Wednesday, March 19, 2008I Quit - I Give Up!Yes, I am a quitter. I am giving up. I am no longer making to do lists only to do other things rather than focus on my list. I have great plans and I recognize that I am not accomplishing anything by keeping those plans hostage in my mind.Today, I am going to make some great accomplishments.- make the phone calls- send out the emails- research informationIt's early and I have a lot of work to do. I promised myself that 2008 will be a successful year. Today, I am making sure that I follow through with my to do list - I am holding myself accountable. I must go - there is work that must be done.
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Palimony is an award of support, similar to alimony, in which the couple were not married but lived together for a long period and then terminated their relationship. A determining factor in awarding such support is whether there was an agreement that one partner would support the other in return for the second making a home and performing other domestic duties beyond sexual pleasures. However, not all courts require cohabitation as a prerequisite to the finding of an implied agreement between unmarried persons concerning their property.In 1976, Michelle Marvin unsuccessfully sued her boyfriend, Lee Marvin claiming that they had a marriage like relationship and that she was entitled to his property as if they were married. However, the court said that she did have a right to sue based on her claims of a significant relationship arising out of cohabitation and that others could follow in her footsteps. This broke ground for a new breed of lawsuits and appellate decisions as the courts continue to determine this new area of law. This type of suit is now referred to as a "Marvin" action or, less formally, as a palimony suit.Generally, a palimony plaintiff must prove some other underlying basis for his or her claim, such as an express or implied contract. In California and certain other states, the courts enforce most agreements between unmarried cohabitants regarding their property. These agreements fall into three categories: implied, oral , and written.Implied Agreements: Implied agreements are unspoken "understandings" between two people which can be implied from their conduct. A jury may find that the cohabitants had an "understanding" that one person would always support the other, even if the relationship broke up, based on past behavior of providing financial support.Oral Agreements: An oral agreement is an agreement made through spoken words and are difficult to prove, especially when memories fade or a party to the agrement isn't truthful.Written Agreements: Written agreements are the preferred form of agreement for allowing the parties to communicate and clarify their expectations of each other. Written agreements may avoid many of the problems of proof of intentions and expectations involved in oral and implied agreements.Other theories on which a palimony suit can be based include promissory estoppel and quantum merit.
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Alienation of AffectionDefinition:An alienation of affection lawsuit is one in which a spouse can sue a third party if his or her partner leaves the relationship for another person.To win, an alienation of affection lawsuit needs to prove that:Love between the married spouses must have existed.The marital love must have been alienated and destroyed.The third party's conduct has to be proved to be malicious interference with the marriage relationship.Most states in the United States have abolished this type of lawsuit as it is considered to be archaic and an unacceptable form of revenge.Historically, the alienation of affection law was based on the belief that a wife was the property of her husband. Therefore, when a woman was emotionally or sexually involved with another man, she was considered to have been stolen.Those who want the alienation of affection laws to remain believe that alienation of affection lawsuits protect traditional marriage.But don’t get this twisted to feel like you can do what you want to do, for example:There are some states in the United States that still allow alienation of affection lawsuits.As of 7/2007, these states are: Hawaii, Illinois, Mississippi, New Hampshire, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, and Utah.
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Last Minute Tax TipsMost of us welcome the middle of April - the weather finally starts to show some of the promise of Spring, letting us know that Summer can't be far behind. For a few harried individuals, however, this time of year is the start of nail-biting, hope-I-didn't-forget-anything dash of paperwork in order to meet the IRS's filing deadline on the 15th. If you're one of these bleary-eyed souls, this last minute guide is for you.Beat the DeadlineIn order to be considered on time, your return must be properly addressed and postmarked no later than April 15. That doesn't mean that you have until the 15th to start your taxes, however. Procrastinating until the last minute can easily cause you to miss potential sources of tax savings and will put you in far greater jeopardy of making mistakes.File a Paperless ReturnFiling your return online can be far easier than putting pen to paper the old fashioned way. A number of professional tax return preparers offer electronic filing of tax returns in addition to their normal return preparation services. In most cases these e-filing services do a good job of guiding you through the entire filing process. Most charge a modest fee and offer a range of additional e-filing products for those who need additional assistance.In addition to being fairly easy, e-filing is the typically the quickest and most accurate method of filing tax return. If you're due a refund, the waiting time for e-filers is half that of paper filers. By filing online you also have the option to have any refund directly deposited into your bank account. Almost 80 million taxpayers filed their returns electronically in last fiscal year.Payment OptionsIf you can't immediately pay the full balance of taxes you owe, there are still alternatives available to you. You can apply for an IRS installment agreement, using their new Online Payment Agreement application on IRS.gov. This Web-based tool allows qualified taxpayers or their official representatives to self-qualify, apply for, and receive immediate notification of approval. You also have a number of options for charging your balance on a credit or debit card. There is no IRS fee for credit or debit card payments, but the processing companies will charge a convenience fee. E-filers with a balance due may pay their taxes directly from their checking or savings account on the April due date with no service fee.ExtensionsShould you find that you are unable to file by the due date of your return, you can request an extension of time to file. However, it's important to note that an extension of time to file is not an extension of time to pay. You will owe interest on any past-due tax and you may be subject to a late-payment penalty if payment is not made timely. To receive an automatic 6-month extension of time to file your return, you must file Form 4868 by the due date of your return.Joint ReturnsIf you are married and will be filing a joint return, remember that both husband and wife must sign the return. If your spouse cannot sign (because of disease or injury) and requests that you sign the return, you should sign your spouse's name in the proper place followed by the word "by" your signature, followed by the word "husband" or "wife". Don't forget to also sign in the space provided for your own signature. In addition, you must attach a statement that includes the form number of the return you are filing, the tax year, the reason your spouse cannot sign the return, and a statement that your spouse has agreed to your signing for him or her.Special RebateUnless you've been sleepwalking for the last few months, you probably have heard about the individual rebates that many taxpayers will be receiving as part of an economic stimulus package. Under the Economic Stimulus Act of 2008, some 130 million Americans will receive checks entirely separate from normal refunds. The most common questions: who will be getting money, how much and when?If you earned more than $3,000 for the 2007 tax year but owed no taxes, you will get some money back. If you had any net tax liability for 2007 you should likewise seem some form of rebate. In many cases there is a rebate bonus for taxpayers who claim children (those under 17 years of age). Non resident aliens are excluded from the rebate program. The rebate amount begins filing out if your adjusted gross income is over a certain threshold ($75,000 for single filers, $150,000 for married couples filing jointly).In general, the basic rebate amounts break down as follows:Individual taxpayers could receive rebate checks ranging from $300 to $600.Married couples will get up to $1,200.Most individuals who have income of $3,000 but who do not have to file a return will get $300.Some taxpayers with children will receive an additional $300 per child.Because the IRS needs time to the normal glut of 1040s from filing season, checks will not start being issued until May at the earliest. According to the IRS, payment date will be based on the last two-digits of your Social Security number, with checks being mailed between mid-May and Mid-July. If you previously requested that your standard tax return's refund be directly deposited to your bank account, the additional rebate will likewise come through as a direct deposit.Go to the ProsIf you've decided to wait until the last minute to file your tax return, chances are this isn't the first time in your life that someone has told you to seek professional help. In all seriousness, when the deadline is fast approaching obtaining a seasoned tax expert is a sound decision. The extra care, protection and expertise that a knowledgeable tax preparer can provide are more than worth the cost of their services.
