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Thank God For Dudley's Product

Posted by Valerie Pompey Weathers Jones on June 6, 2008 at 3:38am

I thank God for Dudley products on nights like tonight. I have been so busy that I have missed 2 weeks of going to the salon. So I decided to do my own hair. I used my Dudley Deluxe Shampoo which has left my hair shiny and manageble and then I finished it off with my Dudley's Hair Mask which I just got this week. I had never used it before and to be honest I did not know what to expect. Well I am pleased with the results after covering my hair with a plastic shower cap and sitting under the dryer for a few minutes, I was able to actually rinse it out and use Dudley's setting lotion and total control shining gel to set my hair with rollers. I should get back under the dryer but I decided to write my blog instead.Now I have been a Dudley Beauty Advisor for a few months now and I figure the best way to learn all of the products and describe them is to actually experience them for myself. I have had fun using the skin care system and makeup reminding myself how great it is to be a Black woman and all of the options that we actually have in America.Where else can you make money by making your friends and family as fabulous as you are. :)It is currently summer time and I am having a ball with my new lip candyThey are very shimmery with nice summer shades while tasting sweet My Peach Pop taste like a Pop up Ice cream and my Frosted Chocolate tast like chocolate.I had to get the accent shades of eye shadow for the summer. The sun bronzes my skin while Dudley Cosmeticshighlights my skin.Loving them.to see some of the shades go to my sitehttp://www.vjones.dudleycosmetics.comOk well back 2 the dryer. Thanks for reading and I will try to take some photos!!Valerie

Want to know more about Senegence Cosmetics?

Posted by Rochelle Simon-Shipman on June 5, 2008 at 11:18pm

Get on my mailing list!If you would like to be on my monthly newsletter list, email me with "newsletter" in the subject line to lipsnmore@senesite.com .You will learn about our products , how and why they work, the business opportunity, glamour technique and more!Hope to hear from you soon!!

Wealth Building in Tough Times

Posted by Valarie Eiland Davis on June 5, 2008 at 10:32pm

Today’s Worst of Times Can Produce Your Best of TimesBy Valarie Eiland DavisFounder & CEO of Venterprises Realty Group and The Venterprises Foundationvdedavis@gmail.comIt’s trite but true to say that bad experiences can bring out the best in us. Bad grades can make students work harder. Bad work performance reviews can make us work smarter. Bad relationships can teach us how to be better family members and friends. Bad meals might even make us better cooks. Well, the bad economic times we are living through right now can either bring out the worst in us or make us think thoughts and take actions that will eventually produce some of the best times we could ever have. It’s your choice!I love the fact that bad times make us scrutinize our money matters with a magnifying glass – from how we spend our pennies, nickels and dimes, to whether it’s the right time to buy or sell our homes. Bad times like these force us to do things we should have been doing anyway when it comes to managing our money, assets and liabilities. But, none of us can think of everything. So, I would like to share a few thoughts that might put you on a clearer or faster path through the present worst of times to your future best of times.GET YOUR FAMILY’S PRIORITIES STRAIGHT AND MAKE SURE EVERYONE IS ON BOARDIf you don’t have a budget, schedule two hours with other household decision makers to make one, write it down, and share it with everyone that lives with you.• Do you know how much money is really coming into your home? Women, statistics show we will outlive the men in our lives, so it pays to know the numbers from start to finish.• Does everyone in your home agree on “needs” versus “wants”? What may be unnecessary spending to you may be essential to someone else.• Do you know the spending tradeoffs your family is making and how they will affect you down the road? Those quick fast food stops may add up to the cost of the school supplies you need to buy in just a few short months.How would you like it if your state and national elected leaders managed your hard-earned tax dollars the way you manage the money that supports your family? Enough said.SAVE MONEY THE RIGHT WAYEveryone has heard the personal finance commandment “Pay yourself first.” Well, here’s the way I see it. Most of us end up paying the government first if you have federal and state deductions made from your paychecks. Congratulations to you entrepreneurs who get all of your money up front! That said, here’s my recommended “Payout Plan:”• Exercise your faith faithfully. Pay your tithes and offerings. If you believe God will never leave you hanging, then act you believe it and don’t hold back even in the worst of times.• Cover the basics. Make sure your needs are covered comfortably with a reserve cushion of at least three months. This is the first savings account any family (which includes single folks) should have. Don’t do any non-essential spending until this is done. That’s right, I said “none!”• Insure yourself adequately. Do you know how much money your dependents would need to live on in the event of your death? I know, I know. You don’t like to think about death, and you’re planning on being around for a long time. Well, few people actually plan to die – but those that do have a plan do their duty by their family members and leave them able to live a stable financial life. Have a free consultation with an insurance advisor. Have the advisor review your current policies (through your job and your personal purchases), and find out how the policies work. Then figure out what you want to provide via insurance and make the investment. I talked last week with an insurance advisor who met with two working parents on Friday and the wife was dead by Sunday – unexpectedly, of course. The worse news is that he purchased life insurance and she said “No, I’m fine,” figuring that her husband’s policy was enough. It’s not enough that the husband and children have to grieve the loss of their wife and mother, but they will likely lose their house and struggle financially for some time to come.• Elders first. Make sure those with the least number of working years ahead of them are taken care of first. The younger ones, if necessary can and will make their own way if you give them the basics. This may sound backwards to those of you who are saving for college before your own retirement. But, you are the only person who contributes to your retirement. Your children have you and themselves. Work with a financial planner to figure out how much money you will actually need to retire (or go on line and use a free calculator like the one at www.moneycentral.com ), and then take action.• Invest as aggressively as possible. If you are under 50 years of age, there is no reason for you to be investing as conservatively as someone who is over 50. Often we take the less risky route because we haven’t invested the time and energy to understand what we believe are riskier alternatives. Don’t try to become a financial expert, but work with one who has experience with people in your particular situation. Think of it this way. You work hard for your money. Be willing to work at least half as hard when deciding where to invest it.I hope you can see how having your family make important and manageable changes in these worst of times will surely pay off financially in the future – laying the groundwork for the best of times.I’ll let you chew on that much for now. In upcoming articles I will address:SPENDING MONEY:What Is Your Money Personality and How Is It Defining Your Life?HOMEOWNERSHIP:Real Estate is Still the Ultimate InvestmentThat’s all for now! Feel free to contact me with feedback, suggested topics for future articles, questions and concerns.And, as I love to say “When we know better, we can do better.”

