exchange three wishes that you want in bed," suggests Cadell. "That way you're playing a game — and a give-give scenario is always a success." Another tactic: Do things that you and your husband did together in the days before you had children. Shared experiences — such as dancing, going to the gym together or taking a romantic stroll — help you two connect emotionally and see each other as more than simply Mom and Dad. "You're reminded of those butterflies-in-your-stomach early days," says Zoldbrod. "Then you hold hands and, chances are, you come home to have some great sex."For complete article at: http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/advice/sex-resolutions
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It's All About the Traffic

Doesn’t matter what you’re marketing; it’s all a numbers game and website traffic is king. I’m sure we’re all in agreement about that; whether you’re into affiliate marketing, MLM or newspaper, if nobody visits your site, you’re just spinning your wheels. I spend countless hours looking for and trying innovative ways to increase the readership of Not Ur Momma's News; every one of you that’s serious about what you’re doing does the same.I stopped by because I found a way to take a bit of the pressure off and I want to share it with you. Monday, I decided to give yet another free traffic driver a try. Truth is I didn’t have a lot of hope, but I hadn’t looked at Traffic Swarm before, their concept of passive marketing appealed to me and I can use all the time savers I can get. The sign up is short, so I figured what the heck and went for it.You’ve gotta know I’m glad I did. NUMN has 4 new subscribers and… Don’t tell anybody, but I’m a closet MLMer and the program I promote got 2 new sign ups through Traffic Swarm too. I am loving this ya’ll. It’s easy; it’s free and best of all it works. Do yourself and your business a favor; join Traffic Swarm now. It will prove to be your best time investment this week.I am a free member of Traffic Swarm; I don’t make a penny when you join, but you will. And I didn’t stop by today to recruit downline, but I’d be remiss if I didn’t ask all currently comparing cutting edge opportunities to please ask me about The Goldrush before you decide. And I’ll pass on a hint, if you don’t mind? Join Traffic Swarm now; build your credits while you shop for the right opportunity and you’ll be locked, loaded and ready to advertise on day one.To all ya’ll with a product and a website to promote it; join Traffic Swarm now. I promise you won’t regret it.
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To be strong...

To be strong, remind yourself that you can be. To be strong, remind yourself of why you choose to be. To be strong, remind yourself of what your strength, focus and discipline have already brought you. To be strong, remind yourself that your commitment can be just as powerful as any excuse or rationalization. To be strong, have a well-understood purpose and a well-defined plan. To be strong, be sincerely thankful for all that you have and for all that you are able to do. To be strong, begin with your thoughts. When your thoughts are of strength and of positive possibilities, your actions will follow along. Each day the world will send you all sorts of challenges, difficulties, temptations and distractions. Know that these things are surely coming your way, and choose in advance to be strong. As the ups and downs of life arrive, remind yourself that you have chosen to be strong. Then as each moment passes, you'll naturally follow through on that choice.Be Blessed,Terri
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The Dream Continues

I am glad for those that got to see this event and experience the melding of humanity. As a former insider of Capitol Hill I can tell all of you that the words of Dr. King kept wispering in my head as I watched this event. In one speech he spoke the words that "there are some difficult days ahead." These words could not be more phophetic and true at the same time with the current state of our country. "I pray that one day a person will be judged not by the color of their skin but by the content of their character." This could not be more true with this election and installation of the first truely African American as President of our country. "I Have A Dream" The words in that speech have come to pass and now we as a people and as a nation must not let humanity down.We MUST uphold the truth and and act upon the words. We have now seen generations of all ages wake up from their slumber, wipe off the cobb webs of inequity, injustice, racism, sexism, despair, and degredation. We are now OBLIGATED to enebreate them all with the tools to reshape america, to reform the minds of the world to enact upon the task that is before us. We must show the world that we as a nation has changed for the better. With this grand inaugural event that has taken place we must "hold these truths to be self evident" that indeed finally all men and women are created equal. We have so far given those that are watching us from a distance that we do indeed have an Audacity to Hope and the Audacity to make sure this nation rises up to the call.We must all do our part. This is no longer a black issue it has become a national cause beyond the rainbow.
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Current mood: goodLiving your dream is hard. No question about it. But there are ways to soften the blow of dissappointments that will eventually come to us all.One way to keep everything in perspective is to notice and appreciate the "small things".When I remember those that have helped me in seamingly small ways, I realize that those individuals could have been doing a dozen different things, may be two dozen and yet they chose to spend a piece of their life helping me. That's right, a piece of their life!When you say "a piece of their life" you place value on the time they spend helping you.An attitude of gratitude will take you much further than ungrateful and filled with angst about not manifesting your desires.Remember to enjoy the journey because most of our life is spent in process. You can't cheat the process of life. Trying to cheat it is like trying to swim upstream. You may make some superficial, ultimately meaningless progress but in the end you always get pushed back.Remember, it doesn't cost you anything to say thank you. It could cost you everything if you forget to.Remember: Life Is Good.Visit Bob at www.IvoryCoastMedia.com and see his Book Trailers & graphic design and branding strategy.Synergy Energy!
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FOR THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND OLE' SCHOOL PEACE.SUCCESS IN SUCCESS TO ALL!