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H A I R : T H E F A C T SF A Q - Provided by Shepherd IndiaWhat is Remi Hair?Remi Hair is the premium quality of hair and is popularly known as virgin hair. Remi Hair simply is the hair-bundle, with hair arranged in such a way that the roots of all the hair in entire bundle are on one side and tip on the other side. Remi hair has its cuticles intact. In other words, all the cuticles are Unidirectional (in same direction) and are undisturbed.Remi Hair is sold in two forms:(a) Remi Hair Single Drawn: These hair are taken directly by shaving the head and hence each bundle of hair is like pony tail with different hair length with very short hair taken out. For example: in a bundle of 20" "Remi hair single drawn" you will find hair of size 14" 16", 18" 20".(b) Remi Hair Double Drawn: They are the most expensive hair. Each bundle of Hair is drawn into same size. For Example 20" of Remi Double Drawn hair-bundle will have all the hair of 20" (hair is drawn by hand, not by machine hence small error is evitable). It does not have any short hair inside. Very less people buy this kind of hair as it cost a lot.What is Non Remi Hair?Non Remi Hair is also called fallen hair. They have there roots and ends mixed up. They have problem of tangling as the cuticles are not in same direction. These hairs are not much expensive. Though these hairs have problems yet they are most selling hair in the world. The Non Remi hair is sold as Double Drawn hair and has two kinds of quality.(a) Tangle Free Non Remi Hair: These are the Non Remi Hair with cuticles shaved off. The hair does not tangle as the cuticles are smoothened up and chances of friction among them are practically zero.(b) Normal Non Remi Hair: They are the hair with tangling problems as cuticles are in different direction and hence are the cheapest in the market.What is NEW REMI HAIR?*NEW REMI HAIR* are those hair which are converted from Non-Remi Hair into Remi Hair. Conversion involves special technique that simply removes the tendency of Non-Remi hair to tangle or to form a bush. Remi hair prices soaring high, *New Remi* hair gives our customers a new alternative. Remi hair business is ruled by Temples in India, but, on the contrary *New Remi* Hair business is ruled by our valued customers throughout the World.What is a Weft?Weft or Weaving: These are the hair sewn at the top by machine or Hand. Machine sewn hair is called Machine wefts and Hand sewn hair is called hand made weft. Each weft weighs around 100 gms to110 gms or approximately 4 ounces.Remi Wefts:1. Quality A: These are the premium quality of wefts made up of India Virgin Remi hair with Cuticles intact and unidirectional. The hairs used to make these wefts are Double Drawn i.e. the entire weft has same length. For example 18" weft will have all the hair of same length (18"). It does not contain short hair.2. Quality B: These are the second quality of wefts made up of Indian Virgin Remi hair with Cuticles intact and unidirectional. The hairs used to make these wefts are Special Double Drawn i.e. the entire weft has Hair length of two inch difference. For example, 18" weft will have hair of length 15" to 18". It does not contain short hair.3. Quality C: These are the Third quality of wefts made up of Indian Virgin Remi hair with Cuticles intact and unidirectional. The hairs used to make these wefts are Single Drawn i.e. the entire weft has Hair of different length. For example, 18" weft will have hair of length 8" to 18".Non Remi Wefts:1. Quality A: This is the premium quality of wefts made up of Non Tangle free Non Remi hair with Cuticles shaved off. The hairs used to make these wefts are Double Drawn i.e. the entire weft has same length. For example 18" weft will have all the hair of same length (18"). It does not contain short hair.2. Quality B: This is the second quality of wefts made up of Tangle free Non Remi hair with Cuticles shaved off. The hairs used to make these wefts are Special Double Drawn i.e. the entire weft has Hair length of two inch difference. For example, 18" weft will have hair of length 15" to 18". It does not contain short hair.3. Quality C: This is the Third quality of wefts made up of Tangle free Non Remi hair with Cuticles shaved off. The hairs used to make these wefts are Single Drawn i.e. the entire weft has Hair of different length. For example, 18" weft will have hair of length 8" to 18".What is the difference in Chinese hair, Indian hair and European Hair?Chinese hair is very thick and strong and probably the best with disadvantage of too straight and stiff. Indian Hair is rather thin and wavy yet strong and is the most expensive hair after European hair.European hair: European hair is probably the best hair if you can find original. It is wavy soft and has a unique texture. European hair is not very strong and hence cannot take up much heat (Incase you have habit of perming and curling your hair) Most of the European hair that are sold in entire European and North American market are fake and often made up by bleaching and coloring Indian hair) point to be noted).Does soft and silky hair represents quality hair?No, Soft and Silky hair does not necessarily represent good quality. Any hair can be made soft and silky by applying silicon base conditioner and in some case direct silicon oil.
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By DAVID KAUFMANNew York Times, 9 March 2008PUEBLA may be home to classic Mexican dishes like mole poblano, but there’s more to do in this wealthy city than just eat. A two-hour drive from Mexico City past snow-capped peaks and volcanoes, Puebla, a city of some 1.3 million people, is chock full of colonial treasures, cafe-lined squares and a vibrant arts-and-crafts culture. The large historic center has been designated as a World Heritage Site by Unesco, new hotels are springing up, and airlines now offer easy access from the United States. But if your main obsession is food, Puebla won’t disappoint. This crayon-colored city is still considered by many to be the gastronomic capital of Mexico.Friday5 p.m.1) WHEN IN PUEBLAAs in every Mexican town, Puebla’s soul is the zócalo, the center of the old city, in this case the Plaza de la Constitución. This rectangular slice of colonial Mexican cosmopolitanism is bordered by arcaded walkways and anchored by the sprawling Catedral de Puebla, which dates from 1575. Outside, the cathedral is dominated by a pair of towers rising nearly 230 feet. Inside, its crypt betrays Puebla’s status as one of colonial Mexico’s wealthiest towns, with statues of saints and angels intricately carved from onyx, one of the city’s numerous natural resources. Gaze skyward above the cathedral’s elaborate octagonal altar; the tiled dome ceiling is modeled on that of St. Peter’s Basilica.8 p.m.2) NUEVO MEXICANThe new Purificadora hotel blends the city’s historic past — an 18th-century ice factory — with a thoroughly contemporary design by the Mexican pioneering architect Ricardo Legorreta. The colorful hotel is not only drawing stylish guests, but also hungry hipsters eager to try the nuevo-Mexicano restaurant (Callejón de la 10 Norte 802; 52-222-309-1920; www.lapurificadora.com). Overseen by the Mexico City chef Enrique Olvera, the restaurant fuses the European with the Mexican: corn risotto spiked with poblano peppers; chipotle peppers stuffed with cheese in a black bean broth; corn cakes with lime and cream cheese gelato. Dinner for two is about 900 pesos, about $82 at 10.99 pesos to the dollar.10 p.m.3) ALL NOCHE LONGAfterward, follow the stylish crowd to La Terraza, Purificadora’s rooftop bar, with its slender pool and prime views of Iglesia de San Francisco, a 16th-century church. After midnight, the party moves to La Boutique (Final de la Recta; 52-222-482-0603), a split-level nightclub with a grinding dance floor and cozy leather banquettes. On your way home, stop by Taquería los Ángeles (Avenida Juan de Palafox y Mendoza, Local 608-B; no phone) for the traditional late-night snack of tacos árabes (about 85 pesos for two).Saturday10 a.m.4) ANCIENT STAIR MASTERThe tiny town of Cholula, a few miles from Puebla, is known for two things: the great pyramid and its claim to have 365 churches — one for each day of the year. The pyramid (Zona Arqueológica del Gran Pirámide de Cholula; 55-222-247-9081), which was built in the second century B.C., is comprised of seven stacked trapezoids and is a third larger than the Great Pyramid at Giza. You can climb the massive exterior staircase or tunnel through its endless antechambers and barren tombs.11.30 a.m.5) POPO PEAKAt the very top of the pyramid is the Iglesia de los Remedios, a 16th-century church built by the Spanish to commemorate the conversion of the Aztecs to Christianity. While the church itself is not grand, the views of snow-covered Popocatépetl, among Mexico’s most-active volcanoes, are well worth the trek. On the way down, try a cup of popo — a frothy, murky brown drink made from rice, cocoa and chupipi, a regional fruit shaped like an avocado.1 p.m.6) CURIOUS QUESADILLASThe Mercado de Cholula, the town’s covered food market (Camino Real a Cholula and 20 Norte), is an action-packed nexus of butchers, fishmongers, vegetable farmers and spice sellers. Arrive hungry and