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In my experience working with a range of women entrepreneurs, I've found that so many women want their businesses to run beautifully and yet ironically struggle to find the beauty within. The struggle I refer to is often times displayed in the form of a fear and resistance to being seen in photos or videos. I will often hear statements like "I want the business to run itself", "I don't want to be the face of my business" or "I hate the way I look on camera."

We live in a very critical world. I personally know that the fear of being judged not only by our businesses, but by our looks is more than most can bare. For years I didn't upload a photo of myself online and used a cartoon character to represent me. It got so bad one lady said, "I didn't know if BBWO was really run by a black woman, a white man, or a robot!" Today I honestly can't remember all the reasons why I was so resistant to being the face of my business. I just know that eventually I realized there is no place in business for shy entrepreneurs and further more, as entrepreneurs (like it or not) we are the faces of our businesses (period).

Being resistant to sharing your true self can really block your blessings and have damaging effects on the growth of your business. As a matter of fact, on the topic of "fear, body image issues and resistance to your true greatness", I had a chance to interview power circle expert Jai Stone. In addition to being a speaker at our 2014 Power Circle Conference, Jai also happens to be talking about the topic of a Healthier You on TD Jakes new show airing this Sunday at 2pm on BET.

Jai, tell us more about your topic on TD Jakes upcoming show:
Healthier You is the show title. In short, I finally found the courage to publicly address my private struggle with obesity. What a platform, right?! I mean TD Jakes and BET -- go big or stay home I guess (shrugs).

What has been your personal lesson learned with respect to body image issues and being a healthier you?
My primary lesson was that there is power in vulnerability. Shame can't exist in the light. But I had to have lots of coaching from my life coach Akilah Richards and therapist Jack A. Daniels. They were basically a tag team to get me to break down my walls and tell my REAL story. I spent several days crying and nervous before the show. I was about to share my greatest humiliation with the world. Things I had not even shared with my closest friends and family.

What is one thing you would encourage other women to do with respect to their personal fears and concerns about their health and body image?
EVERYONE has a fitness journey, even if its NOT weight. Find the right support professionals to help you get your life on track.

What was it like being on the TD Jakes Show?
Whaaatttt??!! (High pitch squeal). It was one of the most amazing and life altering experiences of my life. BET treated me like a Rock Star. They sent a car for me, I had my own dressing room. They even set me up with the Glam Squad from the Monique Show. 5-star treatment all the way. A girl could get used to that real quick!

One woman entrepreneur to another, how did you get on the show?
One of the assistant producers follows me on Twitter. She saw a post I wrote for Essence.com where I put a different spin on the battle of the bulge. She passed it on the the show producers. They contacted me the day after the post went up on the site. THAT is the power of social media and creating strong meaningful content. You get seen and folks will invite you to share your story. My blogging has led to some amazing opportunities including this one.

Do you have any advice for other women entrepreneurs looking for opportunities to gain media exposure for their business and/or brand?
I have tons of advice. Chose your platform and dominate it. For me its Blogging and I use social media to promote my blogs. But it could be radio, television or speaking engagements. Just make sure you follow rule #1 BE FREAKING AMAZING!!!

Is there anything else you’ve got planned or coming up in the near future?
Well you know me, I always have SOMETHING cooking on the back burner. But what's hot right now is the new book that I'm launching in December. Eating Cupcakes Naked is a collection of 13 parables chronicle some of the most pivotal and life altering experiences in my robust life. I'm excited to share my stories with the world.

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I've known Jai Stone for several years now and to see how much she has stepped into her greatness as a woman and a blog entrepreneur I am truly impressed. I remember when she attended one of my previous 3 day conferences and talked about her resistance to being in front of the camera for fear of commentary and cruel criticism. I incorporate mobile video marketing sessions within my events, so I made it a point to get her behind that camera and show how dynamic she was and how amazing her story truly is, so its wonderful to see her not only creating videos but now speaking on nationally syndicated shows, sharing her story.