I CREATE MY OWN DESTINY; THEREFORE, WITH EACH DAY I CREATE ONLY PEACE, LOVE AND PROSPERITY IN THOUGHT, WORD, FEELING, AND ACTION.ASPIRATIONS DEVELOPMENT CONSULTING, LLCwww.MyAspirationsDCS.comAuthor,Life Empowerment Coach, Motivational Speaker,Certified Trainer/Instructor....,More Importantly....A Creation by GOD....His Property

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Search Engine Submission Done Right!

Search Engine Submission Done Right!

You have an affiliate website, but how do you expect to make some hard core cash from there unless you can ensure a constant pour out of visitors. Generating consistent traffic to your website is as important in Internet marketing as it is to have a product or a service at offer. You may have the best product and the best services, but the point is to be visible and to let your prospects know that you are there. This is where Internet marketing comes in to the limelight and since visibility in the search engines is decisive to your success here, search engine indexing and a higher ranking becomes equally important.
SpinSuccess is one of the leading search engine submission services and it would not be an overstatement to call them the best in the industry. Their services specialize in encouraging and facilitating the top earning affiliate websites and their desire is to do the same for you as well. Whatever be your predilection in choice of services and products, they is resolved to soar the amount of traffic to your website, thereby rocketing your bottom line like never before. Their services have been adopted by several satisfied customers, testifying their infallibility in getting you exactly what you want.
Of course, the guaranteed service of the SpinSuccess team sure needs some applause. However, the affordability of their services is also what sets them apart from any other search engine submission services and, probably, any other means of Internet adverting. The team specializes in over-delivering each of their clients within the affordability that is so much unknown in the industry. Their clients receive a pay-per-click credit of $100 for looksnap.com in addition with another pay-per-click credit of $100 for questclick.com. Additionally, a SpinSuccess client receives $200 worth paid advertise just by becoming a member of their services.
Valued $500, the SpinSuccess package is available within any Internet marketer’s affordability. Their monthly membership is worth $74, which makes it so much perfect for just any one to avail and ensure regular flow of cash, working right from the comforts of their home. You can also avail their limited period offer, whereby you can become a member to their world-class services at a monthly subscription of as low as $29.95. You can witness yourself the amount of traffic being generated you your website and deiced for yourself what sets SpinSuccess apart from any other source of Internet adverting.
The extensive follow up that characterizes the team will never let you down in your run for success. The team specializes in extensive market research and constantly updates its system to ensure you guaranteed traffic generation that will escalate your business to a never before destination. This way, you can not only save much of your labor, otherwise involved, at the same time, ensuring highest returns of the minimum investment you make to enroll with their services. You get services worth $700 (as par the industry standards) for all that you need for setting up a successful affiliate business at just $29.95. It’s worth it!
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Design the Relationship you want.I have found that a lot of the same things that work for me in business also work for me in my relationship with my husband. For the last 6 months my husband and I have been consciously making plans, going over contracts, scheduling meetings and doing revisions. Sounds, boring... not at all.Just like in business you must have a written plan, that is something to measure your progress by. When things are not working out one of us, whomever has noticed it first may say, "we need to take some time out and talk," this is what I am referring to when I say have meetings. And our meetings are not necessarily formal, they may take place anytime, whenever we get the chance, in the morning, in bed or over the phone, but the point is we talk about the situation (conducting our meeting) and if we find we need to revise the plan, we do it. We may disagree on what exactly needs to be revised but that is just what happens in a board meeting, but eventually there is a consensus and we go from there. And just like in business when you must take the client out to lunch or dinner, you must do that same for your spouse or significant other. In business we don't expect to treat the client in an uncaring manner and then believe that you are going to keep their business. So I say remember to treat your partner the same.The point to all the above is that you have to plan your life and even if you are a single person that eventually wants to get married. Take the time and write down your ideal person you want and how you want the relationship to be. Design your relationship as you would your business and see what will happen for you. This will also work if you have not found the significant other yet, write your plans.Who has done this also? Tell us about it.Who doesn't think this could work for you, whyYou are WELCOME to visit www.beautifulenterprise.com to take a look at ALL our other endeavers.
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Free Marketing Tool