Street-team opportunities for the BBWO

Posted by Karma on June 5, 2008 at 9:00pm

Here is where we'll be the next couple of weeks.Virginia-Highland Art Festival - Atlanta, GA -June 6-8, 2008Birmingham, AL - Birmingham City Stages - Downtown Birmingham, AL June 13-15, 2008Decatur Beach Party - Decatur, GA - June 20, 2008Montgomery, AL - Frazzy Fridays - Street-Team promotions are every Friday - a booth can be negotiated for inside sales.email me for more information.Forever promoting,Karma Middletonwww.Great-Promo.ComCreating Brain Tattoos that last Generations!

Lordy, Lordy, Are there Any Good men Still Left Over 40?

Posted by Beverly Mahone on June 5, 2008 at 4:13am

Excerpt from Chapter 2 of my book:"First of all, I have to tell you, I never imagined I’d be on the dating circuit again in my forties. I honestly believed I would be living out the rest of my life in a perfect marriage with the man of my dreams. Unfortunately that “dream” didn’t take long to turn into a nightmare! I’ll spare you the gory details, but I will say this: Ladies, be careful what you pray for in your desperation to get married by a certain age. Remember, you can do bad all by yourself.Obviously, my idea of dating is a lot different now as a woman pushing fifty compared to when I was in my twenties. Back in the day, I tried to keep my social calendar filled. I had no problem going out with different guys, sometimes more than one in a night, and partying until the break of dawn.Although variety was the spice of my life, I had to have the right kind of man for the occasion. He had to be respectfully employed and make more money than me. Yes, I knew some very handsome drug dealers who were rolling in the big bucks and other charming men of ill-repute who had deep pockets but, as a broadcast journalist, I didn’t want to be put in a position to have to report about them on the news.My guy also had to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation about any subject, rock my world in the bedroom, enjoy working out (and have the physique to prove it), and appreciate my knowledge of sports. Because my job required me to make numerous public appearances, I had to insist on being in the company of a man who would make me look even better.That was then..."To find out the rest of my story about dating after 40, please pick up a copy of my book: "Whatever! A Baby Boomer's Journey Into Middle Age." Available on amazon.com and barnes and noble.

GAS Prices got you in a PINCH?