Whether it be blogging, photos or video marketing as an entrepreneur eventually you will have to step into your greatness. It is essential that you become comfortable with sharing your story and also being the face of your business. As we watch Jai's journey together, clearly you can see she is proof in the power of being vulnerable and striving towards a healthier image of you.

Ladies are you ready to let go of that fear and those body image issues that are holding you back on the path to being a healthier you?
Leave a comment and share your thoughts with us. Plus remember to join Jai, myself and all the wonderful women attending our 2014 Power Circle Conference. This is truly a one of a kind mastermind style event for serious women entrepreneurs and our topic this year will be Unblocking Your Blessings to build your best Business.Life.Self.

About Jai Stone
Emotional Nudity was birth from Jai Stone’s struggle with a life of suppression, her message was carved from the pain of rejection. After decades of trying to fit in, Stone finally found the courage to break free from the social norms that threatened to smother her soul. Now Jai has dedicated her life to helping others find their personalized path to fulfillment through the Emotional Nudity Lifestyle (ENL). The ENL brand focuses on promoting authentic living in every aspect of life. Ever so humble, Jai Stone ALWAYS refers to herself as an OBEDIENT VESSEL and believes her work is her divine calling. Visit EmotionalNudity.com to learn more about Jai Stone and her amazing story.

Related post: Power Circle Expert + Conference Speaker Carol Sankar on the Steve Harvey Show discussing hot topic: Can Women Really Have it All?

Friday evening I sat down and open my mail that came that day. One of which was a letter from my bank. They were informing me about the changes that are coming. “News Flash” I don’t do well with changes with my financial institutions. Every bank I have been with either raise their fees so high it didn’t pay to keep my money with them or got brought by another bank. The first change they are doing is increasing the ATM fee when you use your card at an outside ATM. The closest branch is an hour bus ride away. So I would have to spend $5 (or $2.50 if I ride down and come right back using a transfer) just to get some cash. One of my bank’s recommendations is the cash back option when I swipe my card in a store. The other is to either open or to switch to a different type of account in which ATM fee is waived (which may required a high balance to avoid a maintenance fee).

The other changed is starting December I will be charge for getting paper statements. That got me thinking, I know I didn’t switch to online statements but I can’t remember the last time I’ve gotten a statement from them. I was too busy this weekend but next weekend I will be going through all my papers to find the last statement I received. Anyway I logged into my account and switch because I know I forget.

I say all of this because (continue reading on to found out how my mini rant ends)

SMART MOVE FOR WOMEN, MINORITY, AND SMALL BUSINESS OWNERS: INVEST IN REAL ESTATE THROUGH THE FDIC

Beyond buying a home for your family, it may never have occurred to you to invest in real estate. You may think that you do not have the experience or the money to even know where to begin. However, a small initial investment could result in high returns for you, by either giving you the capital to grow your business or a new professional direction. There are a number of reasons investing in real estate may be a smart move for your business or your personal finances:

• Fixing up and flipping low cost homes could be an added source of income

• One-time or ongoing property investment offers a high ROI

• Finding cheap commercial assets or land to expand your business

The Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC) offers an affordable way to invest in real estate, as they regularly hold auctions and have an online marketplace where they sell assets from failed banks. As there are no bid minimums at the auctions and bids can be placed in person or online, the FIDC offers an easy and affordable way for first time investors to get involved in real estate.

Why is it good for women, minority and small businesses?

To ensure a diversity of participation in the Owned Real Estate (ORE) program, the FDIC welcomes and strongly encourages small, minority and women investors and individuals to participate in the bidding under the program.

As minority-owned businesses typically receive less capital than non-minority-owned businesses, investing in real estate is an alternative way to build capital. Women are also becoming increasingly empowered to invest in real estate and they’re finding that there is always a profitable strategy regardless of the current market. You no longer have to have a wealth of experience or a lot of initial investing money because of the opportunity to buy affordable previously owned properties and flip them for a high return.

If you’re a first time investor, starting with an FDIC auction is great because of the lower prices of property sold through their Owned Real Estate Marketplace and the no bid minimum.

The FDIC’s Minority and Women Outreach Program also exists solely to make investing in real estate a reality for women and minorities who may not have been aware of the opportunity. They are eager to offer assistance and education so that you’re well informed on your opportunities for growth.