I've recently been introduced to a free marketing tool called DesktopLightning.DesktopLightning.com is a viral marketing tool.- They use the term viral because it is easy to circulate and the membership grows exponentially. Don't worry, it is guaranteed to be virus free and has no adware.I've been using it for several weeks now and I have no complaints. It is a great way to communicate with others and to build your marketing list.check out: My DesktopLightning Page for a full description.It is primarily designed for people who have something they want to promote or advertise.If you don't have something you want to promote or advertise yet, it still may be a good idea to sign up and build yourself a marketing network now, so that you can advertise to it later.Once you've brought some people into your network below you, they will start building their own networks. This process will continue 15 levels deep.Then, you'll be able to send broadcasts right to the desktops of everyone below you, promoting or advertising whatever it is that you want to promote or advertise.Don't worry, it's non obtrusive and free!
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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASEJanuary 24, 2009CONTACT:Eula M. Young, COO212-281-2286eula@griotsrollproduction.comwww.griotsrollproduction.comhttp://griotsroll.ning.comEula M. Young, COO & Co-Founder of Griot’s Roll Film Production & Services Inc. a certified business owner is spotlighted in a on-line magazine called “SISTERHOOD AGENDA MAGAZINE" VOLUME 1 2009” in the Women in Business section of this on-line magazine was developed by Ms. Angela D. Coleman in 1994.Sisterhood Agenda, Inc. is a global, award-winning non-profit organization created to uplift and aid in the self-development of women and girls of African descent, a historically at-risk and traditionally underserved population. Sisterhood Agenda serves over 3 million women and girls each year in over 30 countries.Sisterhood Agenda creates and centralizes resources for females of African descent to address health, cultural, social, and economic needs through a variety of innovative approaches, publications, programs and services. Based in Newark, New Jersey, social impact is expanded through partnerships with agencies, individuals and businesses throughout the United States, Canada, Europe, the Caribbean, United Kingdom, and Africa. Global Partners in the Diaspora create an extensive sisterhood network to empower girls and women of African descent to become powerful voices for positive change around the globe. http://www.sisterhoodagenda.comSisterhood Agenda coordinates program replication throughout the Diaspora. Sisterhood Agenda publishes the groundbreaking magazine, Sisterhood Agenda Magazine, other books and program guides to enlighten and empower women and girls of African descent with:• Sisterhood• Self-knowledge• Self-development, and• Self-esteemEula M. Young has extensive experience working and volunteering with girls, a former Girl Scout Leader in the Bronx, New York, she volunteered her time to a year round troop, to develop the education and building self-esteem of young girls. Her troops had 100 girls from Daisies - Senior Cadet’s. When she wasn’t volunteering with the Girl Scouts she spent her time working in her children’s elementary school as a Parent Association Member at Large, Secretary and President of the Parents Association working endless hours to help build a south Bronx School with the Principle and the Community School Board. She not only help pass policies to further the education of the children in C.E.S. 53x, she also worked to revised the by-laws of 53x which at that time was over 20 years old.One of Ms. Young’s proudest moments as a Girl Scout Leader was marching in the Hero’s Parade for Nelson Mandela on June 20, 1990. New York gave Mr. Mandela a hero’s parade and Ms. Eula’s girls scout troops were invited and marched in that parade right behind Nelson Mandela’s float. Ms. Young has received numerous awards for Outstanding Achievement in Leadership from the Girt Scout Council of Greater New York, The Council of Supervisors and Administrators of the City of New York Parent Leadership Award, Certificate of Services Achievements, Certificate of Merit to the Children of C.E.S 53x just to name a few.Ms. Young is a member of the Harlem Business Networking Internationl group and a membership committee coordinator.Eula M. Young is available for articles, interviews, panel discussions, speaking engagements, networking events, business conferences, seminars and lectures. For booking and information on the Harlem BNI, contact Eula M. Young, COO at (212) 281-2286 or eula@griotsrollproduction.com.Griot’s Roll Film Production & Services is certified with:New York City Department of Small Business Services Division of Economic and Financial Opportunity M/WBE Certified Business EnterpriseNew York State Empire State Development Division of Minority and Women’s Business Development MBE Certified BusinessNew York State Dormitory Authority (DASNY) Office of Opportunity Program M/WBE Certified Business
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Move forward Inspite of....

