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Marketing Your Business in a Recession

In this recession, many businesses are shying away from spending a lot for advertising. We all can agree that in order for your business to grow – we must continue to attract new customers and keep your old customers also. Here are some proven tips used by colleagues to market their business. Target Marketing: This method uses a certain demographic to market their products or services. The advantage to using target marketing is that you have a better chance at getting new customers because you can focus on certain characteristics such as race, age, gender etc. Blanket Marketing: Blanket Marketing is used by large businesses. If you choose this, marketing method means that you advertise to everyone. Those businesses that use this method advertise in magazines and newspapers. This method is suggested if you have plenty of advertising dollars. Social Marketing: This is the newest and considered the cheapest way to market your business and reach millions of people. Social Media Marketing is BLOGGING. Your biggest challenge is to make sure that you keep feeding your readers with up to date information. No Marketing: The final way of marketing is to do NO MARKETING. Although, you think that you will be saving money. When your business fails, you lose. Therefore, it’s important that you place advertising money in your budget.Share your Marketing tips with us!
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Women & Business On The Go


Work at home moms not only have an amazing ability to multi-task while managing family, home and business but they also know how to get it all done while on the go! Sometimes a challenge may arise while having to decide how to handle an unexpected customer request while still maintaing the prioritiy of a scheduled family event. A mom entrepreneurs home based business success is greatly influenced by her ability to incorporate effective time management skills. The work at home mom who strives to stay on top of the ongoing demands of running a flourishing business while still putting the needs of her family first can appreciate the ability to be able to implement wireless technology into her daily life.Many home based business moms value the importance of being able to conduct business while on the go. Having access to email, contact lists and a variety of other business productivity tools easily available while away from home, can help improve your business revenue.For this reason, the Mom2Mom Network has partnered with SIO Wireless to give all mompreneurs the option to receive a FREE Blackberry cell phone from any of the leading wireless service providers of your choice! This offer is made available to the busy work at home mom with the hectic family schedule who is often car pooling kids to and fro while building a business from home.Never miss an important call or customer sale again! Visit SIO Wireless and get your FREE Blackberry with FREE shipping today.----------------------------Visit Mom2Mom Network Online: www.powermoms.ning.com

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GET YOUR ISH TOGETHER, OH MY!!!!

GET YOUR ISH TOGETHER, OH MY!!!!Shynel Cooper Sykes, is unique in her presentation of some most spoke about subjects,love,money,realtionship,challenges.I find her observations and commentary to be refreshing.You have to listen her videoblogs. Some will have you smiling, other may make you say "ouch" (trust,you will be ok and much for the better), some will make you THINK!!!Make sure you check her web sitehttp://stilettosinthekitchen.com/home.htmland grab her book - Stilettos In The Kitchen"I know this lady is making a positive difference
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Using Squidoo To Promote Your Website