Posted by Beverly Fisher2007 on June 5, 2008 at 3:00am

I Pay $1.75 for GAS. In less than a month the most EXPLOSIVE- E-BOOK on the internet will be unveiled. If you want to SLASH your annual Gas expense by 50%-75% join me on Wednesday nights at 8:00PM CST/9:00PM EST for some important information.(605) 475-6900 Pin 100101#Would you like to make money giving away this FREE-BOOK?If so Email me back with "SHOW ME THE MONEY" in the Subject title.specann@hotmail.com

$1 Million in Revenue - It Is Possible

Posted by Natasha Crawford on June 5, 2008 at 2:41am

Yesterday I attended the Make Mine a Million $ Business event by Count Me In, an organization whose mission is to "inspire 1 million women entrepreneurs to reach annual revenues of $1 million by the year 2010"They offer a variety of online resources for women entrepreneurs. They also have events around the country - the focus of which is a competition to become a part of their program that provides coaching, mentorship, and a variety of REALLY COOL prizes by sponsors like Dell, FedEx, and American Express. All to get your business to become a million dollar business.They also had a raffle to allow attendees to pitch their business to the audience (unfortunately I wasn't selected). It was a great day, I was extremely inspired and can't wait to compete to be a part of their Micro to Millions program. AND I got a free signed copy of Duct Tape MarketingCheck out the websites! If there's an upcoming event near you, GO. How amazing it would be for our BBWO members to hit $1 million (and more!) in revenue.Make Mine a Million Dollar Business Count Me InNatashawww.NatashaCrawford.com

5 Myths About Entrepreneurs

Posted by Christine on June 5, 2008 at 12:34am

This is a reprint of an article that I located on isnare.com. I am using this as an example of how you can find free content for your website and/or for your blog. Remember, search engines love new content - gives the spiders that crawl your site something new to munch. The only thing you must do is include a link and give credit.5 Myths About EntrepreneursBy Joe LeeThe media has made lots of reports about entrepreneurs. Somemay be true, some are not. Here are the 5 myths about being anentrepreneur.Myth #1: Entrepreneurs only care about making moneyMany people think entrepreneurs do what they do strictly forthe money, and that taking risks is all about entrepreneur'spersonal reward.While fear of poverty or use of money as a scorecard may havesome relevance - and there are, of course, some entrepreneursfocused primarily on financial profits - generally, money is notthe ultimate motivator for the majority of entrepreneurs.Many successful entrepreneurs do not live a lavish lifestylesthat reflect their financial success. Their motives are oftenmore about ego and emotion. For most entrepreneurs, money isjust a way to keep score.Money is also a way to do bigger and more exciting deals. Thethrill of challenge, the motivation of a new idea, and the risksinvolved have far more power to motivate the entrepreneurialspirit than money.Myth #2: Winning means somebody else is losingYou may have heard of people speak of success in business asbeing "on the backs of other," suggesting that if anentrepreneur is winning, somebody else must be losing.This attitude makes it seem like the only possible outcome of abusiness deal is to have one side win and the other side lose.The resulting bottom line is zero. This is sometimes referred toas the "zero-sum game."Entrepreneurs are creative and expansionary thinkers. Ratherthan accepting a zero-sum result, and, contrary to the myth thatan entrepreneur's success comes at the expense of others,entrepreneurs often try to figure out ways that both sides canwin.Myth #3: The greater the risk, the greater the rewardThis myth is always passed on to young entrepreneurs aseconomic gospel. The theoretical relationship between risk andreward is coincidental at best, and then only in certainsituations.Risk is a relative concept. All else being equal, real risksare modified by knowledge, experience, hard work, passion, andunforeseen circumstances. Applying knowledge to any investmentcan change the risk profile.Equally important in considering risks, perception of risks isoften different from reality. What one person considers highrisk might be from another's perspective a sure thing. Who thencan say what's a great risk or a great reward?Myth #4: As an entrepreneur, you can get rich quickHave you heard of those dotcom millionaires? In the internetworld, it sure seemed like people got rich overnight. But alwaysremember that things often seem easier than they are.It may seem to you that entrepreneurs made the huge amount ofmoney, but do you know that there are lots of hardwork before hemade it. Think twice about becoming an entrepreneur, if youthink you can get rich quick.Myth #5: A good business plan is the entrepreneur's criticalroadmap to successVenture capitalists often make business plans the key criteriain deciding whether or not to fund new companies. Businesseducators often talk about business plans like they are the HolyBible of business success. The theory is that the better andmore complete the business plan, the better the business willgo. This is a myth.While having an idea or a goal is critical, believing that youcan create a structured, believeing that you can create astructured business plan that will endure time or place issimply naive. In the real world,it rarely happens.Business plans can be useful initial tools, but they should beused only as guidelines. Trial and error, luck, creativity,flexibility, and adapting to unforeseeable developmentsultimately are what make an entrepreneurial venture succeed.Successful entrepreneurs know when to use creative problemsolving rather than theoretical business plans.About the Author: Joe is an enlightened entrepreneur startinghis business in an out-of-the-box way. With his experience , hecompiled a report, "49 Compelling Headlines to increase yourprofit by 433%".If you are frustrated with your advertisementresponse rate, you may want to get this report athttp://www.millionaire-idea.comSource: http://www.isnare.comPermanent Link: http://www.isnare.com/?aid=117479&ca=Business