You may not get it right on the first attempt. Do it anyway, and you'll soon figure it out. People are likely to come up with all sorts of reasons why it will never work. Work on it anyway, and commit yourself to handling each challenge as it comes. Something unexpected will probably happen, in your life, in your industry, or in the world at large, that will cause many of your assumptions to be incorrect. Move forward anyway, because you are perfectly capable of adjusting to changing conditions. It's possible that you won't get the results you expected. Learn from the results you do get, and with your newfound knowledge you'll discover ways to achieve even better results than you first expected.There is no good reason to deny yourself the opportunity to accomplish whatever you choose to accomplish. Life is about making a difference, and you will never run out of ways to do that.Whatever has happened, whatever they say, whatever the state of the weather or the economy may be, move forward anyway. Life is what you choose to make it.Be Blessed!Terri
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I attempt to approach life's trials with a spiritual point of view. I think that most people can give introspective concepts and ideas. I thought when I write, people are on the same page as me. But I have been wrong, one too many times, lately. I never said anything with malice or contempt unless I intentionally do it with strong statements.Lately, I have had to tell someone I have not met in person and only known on the internet that "I hated him, period". Then he started lunacy about calling me "mental unstable"... Maybe I should be grateful, because he will not mess with me if he thinks that...Then, I had to read some lunacy that we need to wholeheartedly forgive convicted child pedophiles because some "parents raise their children to be cute, and when they sit on a pedophiles' laps and how that might around him or her". First, I am shocked a Pastor of God would say that. Second, I did not merit a retarded comment like that from anybody. Third, when questioned, the logic and comments made by this "man of God" attempted to justify why we have to forgive--not mentioning how a convicted sex offender ought to be an adult and say, no, I cannot stay with you...Lastly, my first love when I was a young adult has been my Sorority, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. I have been an active member for almost 20 years. I PLEDGED when it was legal, above ground. It was hard for me to join Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. when I did. But I chose to be resilient and hold on to my dreams and joined when I was college. I have served at several levels for my Sorority since I joined and I have been grateful for the experiences I have received. However lately, due to financial circumstances, I can not serve at a local level and ONLY at the International Boule level. Which is fine for me right now. Eventually, I might go back to my local chapter.My issue is how is ANYONE who is NOT a member of my Sorority is going to speak about any membership related activity after all the stuff I have done? WTH? Too many interjections by the peanut gallery. Bears no relevancy to the organization overall. People are too concerned about what is on someone else's plate than what is one their own! Or, to make it relevant, how can you say to another, let me take that speck out of your eye when you have a board in your own...Lately, it just does not seem that these "negroes" are to swift or they aren't the sharpest tools in the chest... The are too worried about keeping up appearances rather than serving the community, by rolling up their sleeves and making the critical changes needed. And this is not a one-time deal. This is supposed to be once a week helping people. More than just reading a story to disadvantage kids every now and then... About confirming passing state exams so they graduate. More than just moving dirt around one day at Habitat for Humanity, how about those engineers, like NSBE, designing "green" structures for them as a challenge. More than just testing blood and pee for diseases. How about, making sure people have the facts about these diseases and coaching them to making better health choices. More than participating in that random cancer walk for one day. How about serving on the walk committee?I have hyper-extended myself to communicating these issues to these "negro organizations" and I am fed up!If we want a place at the table, no amount of protesting is going to help. Not even our President Barack Obama or First Lady Michelle Obama is going to change the exorbitant amount of work that needs to be done for all Americans--which essentially means, we get left behind--unless we start busting out butts and get out there just like we did for the vote. Not this election, but ALL elections. Maybe running election centers and installing election devices... How about that. Over and beyond!!!I am tired of "negroes" taking credit for areas they only bought a bootleg sticker for today. What happened to the "trailblazers"? I guess they got old, like Rev. Dr. Joseph Lowrey or the Tuskegee Airmen... All of those older gentlemen fought and died so that we could have a PRESIDENT OBAMA!!!Neither brother or sister is getting this, until it is too late. But there are a few of us. Some call us the 5 percenters. Some lead us to newer and rarer Earths. Then some, like myself are left alone, biding there time, when one day, somebody "discovers" the quintessential changes that I discovered in my areas of expertise, and maybe I might get lauded. Then, bandwagoners or groupiesm starts... However, my task put before me is NOT about fame or fortune, while that would be nice, it is about doing right for those I serve and pursuit of perpetuity.Mind you, the path I have chosen in my life is daunting, but if I don't do it, who will? If not now, when? If not me, then who? Why wait? I know I am not the smartest, the brightest, the most faithful or "holiest". I am not the prettiest, the fastest or the loving kindness-nest. But I have passion and desire to seek justice for my cause. And I will do whatever it takes without soul compromising, to ensure that justice.And if I am judged by "negroes" who have done little but to talk about others rather than ideas, then hey, I get judged and I cannot let that deter me on this quest!For, as Roman 8:31 says, "if God is for me, who can be against me"?Just keep ordering my steps, Lord... You know I love you.Nameste',Dr. G-Ariafya LLCFounding Member & PresidentMental Zeal for Spirit & Well-BeingWithin Unity There Is Strength
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What are we selling?