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A lens maker can create numerous lenses on a subject, focusing attention on a different aspect of the subject with each lens. On the other had, a lens maker can make numerous lenses that cover many different topics, reflecting the lens makers' different interests and expertise. Internet MarketingOne of the many good uses for Squidoo lenses is to use the lens as part of an overall internet marketing strategy. One or more good lenses can help to bring attention, traffic, and credibility to a product or business by providing valuable information and resources. Additionally, the lens can help to establish the author as an expert in their field and a person whose advice should be taken seriously.The single page websites that Squidoo allows an author to create are called lenses because the finished website focuses on a single subject or idea. This focused attention on a subject is very attractive to users of the internet who are constantly searching for answers to questions or problems. The internet search engines whose job it is to find good, focused websites that will answer the questions or problems are attracted to the lenses.Therefore, the use of Squidoo lenses has become a valuable internet resource for building and marketing a business.Traffic. I started out with Squidoo simply to promote my various internet ventures -- web sites, blogs and ezines. Due to the way Squidoo is organized it makes a great system to capture and redirect traffic. Traffic arrives both from search engines and internally generated traffic. I have found this to be a great traffic generation tool. I have some profitable web sites that I do nothing else to promote except through Squidoo.Money. While I started out simply to drive traffic to my other money-making enterprises I soon realized there is a number of ways to benefit financially from Squidoo. I can earn income directly from Squidoo based on the internal rank of my Squidoo page as well as from a variety of internal and external affiliate programs. Squidoo has several different affiliate programs programmed in and you are welcome to add as many other income sources to your lens as you want. I earn income every month from Squidoo and I have not even begun to fully capitalize on all my options.Addiction. I fully admit that I am a Squidoo addict. I check in several times a day on the various lenses (the Squidoo term for a web page) and groups I maintain, I eye my dashboard stats, I haunt the Squidoo forum, and I'm constantly creating new lenses. I don't think there is a 12-step program for Squidoo addiction yet but there might need to be. I am constantly tweaking, fixing, adding, and altering my existing lenses as well as creating new lenses. Do I have a problem?Friends. Squidoo is a friendly place. While there are certainly people here ready and eager to make a buck they don't seem to dominate this network as much as some of the others. Perhaps it is because Squidoo makes it so easy to donate all or a portion of your proceeds to a charity of your choice -- and so many Squidoo lens creators are dedicated to supporting a huge range of charities -- that makes Squidoo people a nicer group as a whole. Yes, there are people like myself using Squidoo to support or promote a business, but it is not all about money. It is about people and ideas and community. That is what keeps me coming back day after day. I find myself not just checking up on my projects but the projects of various people that interest me -- and Squidoo makes it super easy to do just that!

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Why Success is for the Unlucky?