The Price of Parenthood - A CNN Study

Posted by Diana on June 4, 2008 at 8:05pm

Beneath CNN's top news of the Democratic Nomination sits an article that reads, "The Price of Parenthood - Mother's love worth $117,000 per year, study says". You can read the article here.I probably would have passed this article but decided to take a gander. In brief it states that SAHM work 94.4 hrs/wk. The basis of the dollar amount is due to all the overtime hours we put in for a typical day. And get this a woman that works outside the home makes in comparison (average) over 68K. Now I worked outside the home and have come close to that salary ( I cringe ever time I think about it) But whether you are Mom who works outside the home, stay at home, work at home are far more worth all the rubies and diamonds in the world. There is no dollar amount to equate what my Mother did for me or what I do for my kids now. Although I would like for someone to write me a check for $1,000,000.00 once in a while. LOLWhat about you? Is there really a price value for what you do as a mother or what our mothers did for us? Comments are welcome.

JUNIQUES RADIO SHOW IS ON- LISTEN TO BUSINESS GROWTH OF LORREEN SAMPLE

Posted by Rickey on June 4, 2008 at 6:39pm

Hello Community,Juniques Marketing Business Opportunity StoreRadio Show is now available for your listeningEnjoyment. Listen now at www.juniques.usHear the business growth of Lorreen Sample,A North Carolina resident that is making great thing happen.This is a very interesting lady, mother, wife, business owner andOperator.Juniques Marketing Business Opportunity StoreIs on Wednesday, 9AM (MST).Call-in Number: (347) 215-9512Join Us!!! WWW.JUNIQUES.US

NYX Cosmetics

Posted by Kelly Laws on June 4, 2008 at 1:30pm

Hello Ladies,Just wanted to let you know that I found a great line of cosmetics called NYX. I may work with them with the MUArtistry Business as far as using some of their line when I do my makeovers. I love finding new things and trying them and advise women that I know to try them also. Their line is not expensive and their eyeshadows are the bomb. They have alot of pigment which is my greatest issue when working on darker skin. I also like their eyeliner pen which is called, "Tattoo". Great pen and excellent drawing precision. It stays on even with tears which is good for 'Brides' on that great day. I like their lip glosses, their lip tints and also cheek creams which work excellent on dry skin but not on oily. I love sharing beauty info espeically if it is working for me. If you have a favorite product that you might think I can use let me know and I will try it and let my circle know about it. Thanks and stay beautiful even on the go.Kellywww.nyxcosmetics.com

WBO Talk Radio: Check It & Update Yearly! Join Us Today at 11 a.m. (EST)

Posted by Altha Sood on June 4, 2008 at 11:39am

Come hear how 2 business women are making a difference - creating a greater awareness for early breast cancer detection and assisting other budding entrepreneurs through her writing skills.You will find us tomorrow on www.blogtalkradio.com/wbo-radio on Wednesday, June 4, 2008 at 11 a.m. (EST). Join us in the chatroom on the host page or "dial in", (347) 205-9229.Here are our guests:Debbie Mormino, a WBO member and an independent ambassador for Plexus Pink, www.plexuspink.com. As a breast health consultant, she is an advocate for early breast detection and more breast cancer awareness.Our other guest is Ms. Anita Bruton who is also a WBO member. She will share her experiences as a freelance writer and establishing her business online and offline. On many social networks, there is a requirement to complete a profile on their websites. Ms. Bruton specializes in coaching home-based entrepreneurs, Internet Entrepreneurs and small business owners in writing and using their professional profile as an effective marketing tool to position the entrepreneur as an expert in their niche. A well written profile opens the doors to many opportunities. Come hear how she found this niche and helps others obtain success in their business.