Greetings everyone!

My introduction and understanding of legal marketing came from a criminal defense attorney who took a risk hiring someone with no legal marketing background.

The first question he asked me on my first day was, “What are we selling?” I had not a clue. I told him legal services and then he said. “Hell, I went to school seven plus years for people to already understand that.”

The mood in his office was serious, he was not laughing. Then calmly he stood up, motioned me with his right arm and said, “Come walk with me.” We ventured just outside the office door and then he asked me to tell him the exact number of solo lawyers on this block alone. Didn’t know what to say, I saw six, but he made me feel like it was a trick question. His demeanor was stern and all I could see was his eyebrows extending towards me as if there was static in his brows. I just wanted to take a dryer sheet to his brows. I finally told him six. There are six firms on this block alone. He explained, “We each have a law degree and are members of the Bar association and are qualified to practice law. What sets each of us apart is our ability to generate confidence from the community and the public in general. Some of us are able to and others are not, just as any business. What we are selling is confidence."

He asked did I have any questions, passed me a book on guerrilla marketing and told me to read the first three chapters and tomorrow we would discuss them. Out of everything he taught me over four years, that day was the most important. When you are asked what are you selling? Whether you sell a product or service remember you are really selling confidence.

It is always a blessing to share, Dream your World!

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Hey HEY HEY!!

So I decided to finally cut the fabric I posted on my blog months ago and came up with this. I cut out Albert and Bucky out and appliqued them to the front of this black cotton twill tote. The straps are longer than my usual straps and have a drop of 14 inches. This tote fits comfortable over your arm and hangs close to your hip. I am digging this bag so much, I don't think I want sell it, but my husband says I have to...Michaelawww.mylasbags.comwww.mylasbags.ecrater.com
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WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND?