skip the taquerías. Instead, grab a seat at one of the quesadillerias near the market’s rear. The corn tortillas (about 22 pesos) are thick, oblong and purple and are filled with stringy white cheese, colorful zucchini blossoms, dark huitlacoche (a mushroom that grows on ears of corn) or flecks of chicharon (fried pork skin). Stands nearby sell just-made pico de gallo and fruity juices for an easy lunch. Before leaving, pick up a packet of spicy mole paste for back home.3 p.m.7) MAYA TO MODERNAlthough it may lack the grand museums of Mexico City, Puebla’s Museo Amparo (Dos Sur 708, Centro Histórico; 52-222-229-3850; www.museoamparo.com; free admission) actually has one of Latin America’s finest collections of Mexican art. Housed in a pair of colonial buildings from the 17th and 18th centuries, Amparo’s collection spans from 2500 B.C. through the present, and includes pre-Hispanic, colonial, modern and contemporary Mexican artists.5:30 p.m.8) MEXICAN MOJITOSEase back into modern-day Puebla with a menjul, a Mexican version of a mojito prepared with rum, sugar and mint. Order one at Bar Los Portales at the Hotel Royalty in the zócalo (Portal Hidalgo 8; 52-222-242-4740.). The street-front patio makes for excellent afternoon people watching.8:30 p.m.9) LIKE DINNER FOR CHOCOLATEThe highlight of any visit to Puebla is its namesake dish: mole poblano, the curry-like sauce made with 30-odd ingredients including chilies, cinnamon and chocolate. And one of the best places to taste it is at Mesón Sacristía de la Compañía (Seis Sur 304; Callejón de los Sapos; 52-222-232-4513; www.mesones-sacristia.com). Start with the flash-fried parsley, dusted in sea salt and topped by juicy shrimp. Move on to the signature mole, which comes smothered over delicate slices of chicken breast — rich, spicy and with just enough chocolate to remind you why Montezuma was so smitten with it. Housed in an 18th-century mansion, the restaurant doubles as an antiques shop where nearly everything is for sale. Dinner for two is about 600 pesos. If you like what you eat, the restaurant also offers one-to-three-day cooking classes.10:30 p.m.10) QUé PASA?Drink like a local and try a pasita, a raisin-like liqueur made from the local pasa fruit. There’s no better place to order it than La Pasita (Cinco Oriente 605; 52-222-232-4422), a tiny bar hidden near the Callejón de los Sapos, a popular flea market street. Crammed with bric-a-brac, the bar serves the liqueur in a shot glass, with either goat or panela cheese. La Pasita also serves Rompope — a type of eggnog made by local nuns — along with a clutch of other fiery brews.Sunday11 a.m.11) SESAME CEMITASWhile the rest of the city sleeps in, take a lazy stroll to the Mercado el Carmen (21 Oriente between Dos Sur and Cuatro Sur, the city’s traditional market. This is where locals shop for their mole ingredients and is known for cemitas — Puebla’s version of the Mexican torta. Follow the long lines to Cemitas las Poblanitas, where the sandwiches are made of fluffy sesame-seed rolls filled with meat, poblano peppers, white Oaxacan cheese, avocado slices and chipotles (25 pesos).Noon12) ALLEY OF THE FROGSSunday is antiques day in Puebla, and Callejón de los Sapos (Alley of the Frogs) heaves with dealers, parading everything from fine Talavera pottery to 1950s Mexican movie posters. Continue on to Barrio del Artista (Seis Oriente at Seis Norte) at the Plaza del Torno, lined with artists’ studios that display paintings on the cobblestone streets. If you have energy left, finish off at the Mercado de Artesanías (Dos Oriente at Seis Norte), an 18th-century market that carries crafts from throughout Puebla state, including colorful ponchos and stall after stall of Mexican desserts like dulces de Santa Clara. You won’t find any chocolate there.WHERE TO STAYHoused in an old ice factory, La Purificadora (Callejón de la 10 Norte 802; 52-222-309-1920; www.lapurificadora.com) opened last year across from the Puebla Convention Center and has 26 modern rooms starting at 1,994 pesos, or about $180 at 10.99 pesos to $1.The NH Puebla (Cinco Sur 105; 52-222-309-1919; www.nh-hotels.com), near the historic enter, is a modern, business-friendly hotel from the popular Spanish chain. The 128 rooms start at 1,045 pesos for a double.The Real del Cristo Hotel (Dos Oriente 1007; 52-222-246-1575) is in a charming 15th-century house. The 19 simply designed rooms overlook an airy central courtyard and start at about 400 pesos.
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09:10 PM CDT on Tuesday, April 1, 2008McClatchy NewspapersNEW DELHI – When James Payne found out he needed a liver transplant, he first tried to arrange the surgery at a top local hospital in South Florida. Doctors there told him that they couldn't schedule the procedure for a few months and that it would cost $450,000, a fortune for the uninsured former investment banker.So the 55-year-old and his wife, who planned to donate half her own liver to her husband, bought plane tickets to India instead. There, at one of New Delhi's premiere hospitals, a transplant specialist carried out the surgery for $58,000 – a price tag that included their 10-week hospital stay."If you want to live, this is where you come," said a smiling Payne, who planned to return home to Florida last month and said he would recommend his experience to anyone suffering similar problems.The number of Americans heading abroad for medical procedures is surging as the country's 46 million people without health insurance look for treatment they can afford and cash-strapped U.S. companies struggle to find cheaper ways to provide high-quality medical care to their employees, according to the American Medical Association.Mexico has long attracted American travelers looking for cut-rate cosmetic surgery or dental work, and countries like Malaysia, Thailand and the Philippines continue to lure medical tourists as well. But India – 15 hours away from the U.S. by plane – is fast becoming the destination of choice for patients seeking risky high-end procedures they can't afford or can't manage to schedule with a doctor they trust at home. These include things such as heart surgery, organ transplants and orthopedic procedures such as knee replacement or hip resurfacing.Last year, the South Asian giant attracted 150,000 medical tourists from the United States, Britain, Africa and elsewhere in South Asia, largely by offering an enticing trio of advantages: highly trained English-speaking doctors, quick appointments and bargain-basement prices. In India, a heart bypass goes for $10,000 and a hip replacement for $9,000, compared with $130,000 and $43,000 respectively in the United States, the AMA said.India's initial rush of patients, however, may be nothing compared with what is to come. According to the AMA, major U.S. employers and insurers are exploring whether they could hold down soaring health-care costs by shipping their workers halfway across the world for elective surgery."Major (insurers) and employers may soon follow in the footsteps of individuals," the medical association recognized in a report released last June. It acknowledged that "prices offered to medical tourists are often 60 to 85 percent lower than insurer-negotiated charges in the U.S., a margin that easily offsets travel, first-class hotel for the patient" and other expenses.Several Fortune 500 companies and the West Virginia Legislature are among those considering bonuses – including first-class airfare and four-star hotel stays – for employees willing to undergo medical treatment abroad. And several major insurers already cover treatment programs in Mexico and Thailand, the AMA saidTraveling to India for medical care is not without its problems, of course. The country may be increasingly known for its well-educated workers, high-tech call centers and new wealth, but squalor and chaos are still regular features of life.Malpractice laws are weaker, leaving patients who run into problems while being treated with little legal recourse. Patients may struggle to find U.S. doctors willing to take on after-surgery care once they return home. And the lengthy flight to India may be difficult – even in business class – for anyone with a serious medical problem.But India is working hard to make traveling for surgery as appealing as possible for foreigners. The country recently created a special medical visa classification for tourists seeking health care. Some top-of-the-line hospitals and hotels are teaming up to build joint facilities. And many hospitals and medical tourism sales firms offer package deals – from airport pickup to translators and airline bookings – designed to insulate visitors from some of the country's more trying aspects.Wouter Hoeberechts, head of WorldMed Assist, the California-based firm they used, said India is the most popular destination for high-end surgeries among his patients because the costs are so low."The long travel time, the high airfare, all that is quickly forgotten because of the cost savings," he said. Patients sometimes complain about the more flexible sense of time in India – an X-ray scheduled at 10 a.m. might happen at 11:30 a.m., he said – but for the most part, "The only thing they remember is coming back with their lives, or a better quality of life."