Abstract Art Auction - 3 Exciting Original Paintings

Posted by R. Jenkins on June 4, 2008 at 6:00am

R. Jenkins Abstract Art - Bid Now

Auction Information

The auction will start 8am Monday, June 2 and will end 8am Saturday, June 7 2008.

3 Original Abstract Paintings from artist Rebekah Jenkins will be auctioned. (shown above)

Art Information

All three pieces have been custom framed by R. Jenkins and include an authenticity certificate with ownership.

All R. Jenkins paintings are original works of art. No reprints or reproductions, unless otherwise stated.
A portion of the final auction price will be donated to the Black Business Space Value Tour.

R. Jenkins is a member of the Black Business Space Value Tour (BBSVT).

The BBS Value Tour is an entertainment and business development product that showcases, core values and business etiquette, fine art, independent performance artists, business supporters as well as businesses of the members of Black Business Space, a program of the National Black Business Trade Association, via a concert performancetour uniquely enhanced by fine art exhibits and a business resourcepublication.

A portion of the final auction price will be donated to the Black Business Space Value Tour.

Title: Aspire to Obtain

Title: Aspire to Obtain SIZE: 18" x 24"

"Aspire to Obtain" is number Ten of the Culture & Growth Series, an exclusive, Signature Series that focuses specifically on the year 2008. This collection encompasses political issues, cultural differences, growth, empowerment and success.

Culture merged with deep tones of brown, gold, black and copper make this painting an exciting contemporary blend of ethnicity and aspirations.

Title: Art of Noise I

Title: Art of Noise I SIZE: 2ft x 2ft

Bold, exciting and 3 dimensional. Very loud and extremely noisy! A variety of bright oranges heavily defined with black accents. A great shade of green rests in the background as is complimented with other natural tones.

The small squares were cut and convered with canvas, decoratively painted and attached. The larger rectangle is a canvas board which sits up from the painting about an inch and a half and consists of a deeply textured design.

Can you hear it?

Title: Urban Elegance	Title: Urban Elegance SIZE: 18" x 24" Well now, this rectangular piece is anything but a rectangle. Intended to evoke a classic feel without being too plainly stated. The slightly off-centered focal point is a textured, canvas panel that is elevated by decorative hardware. The custom frame has been decoratively painted as well.

Rebekah Jenkins

gallery featured artist
international selling
private collections

ABOUT THE ARTIST

R. Jenkins is a creative visionary who has a strong focus, expressive style, unique character and an ambition that is matched by production.

Merging an innovative design style with acrylic on canvas to present abstract paintings that compliment any contemporary space, place or corporate area.

As a professional graphic designer and abstract artist, R. Jenkins spends countless hours in production. Merging the two aspects of visual art, her creative works are born. Each painting is an original, and most have been built and framed by this young artist as well.

Be Careful What You Pray For

Posted by Beverly Mahone on June 4, 2008 at 3:00am

Praying for a man will get you a man but will he be the RIGHT man? Praying for a man with a job might be a good start but what other qualities should he have? Tall, Dark and Handsome? Good Provider? Loving and affectionate? Sense of humor? Loves kids? How does he treat his mother? What is he passionate about? Does he place God above everyone and everything else?The first time around I got just what I asked for simply because I didn’t know I could pray to God and ask for exactly what I wanted. God did His part by granting my request. But as I grew older and wiser I discovered I had prayed for the wrong things and then I had to turn around and pray to get out of the mess.The second mistake women make is thinking you can change him once you get him. If God hasn’t changed him yet, what makes you think you can?Today, as my husband and I celebrate our second wedding anniversary, I am so happy to say I got it right this time. I have a wonderful, new husband but I didn’t pray for him in the conventional sense. This time I asked God to create a new creature in me with a renewed spirit so that I would be deserving of a good husband and God did just what He promised and granted my request.I’m just a baby boomer in love!If you want to know more of my thoughts on dating after 40, check out my book, "Whatever! A Baby Boomer's Journey Into Middle Age." Available on amazon.com and barnesandnoble.com

Banner Exchange!