What if you have no idea where to start?

The FDIC holds information sessions specifically designed to expose and educate small, minority- and women-owned businesses to investing in real estate, as well as individual investors. The sessions focus on the process of acquiring real estate through the ORE Marketplace and any upcoming auctions. In November, there are three information sessions in Birmingham, AL (Nov. 12^th), Hickory, NC (Nov. 13^th) and Atlanta, GA (Nov 14^th). The information sessions are free and also provide a great networking opportunity for attendees.

If you’re not located near or in any of those states, the FDIC also offers 30-45 minute webinars. There are five webinars in November, on the 5^th, 7^th, 18^th, 19^th, and 21^st. As space is limited, you will want to register for your desired date as soon as possible.

To learn more and register, visit the information session and webinar registration page.

Money, Power and Respect is one thing, but what about Money, Motherhood and Marriage? Steve Harvey talks to a panel of real-life women, including SistaSense Power Circle expert Carol Sankar, about how they handle the balance of motherhood, career and marriage. Plus life coach Paula Davis-Laack weighs in on this hot-button issue, so be sure to watch the show and get all the details over at http://www.steveharveytv.com.

Did you know that Carol Sankar is one of the lovely ladies speaking at our 2014 Power Circle Conference? Today I had a chance to talk to Carol about her thoughts on being a mompreneur and this is what she told me:

What was your take on today's topic: can women really have it all?
One of the things we discussed is the fact that today women can have everything: family & careers (I talked about my business) and how I balance it all. My perspective is that your children will adjust to knowing Mom is doing everything possible to create a better life for the family, while still keeping up with maternal obligations, such as school functions, PTA etc. Also, I discussed the fact that my husband and I find a way to make it work as full time entrepreneurs by finding a way to balance on our limited time together.

Do you really think women can have it all?
Yes, we can have it all. We have to know the difference between overwhelm and efficiency. It is all about balancing and how you eliminate the factors that do not benefit you as a mother, wife, entrepreneur, etc. We have to learn how to delegate and manage our time wisely.

How do you try to achieve balance?
I try to achieve balance by "working while I am working and being mom when I am being mom". I believe in being there for my son as much as possible, but there is work time and mommy time. Most of all, we make it a point to have our son involved in the process every step of the way so he can see firsthand how we provide for him. This allows us to balance with him instead of around him.

How did you get on the Steve Harvey Show?
I wrote an article and about women being more aggressive in business, which I will be elaborating on in more detail at the 2014 Sista Sense Power Circle Conference and less than an hour after it went live, I got a call from the producers at the Steve Harvey Show to form a topic for a debate.

What was it like being featured on the Steve Harvey Show?
There are no words that I can use to describe it other than amazing.

What’s one thing you would advice women entrepreneurs do to start making their businesses better now?
Ask bigger questions. Many women procrastinate when it comes to asking bigger questions that enable them to open bigger doors to leverage bigger contracts and opportunities. We have to be less passive, and find our voice. I want to see women WIN at the table rather than watch others win.

More About Carol Sankar
Carol Sankar is an internationally renowned success entrepreneurship consultant & real estate investment expert who focuses on strategic implementation strategies to assist today's start-up and mid-level entrepreneur become successful. Mrs. Sankars' business and wealth tips have been featured in publications in Finland, Australia, Germany, the United Kingdom and the USVI. Her international client-base range from aspiring entrepreneurs to seasoned veterans who are seeking new and innovative methods to reinvent their businesses. In addition, Ms. Sankar is considered an expert in the field of marketing and branding.

Carol hosts a variety of training workshops, live and virtual events world-wide on a variety of topics relating to success, marketing and entrepreneurship. She has been featured in numerous magazines, radio shows, articles and webinars; including a recent features in Madame Noire, LearnVest Magazine, EBONY Magazine, CNNMoney.com, Harvest Magazine and Essence Magazine. You can learn more about Carol and her coaching services at www.carolsankar.com.

What do you think? Can we women entrepreneurs truly have it all?