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WHY BITCH WHY“You never find yourself until you face the truth.”-- Pearl BaileyIn order to understand the mindset of a mistress, we have to know the way they think. There are many reasons why women are willing to play second best, and we do not have enough time or energy to go into all of them, but we will explore the main ones.Like Mother, Like DaughterA woman’s first role model is her mother. Growing up, we all look at our parents as the prime example of what we think we should be like as adults. If you are raised in a household where your mother is sleeping around and seems to have no boundaries, how do you think that will affect you? Parents love to say “do as I say, not as I do”, but let’s be honest with ourselves, we do what they do. If your mother was messing with married men, who would have taught you that it was wrong? Nobody! If your mother was a hoe, nine times out of ten, you will be a hoe. There is good news, though; you can break the cycle. With a little therapy and a lot of prayer, you can begin to change your life around.Afraid of CommitmentBeing a mistress has its benefits. You have great sex, good conversation and a free pass to do whatever you want. If a man is married, he has no right to tell you what you can or cannot do. You can go out whenever you want, have as much company as you want, come in as late as you want, and he can’t say anything. He goes home to his wife every day. Some women really don’t want to be tied down. It is easier to have sex with someone that you like, than it is to work on a relationship with someone that you love. I know someone who has dated a few married men. The problem with these kinds of women is their fear of commitment comes from the pain of a past relationship. She has built up a wall that makes it hard for her to see the pain that she is causing to another woman by sleeping with that woman’s man. She is so blinded by her own pain that nothing else matters. This can become very dangerous in the long run.Hopeless RomanticThe hopeless romantic is such a silly hoe. She may watch all the movies and read all the romance novels. She believes in the fairy tale. She really believes that this man is going to fall in love with her and leave his wife. She fantasizes about the nice house and the children, as well as her wedding dress picked out in her mind. She falls in love easily and thinks that the man feels the same way about her. While this silly hoe is at work day dreaming about the life that she could have with him, his wife is at home living it.LonelinessLoneliness is a big factor in being a mistress. Some women just need a man to be around. They need attention and affection. The pathetic part is they don’t care where they get it from. She knows the man is taken. She knows that he is not leaving his wife for her. She knows that he doesn’t love her. As long as she is getting quality time, nothing else matters. These women have low self-esteem. Everyone gets lonely sometimes, but normal people can set boundaries. So to these women I say, get your shit together!Father FigureShow me a hoe, and I’ll show you a woman that has issues with her father. Maybe he was abusive, maybe he died when she was young, or maybe he just wasn’t around. Either way, she is trying to fill that void. This is the woman that has a lot of sex looking for a little bit of love. Single or married, it doesn’t matter. As long as a man is there, she’s happy.
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Karma - what goes around comes around.Watch what you do to others because it will come back to you. Don’t burn your bridges; you never know when you may see them again or need them again. You don’t want to have a bad reputation with that person. Men, be careful what you do to women. A woman scorn is dangerous. She’s not just dangerous because you hurt her, now she is armed with the “I don’t give a fuck syndrome”. She doesn’t care what man she hurts or what she does as long as she is in control.Men and women operate differently. Men don’t try to get even; they do more “in your face” kinds of disrespects. Women, in turn, will only put what she has done in your face if she wants you to catch her. You may get a situation like this: you come home one day from working really hard expecting dinner to be done, and your wife has another man in the house. He is sitting there with his shoes off, and she is in the shower. What do you do? She has had enough of your bullshit. It doesn’t feel good, so you get mad and drag her ass out the shower to find out that it is her sister. Feel stupid, huh? She tells you that your wife went to the store to buy some food to cook for the evening. She had no reason to be at home in the shower with another man there. Just the thought of her with another man has got you fired up. That is the exact reason why you shouldn’t do things to people that you don’t want them to do to you. If you were paying attention to the Payroll section in Chapter 7, then you would know that, as women, we have mastered that concept. Here is an example of how Karma is always lurking out to get you; a true story from our own lives:CONSEQUENCESLet’s start with the men since they seem to be the worst at getting caught. Men do not seem to understand the power of a scorned woman. Your wife may be the nicest, sweetest woman that you’ve ever met, but let her get fed up with you and see what happens. The same woman who will set a bug free before trying to kill it is the same woman that will put your butt in the hospital. Men think that their pride is a big deal, but it’s much bigger for women. Men yell and fight over trying to protect their pride. Women put Windex in your cereal and then drive your ass to the ER. As much as that woman loves you, she is capable of hating you with the same intensity. Men work hard and play hard, but women love hard and hate harder. Once you have put hate in a woman’s heart, you can hang it up.Women are sneaky and conniving. This is not a secret; you all know it’s true. You just don’t think that your woman is capable of being like the rest, poor naïve sole. Your woman is no different than the others. You can only push her so far before she breaks. Snapped, it comes on every Sunday. Some women can take more than others. I personally take pride in how strong I have been in my relationships, but others are not so lucky. It does not matter how well you think you know your woman; you have no idea where her breaking point truly is. We have very vivid imaginations and we will re-play things in our head over and over again. We say we forgive and forget, but we never ever forget. What you have done has now given us a free pass to do whatever the hell we want to do. What could you say? Nothing! I’m not saying that she is going to cheat on you, but she might. I’m just saying that things are going to change. She knows what makes you happy. She knows what pisses you off, which means she knows exactly what to do to ruin your life. Women as a whole don’t believe in walking away; they believe in getting even.FIND OUT MORETUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?