What's On Your Mind?But be transformed by the renewing of your mind.--Romans 12:2Your mind--the way you think--has a lot to do with the quality of yourlife. Proverbs 23:7 says: For as he thinks in his heart so is he. What you keepyour mind on will determine whether you will be at peace or whether you will befull of anxiety in this troubled world.Philippians 4:6-8 tell us:Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, withthanksgiving let your requests be made known to God, [If you do what this versesays, then the next verse will come into play.] And the peace of God, whichsurpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through ChristJesus. [And the way you keep from being anxious for nothing is by doing whatverse 8 says.] Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things arenoble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things arelovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if thereis anything praiseworthy - meditate [constantly think] on these things.So, what are you thinking about? The word think means "to consider, reflect,reason and ponder." What we think is what we become. Where we have kept ourminds is where we are. Our thoughts shape our behavior. In other words, what wedo is what we think. William Barkley, a Christian writer, says: "It is a law oflife that if a man thinks on something often enough and long enough, he willcome to the stage when he cannot stop thinking about it. His thoughts will bequite literally in a groove out of which he cannot jerk them." How many peoplehave gotten into bad situations because they just kept thinking and thinking andthinking about it until they found themselves in a mess. What are you thinkingabout? Are you thinking righteous or unrighteous thoughts? Are you thinking:(1) about the flesh and its lusts? Are you thinking about gratifying the fleshthrough such things as pride, self, greed, pleasure, sex, angry exchanges,jealousies, envies, desires, and negative attitudes?(2) about the lusts of the eyes through such things as immoral pornographicfilth flaunted in magazines, films, books, television, and clothes that revealtoo much of the body in a vulgar way?(3) about the desire for recognition, honor, position, and power? It is okay towant to be recognized, but not to the extent that you will do anything forrecognition, to the extent of committing a sin or hurting someone in to get whatyou want.A mind fixated on the world system and the flesh is what leads to anxiety,worry, emptiness, and restlessness.Colossians 3:1-2 tells us:If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, whereChrist is, sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above, noton things on the earth.Setting your mind on things above means setting your mind on the things of God,and you find out about the things of God from His Word. You have to take controlof your mind and make it do what it should do by a determination of yourwill. Your will is in the mind area.Romans 12:1-2 tell us what to do with our minds and with our flesh.I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present yourbody a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God which is your reasonableservice.And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing ofyour mind, that you may prove what is that good, and acceptable and perfect willof God.I know we can renew our minds, but we have to be forever thinking about God andHis great love for mankind. Because if you don't, you will think more in linewith the world than with the things of God. You have to understand that the bodyalways wants to gratify the flesh. You have to train the body, make it do whatyour spirit wants, kill it, sacrifice it. And sacrifice is not fun, but it isthe joy of the Lord you want.Ephesians 4:21-24 tells us to be renewed in the spirit of our mind. It is ourresponsibility to do something about our minds. Once a person has been convertedand becomes a new man, he is to focus his thoughts on God, as well as the goodthings of life. We, as Believers, should never dwell on immoral, fleshly,worldly, selfish, sinful or evil thoughts. Sinful and negative thoughts disruptand destroy our peace. The mind always goes down to the level of the flesh, butwe have to control it because we live in the flesh and that is the thing wegravitate to. And that is why we need to operate in the Word of God in order tocontrol our thinking, which will control our flesh.
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Post your links!

Do you have a helpful link for a writer or reader? Post your link for resources to our website.http://fromawriterspov.webs.com/home.htmThanks, Dominique
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The Truth About "Tomorrow"

We have a very close and dear friend of ours who every year as weapproach the New Year talks about how that upcoming year is "goingto be the very best year of his life."Yet, every year for the last few years, within the first 3 months,those "dreams" are long forgotten and he is in a "survival" modeand doing nothing on a daily basis to have "the very best year hehas ever had."The very best diets almost always start "Tomorrow".The very best exercise programs always start "Tommorow"."Tomorrow" is the day you begin to build your real estate fortune.The biggest robber of dreams and a life you have always wanted tolive is simply what you are planning to do..."Tomorrow".The miracle that you seek to have lies in what you do TODAY, notwhat you plan to do "Tomorrow".The truth is that Tomorrow is not promised to any one of us and ourlife story is being written day by day by what actions we aretaking today, right now.Time sure is a vapor. It moves so fast.I cannot believe that I am already in my 40's when it seemed likejust yesterday that I was in my 20's and could not even imaginewhat I would be like in my 30's!Now more than ever, I feel a sense of living a life of purpose andone that has meaning.I really do not want to wake up one day and say, "Where did my lifego?"Some men fear failure.I fear living a life unfulfilled.One that was filled with all these "great things" I was going to do"Tomorrow".Every day is precious to me and one that I value because I nowrealize how fast the "ride of life" goes!Do not put off to Tomorrow what you can do today!Be proactive right now and take a step towards a goal you have.There is a gentleman who lives on the east coast that communicateswith me about once every 6 months about how he is going to orderour program in the next few months, "as soon as he re-arranges somethings in his life."Guess what happens like clockwork?Another 6 months passes and I receive another communication fromthis gentleman.If you are waiting for the perfect time to do anything in your lifethat has value and meaning let me clue you in right here and now,"The time will never be just right and perfect for you."Ever.Some of you reading this email right now made a commitment to orderour course 30 days ago and here we are 30 days later and you arenow faced with an entirely new set of challenges.Listen, changing your life never really is easy but it isworthwhile and it starts with making a decision TODAY and takingACTION TODAY towards your goal.Do something right now to impact your life.Do something TODAY to change your lifeYou'll be glad you did!Truly caring for your success!TC and Vickie Bradley~).
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