Too many people go through life like they’re playing the Mega Millions. They make a small investment, and then sit back hoping to hit the jackpot. More often than not, they’re left disappointed and defeated, because the luck they expected to swoop in and change their lives, never showed up. Success is not a matter of chance. It's not something you just bump in to and obtain overnight.Beyonce didn't just wake up one morning and choose to be a singer. Serena didn't just decide to play tennis, and Lebron didn't just happen to be good at basketball. Sure, they make it look easy on TV, but don't be fooled. Their success was earned as a result of a strategic and well-executed takeover. They had a plan. They put in the work. They got the right people around them. They practiced when others were sleeping. They ignored the haters, and stayed focused on their ultimate goal...to be successful enough to live out their dreams.Success is not guaranteed to anyone. It's not something you get, just because you think you deserve it. You have to want it, breathe it, live it, plan it, and dedicate yourself to it. Here are four personal brand principles that separate those who dream about success from those who actually achieve it.1. I am where I am, because of how I am. 
Meaning, if I'm not rich, if I'm not successful, if I'm not happy, if I don't have the things I want in my life, then it is up to me to take responsibility for my situation. I have to make adjustments in my life, step my game up, and pound the pavement even harder until I get the results I want. Instead of complaining, look inside yourself and evaluate why you're not where you want to be. It’s important to take responsibility, and make sure you're putting in the work to change your situation.2. It’s not the will to win that matters, everyone has that. It’s the will to prepare to win that matters. –Paul Bryant 
You can't do the same thing everyone else does and expect to stand out and get noticed. If you really want to have success, you have to plan your path and be willing to take the less desirable road. Again, if success was easy to get, then everyone would have it. Show how much you want it by putting in the blood, sweat and tears to prove it. If you're serious about reaching your goal, you won’t hesitate to dedicate the hours, days, weeks, months, years, and whatever else it takes to reach your goal.3. I will not be outworked. Period. –Will Smith
Don't be afraid or too cool to work harder than everyone else. Even after you achieve success there is always someone waiting to take your spot, so you have to keep putting in the work to stay on top. Actor, Will Smith, often says he’s willing to die on the treadmill, because he will not be outworked. His determination is a reminder to push harder even when you think you’re already giving 100%. When you push beyond your self-imposed limitations you force yourself to grow and discover new possibilities for your life.4. I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. –Thomas Edison.
Too many people want success right away, and quickly give up when the road gets tough. Keep taking risks and stay motivated even in difficult times. Roadblocks are often the best teachers, because they recruit your creativity and ingenuity to help you navigate around them. Don’t be afraid to stumble. As long as you’re willing to learn the hard lessons on your path…your rise will be greater than your fall.Only you are responsible for whether or not you achieve success. No one can do it for you, and no one else is to blame if you fall short of your goal. It takes an extraordinary effort to reach higher than those around you. Stretch yourself to discover all that you’re capable of being. Don't limit yourself by taking the easy route in life. Put forth the extra effort to be your personal best. The world needs you!
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ATTENTION to the Black Business Women Family, this network is a great one, in fact I have over a 100 friends here. Please help me make my new network Love And Marriage as successful.PLEASE JOIN:http://loveandmarriage.connectplatform.com/cgi-bin/platform/setup.cgiLove And Marriage is an online community and social network for men and women who are willing to work on the everyday trails that that life offers. This is were we share relationship topics and anything that can help the overall situation of a marriage that is troubled. We Salute, Honor & Welcome our Soldiers and their Families. Work,business, finance, children, are all welcome topics.MARRIAGE IS...A Commitment. Its success doesn't depends on feelings, circumstances, or moods, but on two people who are loyal to each other and the vows they took on their wedding day.MARRIAGE IS...Hard Work. It means chores, disagreements, misunderstandings, and times when you might not like each other very much. When you work at it together, it can be the greatest blessing in the world.A relationship where two people must listen, compromise, and respect. Its an arrangement that requires a multitude of decisions to be made together. Listening, respecting and compromising go a long way toward keeping peace and harmony.A union in which two people learn from their mistakes, accept each others faults, and willingly adjust behaviors that need to be changed. It's caring enough about each other to work through disapointing and hurtful times, and believing in the love that brought you together in the first place.MARRIAGE IS...Patience and forgiveness. It's being open and honest, thoughtful and kind. Marriage means talking things out, making necessary changes and forgiving each other. Its unconditional love at its most understanding and vulnerable love that supports, comforts, and is determined to triumph over every challenge and adversity.Marriage is a partnership of two unique people who bring out the very best in each other and who know that even though they are wonderful as individuals... they are even better together.By Barbara CagePLEASE JOIN:http://loveandmarriage.connectplatform.com/cgi-bin/platform/setup.cgiHusbands, Love your wives, just as Christ Loved the Church, and gave himself up for her, Eph 5:25Make your wives the first priority in your life. Love, loyalty, trust and respect are necessary for emotional well-being. Wives who are treated as number one priority usually make their Husbands feel the same way.I Am Working Toward This!!!!
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Finding Your Passion