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Men think they know the game, and I won’t deny the fact they play it well; but they learned from the best -- women! That’s right, I said it! If men could do it alone, GOD would not have made a woman to help him. Stop with the ego trippin’ fellas. We ladies have the gift of giving birth, so we are born with a powerful tool. No need to get into that, you should already know. For those who don’t know, you’re slow! We love you, we teach you, and guide you; but just as easy, we can dismiss you.Men, there is in no comparison in the game when a woman is playing. Let me break it down for those who seem to think they have mastered it. Woman can be gullible because we tend to share our feelings more than men; But when it comes to pain, we can handle it with the best of them. Don’t confuse this type of behavior for weakness. Don’t be fooled because a woman will cheat on you. We don’t cheat for sport like men. Women cheat for other reason, especially when we are hurt. What men don’t understand is a true pimp-tress does not sleep around like a mistress or tramp. A pimp-tress can get what she wants, while keeping her respect.Pimp-tress - a woman who can obtain single men who can offer her pleasure and or entertainment in return.Mistress - a woman who can only use her pussy for evil by borrowing other women’s men. She is weak minded and pathetic. Her daddy forgot to tell her she is pretty, and give her hugs and kisses. Ultimately, she’s searches for that fulfillment no matter how or whom she gets it from.Now that you know the difference, let’s move on. Every woman knows her own strengths and weaknesses when it comes to a man. Therefore, every man is treated differently. It is a great feeling when you enter a room, and people stop what they are doing to see who you are. For ugly girls, they look at you because they don’t understand how you got like that.Then, there is the monkey bar effect, which stems from women getting what they want from a particular type of man. For example, your man is strong, passionate, and sexy as hell, but he tends to step out of bounds from time to time. When it happens, and you are not getting the attention that you need, get a substitute, a need-filler. He comes over when needed, and he doesn’t nag you. He loves spending time with you regardless of your sexual activity together. He knows about your man, but he knows his limits and his place. Chapter 3, read it as many times and you need to. Listen up fellas, we don’t like being lied to and cheated on. You would never find out about us, unless we want you to know. For us, honesty is always the key. Trust and believe that anyone we swing to, while still obtaining your attention, will indeed know about you. Everyone is on the payroll!Payroll - a list of employees willing to work at the employers expectationsSUCESSFUL PAYROLLRULES OF ENGAGEMENTDo not allow your men to just pop up at your house.Give them limits.Make sure they do not overlap each other on any given day.Always make each one feel as if he is the one.He must know that you need him; this will keep him around.He must respect that fact that you need your space.All your men should be able to blend in together.You can’t date any of his friends or family.He must be of legal age. (19 yrs old is not grown)FIND OUT MORE INTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?
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First and foremost ladies, a man will only do what you will allow him to do. On some real talk right now, we gave men their game and put them onto the hustle. The word here is WE! We are the reason they play this game. We are their hustle. On that note, let me introduce you to a man’s hustle, women.Men walk around this world thinking that they run it. Because of women, they try to. A man will tell you what you want to hear, as well as attempt to make you feel like you have his attention and his trust. We all know the real reason in most cases, G.T.D. (get the draws). Either in their cells phones or a little black book, they will have a minimum of 50 females. Now if he doesn’t, this is the man that may be on track, or who knows how to keep his numbers low, so he doesn’t cause too much of a stir up between our species.Have you ever known a man to lie, cheat and deceive you? Well ladies, we all know they are capable of it. Men have just as much insecurity as we do, maybe even more. The truth is a man scorn is hell to pay because they hate or resentment women, which is either caused by a poor upbringing, or a woman who has stomped all over his heart. You first have to understand where his mind is at. There is no use in playing games with this man; he is a hunter from birth, and we all know hunters love to stalk their prey. Learn who your opponent is and watch his approach.FIND OUT MORE IN OUR BOOKTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?
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YOU CAN FIND OUT MORE IN OUR BOOKTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?“Love him or leave him but never feel that you need him.”KNOW YOUR PLACE, MISTRESSIf you are going to be a mistress, you need to know your place. You do not have any rights to this man. He already has a woman, and all rights are reserved for her. Remember, if he wanted to be with you, you would have the title. There are rules that you have to follow.Rule # 1: Never feel that you are better than his wife.If you are so much better than the woman that he is with, why is he not with you completely? The answer is simple, you’re not better. Wifey is forever; a mistress is always temporary.Rule #2: Never refer to him as “your man”.He is not your man. You cannot give a man the title when he already holds it somewhere else. Women think that just because a man spends time with you, he loves you. He doesn’t love you! (at least not on that level) He tells you what you want to hear. In reality, he spends time with you because he can. Maybe the sex is good, or maybe you have good conversation. WARNING: YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY WOMAN WITH GOOD PUSSY WHO CAN HOLD A CONVERSATION. As soon as you mess up, he will find the next girl to replace you. Mistresses are always replaceable.Rule # 3: Never call his wife.Who do you think you are? Oh you forgot … you are the mistress! Why mess up things in his home because you caught feelings? All you do is make yourself look stupid. A real man will always take care of home first. Either he is going to deny you all together, or he is going to tell his woman that you are someone that he used to mess with who won’t leave him alone. Now you are sitting at your house waiting on his phone call while he is at home trying to make things right with his wife. She gets all the attention that you wanted and still has the man on her arm.Rule # 4: Know your limits.Mistresses are limited. You cannot hang out with his friends. You cannot go to his house. If he is with someone in public and he doesn’t speak to you first, keep walking. If he wanted you to know the person that he was with, he would introduce you. You are what we like to call “part time pussy”. When you start trying to go out together, things get messy.Rule #5: You cannot get mad when he says he has to go home.Why get mad when you know the situation going into it? Once again, a real man will always take care of home first. Staying the night is never an option.
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THIS IS A LIL SHORT STORY WE CAME UP WITH ABOUT TAKING SOMEONES CHOICE AWAY AND THE CONSEQUENCES THAT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.CHECK OUT THE TITLEGET IT? HIV/AIDS.HER ITCHY VAGINAAND ITS DISASTERIOUS SIDEFFECTSDemetrius leaves his home one day, angry at his wife. “She just doesn’t understand me”, he thinks to himself.” Driving for 15 minutes, Demetrius decides to stop for happy hour at a local bar. He orders a long island ice-tea and a Corona beer then sits at a table.The waiter tells him that the young lady by the DJ booth would like to come and sit with him. He agrees, and she walks over slowly with the wind in her light brown hair. She stood 5 ‘7, and the Pleasures perfume on her silky skin reached his nose 2 seconds before she said hello. He stands and introduces himself.Demetrius: Hello, my name is Demetrius, but you can call me Dee.Clamytriah: I’m ClamytriahDemetrius: Thanks for the beer.Clamytriah: I saw that you were sitting alone, and since I was alone I figured we could share some space together.Demetrius: That’s sweet of you.Clamytriah: So are you single?Note: Now, he can tell her the truth or lie about his wife, Tiffany, waiting on him at home.Demetrius: Yes, I am single. I live alone. How about yourself?Clamytriah: Yes, I am also single and live alone.Time passes, 3 years to be exact. Demetrius and Clamytriah become very close. The sex is unbelievable and her conversations intrigue him. He is always going out of town to see her.One day, she decides to surprise him since she never comes to visit him. Not knowing of her arrival, Demetrius let’s her in while his wife is out. Tiffany comes in from church early to find Demetrius and Clamytriah laying in her bed.Tiffany: What the hell is going on?Demetrius: Baby!Clamytriah: Who is that Dee?Demetrius: My wife!Clamytriah: Your wife! How long has this been going on?Tiffany: 15 years, bitch!Clamytriah: I’m so sorry! We’ve been together 3 years, and I had no idea.Tiffany: 3 years Dee?! Are you serious right now?! How could you?!Shocked to find out that Demetrius was married, Clamytriah slaps him and grabs her clothes proceeding to leave the house, but not before Tiffany got a hold of her. You do the math. Clamytriah, embarrassed and with her ass whooped, intends to slash Demetrius tires on her way out.Demetrius: Baby, I’m sorry. I didn’t mean for this to go on this long.Clamytriah: Whatever!The front door slams and the air from his tires are released. A week later, Tiffany and Demetrius decide to take an STD test. She refuses to make her marriage work let alone sleep with her husband again without it. Meanwhile, Clamytriah decides to get tested as well. She wonders what other secrets he may not have told her.The results are in, and Tiffany cannot believe it, AIDS. Demetrius calls Clamytriah to inform her.Demetrius: Hey! I know that I am the last person you want to talk to right now, but I have something to tell you.Clamytriah: What Dee?Demetrius: I have AIDS, and you should get tested.Clamytriah: I know.Demetrius: How do you know?Clamytriah: I have HIV.Demetrius: Why didn’t you tell me?Clamytriah: For the same reason you didn’t tell me you had a wife of 15 years.The phone disconnects.Moral to the story: Don’t take my choice away.Can you figure out who gave who the disease?