Posted by candacem907-Ms.MilanMinerals on June 4, 2008 at 1:45am

Ladies if any of you have banners to your websites please let me know I have a page on my website for links and I'm more than happy to add yours!Candace

Take A Listen... Excerpt From My Soon To Be Released Book! "Broken But Not Bound The Making of Me"

Posted by April Mason on June 3, 2008 at 9:30pm

Click here to listen...Audio can also be heard by visiting www.aprilmasonministries.com or www.myspace.com/womanofwonders

WWW. APRILMASONMINISTRIES. COM

[Action Alert] FCC Votes On Free Internet Access

Posted by Jim Neusom on June 3, 2008 at 5:08pm

Greetings Family,(Contact Information At Bottom Of Page)It's your friendly neighborhood "Digital Drummer" again (smile)As an online social activist, I'm always encouraging my readers...To Do Something!!! Take action, be bout it...not talk it. In this highly charged election season, many have forgotten the purpose of electing a public official...To represent You!Do you know Obama or McCain's position on Municipal Wi-Fi??? Do you know your own Representative/Senator's??? (see ** Municipal Wi-Fi And You) Affordable, ubiquitous, Internet access, is one of the issues that are currently in front of Congress and the FCC. On June 12, 2008 the FCC will be voting on a new "FREE" national Wi-Fi network.For the sake of your children, for the sake of your people, for the sake of your own pocketbook...you need to take action now. The Bush administration promised universal affordable access to broadband technology by 2007. Well 2007 has come and gone.Last September, the FCC issued a Notice of Proposed Rule Making (NPRM) to invite feedback and comment from the public on the best use of the 2155-2175 MHz spectrum band. In plain English...now that the nation has gone digital, the old airwaves can be used for something else, and they want to know your opinion.For years now, I have been advocating free and unfretted access to the Internet (see ** The Whiteness of Wi-Fi). We have all seen the power of the Internet, whether we're talking about commerce or civic empowerment. Imagine the benefits to having free universal access to the Net. Think of it...how many new products and services; how many new markets; how many new sources of revenue would be created, developed, and discovered.It's time for us as a Black community to unite, and demand that our politicians represent our issues...grant us the tools we need, to do for ourselves. Please contact the FCC (www.fcc.gov) by following this link, http://capwiz.com/freebroadbandnow/issues/alert/?alertid=10038926 and taking the appropriate action. You can also join a coalition of national organizations in calling for the FCC to make sure that Americans have access to free broadband services at http://www.m2znetworks.com/. Help make technology an issue in current politics by contacting your local representative (city, state, and federal); your local media (print, radio, TV); your neighbors, friends and family; and tell them your position on Municipal Wi-Fi and why they should support it.Remember, We Must Share The Knowledge (Network)...To Share The Dollars!!!** Google my byline - Jim Neusom***************(Advertisement)*********************Need some great ideas for corporate or personal gift-giving?Then go to City Lights Software(http://www.citylightssoftware.com )and see some of the most unique afrocentric gifts available online!We Deliver ONLINE - Direct To Your Desktop for just $14.95Please take the time to purchase one our afrocentric screen savers TODAY!Don't Just Talk the Talk...Let Your Dollars Walk the WalkIf you have any problems with purchasing online contact me direct at sales@citylightssoftware.com or call (213) 944-4176*****************************************************This Online Journal was brought to you by InterServe Networks. Feel Free To Forward To Your Network Of Online FriendsWe Practice Responsible E-Commerce Marketing and Privacy Policies. We do not indulge in or encourage Spamming. We never send unsolicited emails. You are receiving this message as part of our opt-in subscriber mailing list or you are a member of an affiliated newsgroup.For comments or suggestions please contact us at the following;Jim Neusom (jneusom@yahoo.com)Executive Director/PublisherInterServe Networks/City Lights Software, Inc.www.citylightssoftware.comwww.freshfaces2u.comwww.myspace.com/jimneusomwww.myspace.com/freshfaces2uTo subscribe to our opt-in mailing list simply send an email to; The_City_Lights_Reporter-subscribe@yahoogroups.com ( on Myspace go to http://blog.myspace.com/jimneusom )