What does it take to find your passion. Four years ago I got serious about this, I walked away from the co-operate world to find my passion and make a living doing that. I have have had speed bumps, I have had detours, I have had disappointments, I have had failure, I have wanted to give up on pursuing my Dream.People have laughed at me, asked me what in the world was I doing why did I leave the comfort and stability of a paycheck? All of this was needed for me to reach where I am today. If I did not go through this I would not have found my Passion.Everyone wants to do what they love to do, there is no doubt about that, but how many are willing to go through all the the ups and down to get there. well if you want to be fulfilled in life you will take the risk. Risk it all to get to a place that you can truly look back and say it was all worth it. "CAUTION !! NOT EVERYONE HAS TO QUIT THEIR JOB" Calculate your risk! Be smart about it.Being true to yourself and following your Dream takes work. You have to be willing to work on yourself. Relationships in life are the tools that are used to help you navigate your life and find the true meaning of life. Look around you, which relationships are causing you pain? When you take the time to review those relationships and take inventory of what is really going on inside of you, you will find that this is your moment to face life's obstacle so that you can reach your destiny. Once you take the time and work on the most painful relationships, you will come out a winner, whether you have to let go of that relationship and move on, or make it more healthy is all the work you need for personal growth.Now you are ready to move into personal development. You will find that you are becoming more energized to start working on the things that you have always wanted to do. There is no more hindrance, you have worked on the most difficult tracks of life. You are now ready to go and rise up to your full potential. You can face anything, nothing will move you as long as you keep your head up!Start with thinking about what comes naturally to you, what do people say, you are so good at? I love to write, I write and write and write, I always have something to write about, I always have to write a shopping list even when I will not follow through with it, I just enjoy writing. People noticed and they always told me you are a writer. I had to one day say "yes I am a writer", then I started writing stuff that I could share with others, other than writing a grocery list or writing in my journal. I took the time to share my talent, and gift.Once you open one gift, the other gifts in you will start screaming to be opened too. You will start to realize there are so many boxes that needed to be unwrapped, you might not necessarily like some,but they are still yours to keep. DO what ever you want to do with them, you can give them away, keep them, or sell them.What gifts are you willing to give away today? Those are the gifts you are willing to give back for example doing Volunteer work. What are you willing to keep, those are the ones you use to enjoy your past time. What are you will to sell? Now these are the gifts you use to make money. Are you with me so far?Follow your heart and Find your passion.
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Hello ladies!Warm greetings from California Wine Country... yes, it's that time of year, the HOLIDAY SEASON!As one of less than a handful of sisters who are winebrokers (you can count on one finger), we at SONOMA EBONY WINES have access to fantastic, award-winning wines and champagnes from Sonoma, Napa, Mendocino and other California and international wine regions. My personal motto:"TO OFFER YOU GREAT WINES AT GREAT PRICES!"The list of estate and private wines I have currently available would fill a book! The time is now to start stocking your wine cellar (or pantry) with fantastic wines you'll absolutely LOVE, for those special occasions which are virtually right around the corner! We ship across the United States, gifts, wines for socializing and networking along with award winners you'll be proud to share, serve and collect.Please feel free to reach out anytime direct at 707.568.6839 or via email at winebroker@hotmail.com. Looking forward to hearing from you SOON ~ referrals are always warmly appreciated!Ciao for now with love, prayers and blessings from your personal wine country connection... here's to a great 2010!DON'T DELAY ... CALL TODAY!lenita marieSONOMA EBONY WINESFounder/Owner
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My "Extra Money" Success Story!