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Hello Community,

You hear this word used in many conversations. Speakers earn great income from addressing this issues. Many theories are submitted to addressing theory.  Ok here is my take on the powerful word fear!!!   I look forward to your assessment of what this word can or can not do!!

At your service,

Rickey

www.jusmcc.net

Books.Buzz.Business. is the webinar conference of the year for authors (men and women), writers, aspiring self-publishers and those interested in learning how to sell, setup, package, promote and profit from their books, eBooks and magazine style digital publications.

We are going to have some serious speakers and best selling author entrepreneurs inside our circle showing you exactly how to tap into your best selling author potential.

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We are an independent contractor with Arise Network that handles customer service calls for various companies. VP Services employs customer service agents to work from home. Customer service representatives are paid $9.00-14.00 per hourly, and make their own schedule. Most clients require a minimum of 15 hours per week from all CPS. Five of the 15 hours must be scheduled during the weekend. The training fee range from $40.00 up to $150.00 The training fee is reimbursed after 6 month of working for VP Services. You will be employed for VP Services, training starts after you create a profile, pass the voice assessment and the criminal background check. You will have access to the Arise portal to choose a client to service. All the positions are full time or part time, it depends on the hours you choose to work, but again, a minimum of 15 hours a week is required by most clients. You receive direct deposit or check by mail. Please be advised that Arise doesn’t practice business in are Massachusetts, Maryland, Connecticut, Oregon, and New York. You can service as many clients as you like.

We are an independent contractor with Arise Network that handles customer service calls for various companies. VP Services employs customer service agents to work from home. Customer service representatives are paid $9.00-14.00 per hourly, and make their own schedule. Most clients require a minimum of 15 hours per week from all CPS. Five of the 15 hours must be scheduled during the weekend. The training fee range from $40.00 up to $150.00 The training fee is reimbursed after 6 month of working for VP Services. You will be employed for VP Services, training starts after you create a profile, pass the voice assessment and the criminal background check. You will have access to the Arise portal to choose a client to service. All the positions are full time or part time, it depends on the hours you choose to work, but again, a minimum of 15 hours a week is required by most clients. You receive direct deposit or check by mail. Please be advised that Arise doesn’t practice business in are Massachusetts, Maryland, Connecticut, Oregon, and New York. You can service as many clients as you like.

The B.I.G. Business Conference Is Seeking Trainers and Coaches!

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There are many times, networking with powerful people, pays off, in ways beyond monetary benefit.

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Health Tip...

My father's mother died at 29 from a massive heart attack caused by heart disease related to diabetes. He was 5, he is now 78, when she died. He was running home excited about seeing his mom that day because, he had made a special picture for her in his kindergarten class. Instead, he got to see her being removed from the house by paramedics (She died in kitchen while preparing dinner for her family.)

It still brings him to tears when he talks about this day 73 years later. She left behind 7 children, her husband, and obviously grandchildren who never had the opportunity to see how wonderful she was.

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As part of my "Unblock Your Blessings 90 Day Challenge" - today I am presenting a free webinar on 'Blessings and Business: How to Get What You Want + Live How You Please' at 7pm EST.

What do web women entrepreneurs really want? Based on my personal experience plus my time mentoring other women I'm pretty sure we want it all, but here are some desires that immediately come to mind:

• Adequate payment for time, skills and services
• Appreciation for hard work, commitment and dedication
• Ability to empower and inspire other women; turning passion into purpose and profit
• Abundance in the form of true happiness; doing what one loves for the people one loves
• Accomplishments otherwise defined as the fruits of our labor; seeing those dreams become real and long desired destinies fulfilled

During this SistaSense Webinar Session I will shed more light on how you can unblock your blessings, get what you want and ultimately live how you please.

You can participate in today's webinar via computer, phone or the SM mobile app. Follow the link below to register.

Reserve your webinar seat at http://mad.ly/signups/92500/join

Also note: if you are interested in attending our 2014 SistaSense Power Circle Conference, there are only 2 early bird seats left and virtual tickets are available if you'd like to watch via webinar live stream.