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WE ALL KNOW SOME MISTRESSES, THEY MAY BE SOME OF OUR CLOSEST FRIENDS. WELL PUT AN END TO THE DISRESPECT. IDENTIFY HER ASS.MORE IN THE TUG-OF-WAR, WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?TYPES OF MISTRESSESMs. MySpaceThis woman doesn’t have sex with the men, but has an online relationship based on how his page looks. She will check your page every day, always questioning who your top friends are and who left comments about you. Talking to her is for pure entertainment. She may leave a message that intrigues you, but that is where it should stay. She has nothing else better to do with her time. When you sign in, you will always see her online. As soon as you sign in, she is hitting your page up with a comment or in your MySpace IM window.Lady Luv – “Hey boo! I miss u!”How serious is she? Very serious, and she needs the attention. This is what you have to do if you don’t want this situation to turn ugly. Yes, I said ugly! She can be lethal if you are in a relationship with a woman who checks your page.Ok, let me break it down for those that seem to be intellectually challenged. This chick is going to get mad if you don’t talk to her often, and when you have a chance to chitchat, she is in love with you. She preys on your page, looking out for any females saying anything too slick. Ms. MySpace will not tolerate disrespect from you. You told her she looked good, and how you want to kiss her body from the tip of her head to the bottom of her feet; so comments to other females won’t compare to how you talk to her as long as you don’t say the same things to those other girls. Watch out if she finds a comment she doesn’t like. You will go to your inbox one day to find a lot of your female friends upset that a chick has been on their page asking questions about why they are leaving messages for her man and how she doesn’t appreciate that. Now you have to clean up the situation.MySpace isn’t that serious people! It’s purely entertainment; put some pictures up, play some music, and give folks a little insight about your likes and dislikes. Blog and post videos you enjoy. Sitting at a desk cyber-stalking should be a crime. LOL. Read a book, find a hobby, knit a shirt, or go outside and pick up some trash. All these things will help you become a better person; not worrying about what other people are doing. It’s their page, and you have no control over what they talk about and whom they share small talk with.Ms. Itchy ItchyBe aware of this one. She is one bitter individual. The cause of her STD came from a man who she put her trust in. She met him one day at the park, and he swept her off her feet telling her how he is like no other. “I love you baby,” he proclaimed. His seduction came without notice. Overwhelmed, she gave in to his mocha complexion, the African musk cologne he sprayed on his body, and his sweet kisses that left her breathless. Months past and she notices a feminine itch that won’t go away with over the counter products. Rushing to the hospital like her life depended on it, she tells the doctor her dilemma. Tests are performed, and the results take a week to return. She’s worried and scared of what it may be, and what she may do. The phone rings and nervously she answers,Ms. Itchy Itchy: Hello.Doctor: Yes may I speak to Ms. Williams?Ms. Itchy Itchy: This is she. May I ask who is calling?Doctor: Yes ma’am, this is nurse Uburnin from the Comanche County Medicare One. I have your test results.Ms. Itchy Itchy: (She swallows the lump in her throat.) Ok. They are?Doctor: I’m sorry to say, but you have Chlamydia.You have done the wrong thing to the wrong girl. She will take her rage out on every man that comes in her life, thereafter. Naïve, she still will have unprotected sex leading her to the hospital on numerous occasions for different types of STDs. Wash chick, and protect yourself! Stop thinking that is all you have to offer a man.Ms. Lady Luv “Temporary Replacement”This is a disrespectful bitch. She is the one who knows that you are married and doesn’t care because she is trying to replace your wife. What she doesn’t understand is that when you have a wife already, you can’t replace her. She will do anything to ruin your relationship. She will call your wife to discuss the sex you and her shared, and will proclaim that you don’t please him anymore, but she does. She will believe that she is the best choice for him because she cooks and cleans as a wife would do; but she is sneaky and vindictive.She falls in love easily, and has more than one child with more than one baby daddy, which is normal for her. Comparing her looks with your wife’s is a subliminal message that screams for your attention. She needs to feel that you need her more than you need your wife. Having sex with you is a competition. She will do anything short of dying to make you believe her sex is golden. Her selective memory fools her into believing he is leaving his wife. Spending too much time with her will cause a problem. She will need you around all the time reassuring her that you love her. When the decision is made to break off the relationship with this woman, NO will not be a tolerated answer. Her moods will be unstable, and she will become a stalker.Ms. Top SecretI love this girl. She is the best mistress of all time, and all the rules apply to her. She is attractive and smart. She has everything that you would want in a woman. She loves everything that you love right down to your favorite sports team. She is a female version of the male buddy. She doesn’t call your house bothering your livelihood nor does she care if you leave your wife. “Your marriage is your problem!” Her payroll consists of you and countless others that make her life better. She is an occasional sex buddy. The conversations you two have are more than sexual; you share a friendship. She will guide you to make the right decisions in your marriage because she wants nothing from you. She has a man of her own, therefore, your issues don’t amuse her. Public appearances won’t faze her. You and your wife can walk down the street, and she will keep walking as if she didn’t see you. She doesn’t have different baby daddies. She is classy and takes care of herself. Unprotected sex is never an option for her. She would never risk her health for a temporary penis. She loves spending time with you, but is in no way in love with you. You don’t see her often because she has to take care of her own home, but when you do spend time with her, it’s amazing. Cheating is one of the worse things that you could ever do, but if you’re going to do it, do it with her.