I'm posting my "extra money" success story for the many educated, dedicated and hard working people who have been forced into unemployment by this horrible economy!Okay, so I needed to make extra money, but I wasn't trying to get rich quick, nor was I looking for work outside of my home. I was looking for a real company (licensed, bonded, etc), one that was stable, and one that actually paid on time. In my search, I found several excellent companies to work for, but apparently so did everyone else. I mean, every time I would ask someone if they heard of this product or that product, or this service or that service; they would say, "Yeah haven't you?" So I thought, "okay I missed those opportunities!” I became so frustrated that I just gave up and began looking for a JOB!!!!! I dreaded going back into corporate America, but I had to do what I had to do, right?One evening, an associate called me very excited, telling me that I needed to try this new healthy organic juice. Saying that anyone looking to lose a little weight, look a few years younger, have more energy or just maintain overall health could drink this juice. She shared amazing testimonies she had collected from people who have type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure and for a brief moment, she had me thinking about how my family members could benefit from drinking this juice. I have a family history of cancer, type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure and although I was amazed by the stories she shared; I told her that I was in no position to afford an organic health juice or any juice for that matter! I mean seriously, we were struggling with only one income as it was; how would I explain the purchase of an organic health juice? I could literally hear the argument starting with my husband already LOL! Finally, she persuaded me to taste it. It really tasted great! There was no after taste and after the third sip; I was hooked! I couldn't believe that an organic health juice could taste this good because every other organic juice I had tasted in the past was greenish/brown and tasted awful! NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE, but let's keep it real.Then she told me she gets paid weekly for sharing this juice with other people. I said, “That’s nice, you go girl, but my hands are tied and I have too much on my plate as it is; besides I need a real job and one that pays me every two weeks!” And I wasn't playing either; I really needed to know that when I put in 8 hour days; that a paycheck would be waiting for me every two weeks. Anyway, she convinced me to take a look at the company before making a final decision.I searched the Internet; I called the Secretary of State to be sure they were licensed; I called the Better Business Bureau to see if they had any complaints against them. I called the State Comptroller's office to see if they were in good standings; and I checked out MLM Watchdog.com to see if they were a legitimate network marketing company and not a “fly by night scam” or something. There was nothing bad mentioned about this company ANYWHERE! Finally, I decided to check with a few people I know personally who have built huge work at home businesses to see if they had ever heard of this company. I was shocked to find that none of them had! I couldn't believe that my associate had turned me on to an actual “basement” opportunity! This was not a “ground floor” opportunity, but a true “basement” opportunity because hardly anyone had heard of this company or the organic health juice! This all seemed “too good to be true” so I continued to do more research.I found out why so many people hadn’t heard of this company before. It is because the company had only reached a few states in the U.S., but they broke all kinds of sales records in other Countries like: Hong Kong, China, Japan and Canada. The company was 13yrs old with a less than 2yr old “debt-free” network marketing division. Finally, I called their office to see what kind of customer service department they had and I was floored! A LIVE person answered; she was very professional. She confirmed everything I had uncovered during my research. She told me that the organic health juice was less than 45 days old at the time. Then she told me that they offered weekly online (webinar) trainings and conference call (over the phone) trainings in the evening. This was perfect for me because I still wanted to find a full-time job. After a series of questions, I decided to join their team as an Executive Level Business Owner and they assigned me to “a personal coach”. I was promised that I would always get a live person when calling their office and only on very rare occasions would I ever get a voicemail. In which case, someone would call me back within an hour! This was HUGE for me because I hate voicemails and automated systems! (Grrrrrrrrrrr)The company sent me a Business Success Kit that contained a training manual so I could follow along with the weekly trainings. There were samples of marketing materials/business tools which allowed me to market the juice professionally. They gave me my own replicated website with “a back office” that allows me to access corporate marketing material that I can actually print right at home. It keeps a record of my sales, my weekly pay and my referrals! The back office even gives me an accounting record and payroll history.I joined their team in July of this year; working only part-time from home. So far, I've earned over $3,000 in retail sales and weekly commissions. I know this doesn't sound like a lot to some, but when you do the math, it’s an extra $750 per month! I work part-time and not at a fast food place; not at a clothing or department store, not in another office, and not cleaning someone else’s toilet. Although there’s nothing wrong with working these kinds of jobs; I’d much rather work any extra hours at home, so I can still spend time with my family. As far as I’m concerned, an extra $750 per month could mean paying off a bill or two; it could also mean getting that new car because now the note and insurance can get paid; but for some people, an extra $750 per month could mean not missing a meal or having to ration what little you do have until next payday. Listen, I don’t know anyone who doesn’t need extra $ in this economy. Do you? Anyway, thought I'd share my “extra money” success story with anyone interested in earning some extra $ in this economy. Besides, what can an extra $750 or more per month do for your household?Here is the website www.MaquiBerryBuilt.com Do the research for yourself. Oh and while you’re at it, pick up a copy of the Network Marketing Business Journal at any major bookstore or on any major newsstand. This company has been named “Company of the Month” for the month of November 2009!

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Why do we cheat???