Pamper Your Friends Party

Posted by Kelly Laws on June 3, 2008 at 4:47pm

Ladies, one of the best ways to enjoy your friends is to host a "Pamber Your Friend's Feet Party". All you need to invite some of your best girlfriends, ask them to bring a small foot tub and a foot towel. You supply the foot soak, foot scrub, and body butter (you can purchase a cheaper versions at your local Walmart or Family Dollar, Healing Garden is just one of the few that work well). Have the women come in and take a seat. You, as the host, will fill the foot tubs with warm/hot water, as hot as they can take please. Pour the foot soak into the tub and allow it to do it's work. While they are soaking their feet, why not fix some sweet tea, warm tea, etc.. some finger sandwiches or anything else that you like as long as it is a light snack. Serve your girlfriends their snack as they are soaking their feet. After they have finished soaking them, have them gently massage their feet with the foot scrub, (not foot scrub available then use a body scrub, it works the same). After they are finished have them rinse their feet in their foot tubs and then gently blot their feet dry but not completely because the body butter will work better if their feet are still damp. Have them gently massage the body butter into feet. Feel the difference!!! Do this as a social gathering for your friends at least once a month to destress and catch on the happenings in your friend's lives. Enjoy and be blessed.Kelly

Girlfriend Getaways - 2008

Posted by Teresa on June 3, 2008 at 3:53pm

Girlfriend Getaways 2008

The only thing more fun than a girls' night out is two in a row—or three, or five. Whether you and your friends are looking to party all night, max out your credit cards, or enjoy a relaxing massage or a glass of wine, ProfessionalTravelGuide.com has the information you need to plan a fun and memorable Girlfriend Getaway.Miami

Miami's beaches are famous. Go, relax, soak up the sun. But if you and the girls need a break from the sand and surf, check out the rest of lively Miami: international restaurants, trendy nightlife and shopping galore. And who says professional sports are just for the guys? Miami has football, baseball and basketball teams, as well as horse racing.Hotel RecommendationsIf there are golfers in your group, the Doral Golf Resort-Spa is the perfect setting. Nongolfers will have plenty of options there, too. At the spectacular Mandarin Oriental, Miami, you and your girlfriends can sample 250 different martinis in the lobby lounge. For the health-conscious, the Mandarin offers special Spa Lifestyle Rooms.Phoenix/Scottsdale

Phoenix and Scottsdale are prime pampering destinations. These youthful neighboring cities offer spas to suite every taste. To feel like you've earned your massage, spend your days in the desert: Take a Jeep tour, go hiking or biking, or take a day trip to the Grand Canyon. For a little culture, choose from an abundance of performing arts venues.Hotel RecommendationsAt the Four Seasons Resort Scottsdale, the staff will treat you and your girlfriends like queens. At the lovely Roy al Palms Resort and Spa, you’ll feel like you’ve escaped to a Mediterranean villa. Eclectic art and antiques accent the public rooms.Los Angeles

Hollywood stars. Disneyland. The Pacific Ocean. What could be more fun than exploring this city of sunshine and palm trees side by side with your best friends? Partake in pop culture at its most glamorous, from Hollywood Boulevard to the clubs of Sunset Strip to the shops on Rodeo Drive. Los Angeles is full of the stuff legends are made of.Hotel RecommendationsYou’ll be in the company of plenty of celebrities at the Hotel Bel-Air, but this refine d property is far from pretentious. And the gardens are gorgeous. The Millennium Biltmore Hotel also offers plenty of opportunities for celebrity-sightings, and it’s close to local attractions, as well as Hollywood and the beaches.Napa Valley

California's wine region is the quintessential girlfriend getaway. It has one of the best grape-growing climates in the world—some say even better than France. The big-name vineyards are obvious choices, but be sure to tour some of the small, family-run wineries as well. If you need a day to sober up, San Francisco's sights are an easy drive away.Hotel RecommendationsAfter a day of wine tasting, the girls will enjoy relaxing in the spa or by the pool at the Villagio Inn & Spa. Rooms at the world-class Carneros Inn are designed for elegant comfort, and the grounds are breathtaking.Las Vegas

Las Vegas is constantly changing and never dull. Casinos, nightclubs, luxury hotels, every kind of entertainment imaginable and fabulous restaurants provide plenty of opportunities for girlfriends to reconnect and let loose. Good museums and the nearby Red Rock Canyon provide a respite from the buzz of the Strip.Hotel RecommendationsSince it’s a special getaway, you may as well go for the top: the Bellagio has long been considered the cream of the crop in Vegas. Other excellent choices include the Wynn Las Vegas, the Mirage, MGM Grand, Mandalay Bay, Caesars and the Venetian.New York City