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TYPES OF MENHERE A FEW TYPES OF MEN WE DESCRIBE IN OUR BOOK,IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO KNOW MORE PICK UPTUG-OF-WAR: WHO'S MAN IS HE REALLY?The StripperThe stripper is an interesting man that comes from many different backgrounds. The main thing that you need to know about a stripper is that he’s a hoe. Maybe there’s one or two in the world that are faithful, but I surely don’t know any. If temptation plus opportunity equals disaster, their world is set up for them to fail. A stripper is a local celebrity, and pussy is thrown at them every day. Have you ever been to a male strip show? If there are 100 women there, I guarantee that 79 of them are willing to have sex with him that night. Can you really blame them for being whores? Men are not capable of turning down that many women in one setting. It’s impossible!All strippers will tell you the same thing,” yea, I see other guys who are out there, but I’m not like them”. They’re going to tell you that once you’ve been in it for a while that it is easy to turn sex down. They’ll tell you that it gets old. “I get in, get my money and leave.” BULL SHIT! If you are dating a stripper and you believe that he is being faithful to you, then you have not learned anything from this book. Put it down and walk away now. Strippers are only good for sex. You are able to play out all your fantasies. Let him get dressed up and spin on a pole. When he’s done, make him leave. What else is he good for, Conversation? It’s easy to find a man with good conversation who doesn’t take his clothes off for a dollar. I’m not saying that male strippers are bad people; I’m just saying that making one your man is a big no, no.The BuddyThe buddy (friend with benefits) is a must have on your payroll. This is completely different from a booty call. A booty call is strictly sex! You’re attracted to him, but you barely like him. Men come and go, but a buddy is forever. This is the man who is your best friend. Having a male friend will open your eyes to the game in ways that you can’t imagine. You can tell him anything. He’s just like your best female friend, but he has a penis. He gives you the best of both worlds. You are able to sleep with him with a clear conscious because unlike these other men, you really trust him.I have heard that friends with benefits never work because someone always catches feelings. The reason that happens is people do not follow the rules. When you have a buddy, the friendship is your number one priority. Once sex has become your priority, your relationship is ruined. Occasional sex only; maybe one or two times a month tops. The buddy cannot be someone who you dated in the past or someone you want to date. Women are always confusing good sex with emotion. We have to stop that! Let it be what it is and leave it alone. If you get upset when he goes on dates, then he cannot be your buddy. You should be able to go on a double date with him and not feel any kind of resentment.If you’re doing it right, no one in the room will have a clue that you’re sleeping together. Your buddy is your secret. Only your closest friends know what’s going on between you. The key to having a buddy is making sure that you have other male friends who are truly just friends. If he is your only male friend, it will look suspicious; but if you have many male friends, then he just blends in. The only times you give up having sex with your buddy is when you’re married, but keep him as a friend just in case. Like I said, men come and go but a buddy….Cream PuffThe cream puff is kind of like the mamma’s boy. The mamma’s boy runs to mamma all the time, but the cream puff runs to you. The cream puff is so mushy that it drives you crazy. He can’t make a decision without you. He’s 80% bitch and 20% punk dressed up like a man. Hurting his feelings is an everyday thing. If you don’t give him a hug when he walks in the door, his whole day is messed up. He calls you five times a day just to tell you that he misses you. Don’t get me wrong; the cream puff is nice to have around. He compliments you all the time. To him, you are the best woman in the world. Keep him on the payroll.Whenever you’re having a bad day and you need someone to kiss your ass, call him. You can only take him in dosages, though. If you spend more than three days out of the week with this man, he will become dependent on you. There is nothing sadder than seeing a grown man dependent on a female. The cream puff feels everything that you say and everything that you do is a direct reflection of him. If another man tries to talk to you, he’ll say that you’re disrespecting him. If you tell him to hold on, he’ll think you’re putting someone else before him. This is truly a sad excuse for a man. He was a lesbian in his past life and hasn’t been able to shake it off. I wouldn’t be surprised if this man cries during sex because “it’s so beautiful”.The GOODY GOODYThis guy is the exception to every rule. I want you to think about the man that still gives you butterflies every time you talk to him; the guy that makes you smile when someone mentions his name; or the guy that all of your friends know about, even if you haven’t talked to him in years. If you have to think about it too hard, you do not have a Goody Goody. There is no need to think about who this man is and how important he is in your life. He introduced you to the game.The Goody Goody is a spectacular man, perfect in every way. His smell, his touch, everything about him is amazing. He can do no wrong. He can call you while he is with another female, tell you to be at his house in an hour, and you’ll be there in 40 minutes with heels on. Sex with this man is incredible. He can make you do things that you would never consider doing with anyone else. Even though the sex is great, it is not the best part of him. There is something about his presence. When he walks in the room, everyone notices, and he is well respected. You cannot be in public without running into someone who knows him. He is accomplished and independent; which is why there is nothing that you can do for him, and he knows it. He’s conceded, but you can’t blame him because he’s so damn fine. You will never see him looking a mess. He is always dressed from head to toe.Yes, he’s a player, but you don’t even care. There is nothing he can do that will make you upset with him. If he messes up, all he has to do is touch your face and you’ll forget everything that you wanted to say. The way that young girls feel about Chris Brown is the way that you feel about this man. You find his favorite cologne and spray it on your sheets just so you can smell him when you’re in your bed. You might go as far as to make other guys wear the cologne, so you can think about the Goody Goody while you’re with him. He has a key to your car and your house with his own section in the kitchen filled with the foods that he likes. You will spend your last $50 on a shirt for him before you will pay your electric bill.This all sounds really crazy to someone who has not had the privilege of having a Goody Goody, but to the young ladies who have experienced it, they know exactly what I’m talking about. The Goody Goody is not your husband; he is not the guy that you are meant to spend your life with. You would love to be with him forever, but you know that it would never work. You allow this man to turn you into something that you’re not. This man runs all over you, and that can’t work in a long-term relationship; but then again, he is the Goody Goody so you’ll fight for it anyway. No one can ever say anything bad about this man around you. You defend him more than you defend yourself. You love him in a way that cannot be described in words.
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THE LAWS OF THE LANDThe following is a list of some of the states that have laws against adultery and infidelity. If you need further information, please refer to the reference section to find the links.Alabama - If any man and woman live together in adultery or fornication, each of them must, on the conviction of the offense, be fined not less than $100, and may also be imprisoned in the county jail or sentenced to hard labor for the county for not more than six months and no more than $300.Colorado - Any sexual intercourse by a married individual other than with that individual’s spouse is considered adultery and in your state it is prohibited.California - Sexual intercourse committed by a married woman with a man other than her husband is looked at as offense against public morals, not merely as a breach of the obligation of marriage.Florida - If you live in Florida and you commit adultery, you’ll end up behind bars; adultery will land you a two year prison sentence. You might be better off sleeping with an orange.Hawaii - when such act is committed between a married man and a woman who is unmarried, the man shall be deemed guilty of adultery.Illinois - If you decided that sex with someone other than your spouse makes the world go around, then considered it worth going to prison for 5 years. Adultery is a crime!Maryland - Adultery is punishable by a fine of $10. That being said, such statutes are typically considered blue laws and are rarely, if ever, enforced.Michigan - In Michigan’s Court of Appeals, the states second-highest court, ruled that a little-known provision of state criminal law means that adultery carries a potential life sentence. Keep playing if you want too.North Carolina - If any man and woman, not being married to each other, shall lewdly and lasciviously associate, bed and cohabit together, they shall be guilty of a Class 2 misdemeanor: provided, that the admissions or confessions of one shall not be received in evidence against the other.Pennsylvania - Adultery is technically punishable by 2 years of imprisonment or 18 months of treatment for insanitySouth Carolina - Any man or woman who shall be guilty of the crime of adultery or fornication shall be liable to indictment and, on conviction, shall be severally punished by a fine of not less than one hundred dollars nor more than five hundred dollars or imprisonment for not less than six months nor more than one year or by both fine and imprisonment, at the discretion of the court.Oklahoma - Adultery is a state law. Adultery is an offense against the marriage relation. This type of offense is punishable, and decided in the courts of the state. In Oklahoma, Adultery is a felony.Utah - Ladies and gentlemen, please note that if you live in Utah and you commit an act of adultery, it can land you a three year prison sentence.Wisconsin - If a married person has sexual intercourse with a person who is not his/her spouse, both parties commit the crime of adultery. Under Wisconsin law (WI Statute 944.16), adultery is a Class I felony. The penalty for a Class I Felony is a fine of up to $10,000, or imprisonment of up to 3-1/2 years, or both; however, for a repeat offender, the term of imprisonment may increase up to 2 years with prior misdemeanor convictions, and up to 6 years with a prior felony conviction.United States Military-In the U.S. Military, adultery is a potential court-martial offense, only if the actions of the accused were "to the prejudice of good order and discipline" or "of a nature to bring discredit upon the armed forces". This law has been applied to cases where both partners were members of the military, particularly where one was in command of the other, or one partner and the other's spouse.