Ladies, take your credit cards. Regardless of your taste or budget, New York has a store, boutique or district perfect for you. Spend the days shopping and seeing the sights and the evenings at the theater, opera or symphony. Dining options are limitless, but don't overlook the hole-in-the-wall diners and pizza joints.Hotel RecommendationsThe Hilton Times Square is right in the middle of the action, close to theaters, cinemas and shopping, and its nicely sized rooms are clean and the staff is attentive. Indulge all your senses with a treatment in the spa at the luxurious Mandarin Oriental, New York or swim in the panoramic 75-foot lap pool that has a view almost as grand as from the 35th-floor lobby. The Renaissance New York Hotel Times Square is ideally located for visiting the theater, and it offers outstanding views of the city. For trend-seekers, the W New York Times Square is the top choice.New Orleans

Mardi Gras, street performers, Cajun and Creole food, historic architecture, voodoo vendors and Bourbon Street bars all collide to create the festive atmosphere that is New Orleans. Book a room in the French Quarter and explore on foot; there are enough shops, restaurants and nightclubs to keep you busy for days. Be sure to catch some live music.Hotel RecommendationsFor comfort, convenience and charm, try the Dauphine Orleans Hotel, a delightful inn in the French Quarter. In the heart of the action and next to the Ritz-Carlton, The Iberville Suites may be just the pl ace for a girls getaway. The suites provide distinctive living and sleeping areas.Charleston

Charleston is steeped in history. Stroll along Rainbow Row to admire the historic architecture; visit Fort Sumter, where the Civil War began; enjoy the views from Riverfront and Waterfront parks; and shop at the Old City Market. In the evening, stuff yourselves on seafood and enjoy a cocktail on a patio downtown.Hotel RecommendationsFor a true taste of the Old South, stay at Charleston Place in the hi storic district. Southern living doesn’t get much better than this! Wentworth Mansion also is an excellent choice for an authentic experience.Chicago

Chicago's biggest draws are architecture, museums and shopping. Take a city tour to view the famous public sculptures and landmark buildings, then buy a CityPass for everyone in your group and enjoy admission to five of Chicago's top attractions. After Michigan Avenue shopping, venture out of the city to enjoy the area's parks, gardens and zoos.Hotel RecommendationsThe luxurious Fairmont Chicago offers excellent value and is perfectly situated for Chicago’s many attractions. Other excellent choices include Park Hyatt Chicago and the Omni Chicago Hotel, where suites may be just the thing f or late-night group talks.Seattle

If you're coffee-culture gals, don't miss Seattle. Visit the original Starbuck's location, but don't get stuck there. Seattle has dozens of excellent coffeehouses to peruse. Stroll through century-old Pike Place Market and explore the city's diverse neighborhoods. Take a ferry ride into Puget Sound or check out some of the city's excellent parks.Hotel RecommendationsIf you and your girlfriends are most comfortable in a historic setting, then The Fairmont Olympic Hotel is your best bet. If your comfort zone is sleek and contempo rary, then your top choices are Sorrento, Hotel Monaco and W Seattle.Savannah

Savannah is the Old South incarnate, full of cobblestoned streets, historic homes and even horse-drawn carriages. Feast on southern cooking and seafood in River Street’s restaurants, and stick around after dinner for the party atmosphere. Excellent beaches, including Tybee and Hilton Head islands, are within an easy drive.Hotel RecommendationsTraditionalists will love the authenticity of the Ballastone Inn, located in the heart of the historic district. This luxurious B&B is full of southern charm. Overlooking beautiful Chippewa Square, the centrally located Fole y House Inn also exudes southern warmth and style. Both of these B&Bs are within walking distance of restaurants, shopping and sightseeing.

Messages and Dedications to the Sisters (Videos by Kamal Imani)

Posted by KAMAL IMANI*The Soul Griot! on June 3, 2008 at 2:18pm

Messages to the Black Woman by Kamal Imani http://www.myspace.com/kamalsupremePeace Sisters,Yes, I have all of this video and poetic song dedications to you so why should I keep them dormant? By blessing you with them I in turn get blessed as well so let’s go!One Love!Brother KamalMs. Melanin, A Dedication to the Sisters by Kamal Imani as seen on Xposed TV NYC

See the New Spoken Word & Hip Hop Soul Music Video“ALL SHE REALLY WANTS IS LOVE”

Yo, I Copped A New Whip! (lol)

Lovin Her Nappy Nappy

A dreadication to sisters who sport natural hair styles in particular and all Black women in general. Yall so damn beautiful (lol).

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