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ADULTERY - voluntary sexual intercourse a married person and one who is not his or her spouse. Some legal jurisdictions have defined it as "crime against marriage”.ALIENATION OF AFFECTION - lawsuit is one in which a spouse can sue a third party if his or her partner leaves the relationship for another person.BITCH - an immoral, malicious, spiteful, overbearing and unpleasant woman.BOOTYCALL CHICK - a woman used only for sexual services, only select occasions.CHEATING - to be sexually unfaithful.COMMITMENT - an agreement or pledge to do something in the future.CONSEQUENCES - something produced by a cause or necessarily following from a set of conditions.CUNNILINGUS - oral stimulation of the vulva or clitoris.FAST FOOD CHICK - a woman readily available to be quickly influenced by food prepared quickly.FELLATIO - oral stimulation of the penis.FORGIVENESS - to give up resentmentGAME - activity engaged in for diversion or amusement.HATER - to express or feel extreme enmity or active hostility.HUSBAND - a male partner in a marriage.HUSTLE - to lure less skillful players into competing against oneself.INFIDELITY - unfaithfulness to a moral obligationITCHY ITCHY CHICK - a woman who has an STD and continues fucking without protection.INTEGRITY - a code of moral values.KARMA - what goes around comes around.LIES - to have a place in relation to something else secretly.LOVE - strong affection for another person based on admirations and tenderness felt by lovers.LOYALTY - the quality or state or an instance of being loyal.LUST - an intense longing, unbridled sexual desire.MICROWAVE CHICK - a female who is quick to give up sex for that one night and or for that one moment and never used again.MISCHIEVOUS - able or tending to cause annoyance.MISTRESS - a woman other than his wife with whom a married man has a continuing sexual relationship.MOBESITY - a woman that is morbidly obese (fat bitch).MONKEY BAR AFFECT - the skill of a woman that can handle more than one man at any given time to support her hustle and or game.PALIMONY - is an award of support, similar to alimony, in which the couple were not married but lived together for a long period and then terminated their relationship.PAY OFF - process of terminating services from a man who deems himself not useful.PAYROLL - Employees willing to work for your expectations.PIMPTRESS - a woman who can obtain single men who can offer her pleasure and or entertainment in return.RAVENOUS - very eager or greedy.REPAIR KIT - the process in when a man has done substantial damage to his relationship, now willing to come together.SHREK CHICK - a woman who is ugly, wishing will only make you hope she looks better.SODEMIZE - anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex.STALKER - to pursue obsessively and to the point of harassmentSTD - sexually transmitted disease.TEMPORARY REPLACEMENT - a woman who is just around for entertainment purposes for a man who is married, yet she wants the position as the wife.TEMPTATIONS - a cause or occasion of enticement.TRUTH - sincerity in actions in accordance with facts, characters of true statements and propositions.WIFE - a female partner in a marriage.
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“True forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past could have been different.”The idea for So Above Mistress started when we were in a very low place. Our husbands cheated, and we moved in together. Our husbands did us wrong, but we were the one’s struggling. You know we had it bad when we had to go grocery shopping in other people’s refrigerators. I can’t speak for anyone else, but I know I was angry. I felt that my whole life had been taken from me because my husband wanted to have a mistress. I remember sitting in our living room discussing our situation, and the heart ache that we felt. I said “you break it; you buy it,” and Angie came back with “Alimony”. That statement stuck in our minds, and we went the next week to get it on a welcome mat. There was something about seeing that mat every day that made us feel good. For the first time, we were able to laugh at our situation.That one saying turned into a number of sayings. We realized that there were other women in the world that felt the way that we did, and that we should share our ideas with the world. We started our business and haven’t looked back since. The words So Above Mistress have taken on a life of its own. So Above Mistress is no longer just the name of our business, it is the definition of who we are.So Above Mistress is exactly what the name says; knowing that you are better than just being the other woman. I know hate is a strong word, but I hate mistresses. Being a woman gives us power. We have the pussy, we make the rules. It angers me to see women lower themselves for a man, especially when the man belongs to someone else. I have no respect for women who don’t respect themselves. I’m sorry, but if you are willing to give yourself to a married man, to me you’re worthless. I don’t care what he said to you or how he made you feel. The moment that he tells you he’s married, you need to walk away.There are good men out there; I know a few great ones. Women get so caught up in trying to find a man; they accept whatever man they can get. I’m better than that, and if that makes me better than you, so be it. Either I’m number one, or I’m nothing at all. If a man has a wife, it should tell you two big things right away; he lies and he cheats. If you are still willing to entertain a relationship with a married man, maybe you should ask yourself what’s wrong with you. Are you too simple to have a complete thought and figure it out?Men play games, lie, and are full of shit a lot of the time. We have an advantage because we know the game. We created the game! Do not allow your emotions to get in the way of common sense. I am starting to learn that common sense is not so common anymore. If you’re a young girl trying to play in a real woman’s world, you have to first be able to understand how a man thinks. Pick up the book, “The Ultimate Guide on How to Cheat on Your Woman”, by Kurin Keys. This book will give you a real insight on why men do the things that they do. For real woman, there is nothing in the book that we don’t already know; but it’s always good to brush up on our skills. The game is forever changing. For young woman, (girls, hoes, mistresses … whatever) get it, study it, know it! If you know the game, you can’t get played.The first question you should ask a man when he approaches you is, “are you single”? If he hesitates, he’s lying. If he says that he is in a relationship that is all you need to know. You can continue a conversation with him, but that’s as far as it should go. Do not listen to the story about how bad things are at home. It doesn’t matter. Do not allow him to disrespect the union that he has created. That is his business and his life. If he is able to tell you that he is with someone else and you entertain the conversation, he won. Change the conversation and move on. Believe it or not, a man will respect you more for walking away.I am so sick of young minded females, and I am tired of hearing girls say stupid things about as long as they are number one in their man’s life, they’re happy. Ok simpleton, being number one doesn’t stop you from getting STDs from numbers two and three. Stop making excuses for these men! It’s not about him; it’s about you. What about being the only one? Real woman deserve the throne. Little girls play princess so that they can one day become the queen. Any other position is a waste of time.So Above Mistress is a state of mind. It is the way you carry yourself. It’s not about how loud you can get or how often you say you want respect. How many times have you seen a woman in public yelling at someone about how they want to be treated? I see it almost every time I go out. It makes me sick to see a female lose control like that. Yelling in public proves nothing, but your ignorance. So Above mistress is about your swagger. It’s in your eye contact, your walk, your talk, and your whole attitude. A lady is always a lady. Step up and be the woman that you were meant to be. Don’t ask for respect, demand it!
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THE TEN COMMANDMENTSI. THOU SHALL NOT MESS WITH A NOWNUTTA BITCHII. THOU NAME SHOULD NOT RESEMBLE AN STD MEDICATION (Clamyrtriah)III. THOU SHALL NOT CLAIM THAT IT’S BABY FAT, ITS FAT BABYIV. THOU SHALL MAINTAIN PUSSY MAINTENANCEV. THOU SHALL NOT FUCK WITH MY MAN, BITCHVI. THOU SHALL JUST BE CLEAN, BITCH, JUST BE CLEANVII. THOU SHALL NOT CHEAT WITH FACIALLY CHALLENGED PEOPLE.VIII. THOU SHALL GET OFF FOOD STAMPSIX. THOU SHALL NOT BE A STALKERX. THOU SHALL NOT USE YOUR PUSSY FOR EVILTHIS WAS ALL IN FUN HOPE WE DONT OFFEND ANYONE. BUT YOU KNOW WE RIGHT LOL
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MISTRESS QUESTIONAIRE1) Have you ever been involved with a Taken man?2) Have you ever had a quickie with a man you didn’t know?3) Does “your man” call you from a blocked number?4) Have you ever been to his house?5) Does he only come to see during “club time”? (11pm to 4am)6) Have you met any of his family?7) Does he always find an excuse to leave?8) Does he answer his phone around you?9) Does he introduce you as his “friend”?10) Can you go thru his phone?11) Is your name, your name in his phone?12) Does he only call you because you’re always available?13) Does he ever stay the night, but leave before breakfast?14) Do you know where he works?15) Does his phone ever ring around you and he doesn’t pick up?16) Are your conversations with him more sexual than meaningful and intellectual?17) Does he ever plan trips with you that you never go on?18) Does he only have a cell phone/pager and not a house phone?19) Does he always have an excuse for why he has to leave?PLEASE FEEL FREE TO LEAVE US YOUR COMMENTS ON THIS BLOG, AND TELL US HOW MANY MISTRESSES YOU KNOW.
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