Okay all, this is a topic that can be discussed daily. Men and women all across this nation have asked this Question.*Why do we cheat?Women seem to want to modify this question to read.1) Why do men cheat?Why we are gathering our thoughts about this question here are some statistics takened from WebMd.com48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated.So much for the myth that for men, cheating is all about sex:Only 8 percent of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity."Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex," Neuman says. "But men are emotionally driven beings too. They want their wives to show them that they're appreciated, and they want women to understand how hard they're trying to get things right." The problem is that men are less likely than women to express these feelings, so you won't always know when your guy is in need of a little affirmation. "Most men consider it unmanly to ask for a pat on the back, which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked," Neuman says. "But you can create a marital culture of appreciation and thoughtfulness — and once you set the tone, he's likely to match it."66% of cheating men report feeling guilt during the affair.The implications are a little scary: It isn't just uncaring jerks who cheat. In fact,68 percent of cheaters never dreamed they'd be unfaithful, and almost all of them wished they hadn't done it, Neuman says. Clearly, guilt isn't enough to stop a man from cheating. "Men are good at compartmentalizing feelings," Neuman explains. "They can hold on to their emotions and deal with them later." So even if your husband swears he would never cheat, don't assume it can't happen. It's important for both of you to take steps toward creating the marriage you want.2) Why do women cheat?Why we are gathering our thoughts about this question here are some statistics takened from Cheating-Lover-Affairs.comWhy do women cheat? The simple answer is because they hurt. They have pain related to loneliness, the rejection and betrayal of a cheating spouse, an unexciting and unsatisfactory relationship, or feeling poorly about themselves.Why do women cheat? Because of emotional needs not met and the hurt that accompanies this lack. Is it sometimes just physical lust? Occasionally, but I do not see much of this.Loneliness is one of the primary reasons that women seek out affairs or are susceptible to advances. Women who are in an unsatisfactory relationship may feel even lonelier than if they were still single. A partner who is over involved with his work or hobby may severely limit the attention and admiration he gives to his mate.She then feels unattractive, uncared for, and hopeless about getting her needs met. While this is a reason for working harder on the relationship, not seeking relief from another man, it is easy to understand the pain that makes the whole thing possible.And then there is Revenge. I am seeing much more of this as a motive in recent years. Today's woman is not willing to just sit still and "take it." Unfortunately, the "eye for an eye" approach has become more acceptable and a woman who feels betrayed and rejected may well return the favor.Sometimes a woman needs only to hold a suspicion that her partner is cheating to be susceptible. She may have painful memories from other, earlier relationships in her life, and she may have an expectation of being hurt in this one, as well. This is where a "self fulfilling prophecy" can take over and create pain for everyone.One reason for a woman's affair is similar to one for men: boredom. An unsatisfying, dull, and predictable relationship that is not growing in depth can make the excitement of a new relationship very attractive.The affair is not only exciting due to the new person involved, but also to the whole experience of sneaking around and hiding it. This can be a huge adrenaline rush. It's not saying it too strongly to say that it can even be mildly addictive. Women who have multiple affairs may be experiencing this kind of stimulus.Underlying all these reasons for cheating is a poor sense of self-esteem. We all need an adequate amount of affection and admiration from our partners. One way or another this attention falters at times and the person can become insecure and start looking for the attention is other places.Women can especially have this problem since our culture puts so much emphasis on physical beauty, sex appeal, and the ability to attract men. The truly secure woman knows that her value rests not in these attributes but in her depth of character, her spiritual self, and in her self-reliance.Unfortunately, there is very little in our culture to encourage this self awareness and many women unconsciously find their worth in the attention they receive from the men in their lives. And, when it is not coming from their partner they are susceptible to receiving it from other men.Few would say that any of these reasons for cheating are justifiable. Whether it is boredom, self-esteem, revenge, or the pain that relationships often bring, the answer is to go to work on the relationship, not to have an affair. We can understand the motivations for affairs, but we still know that they are harmful and someone usually gets hurt badly.So what are your comments please be open and honest.
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Unforgiveness in Marriage

Unforgiveness will kill a marriage instantly. We have learned all our lives that we are to forgive others. Practicing unforgiveness will get us nowhere in life. If we don't forgive others of their sins against us, we should not expect God to forgive us.“Should forgiveness be unconditional?”People often have the impression that the Bible requires forgiveness to be unconditional. But the Bible doesn’t say that. It tells us that we should “Forgive as the Lord forgave you” (Colossians 3:13). While God’s forgiveness is undeserved, it certainly isn’t unconditional. The Lord’s forgiveness is offered only to those who confess their sin and repent (2 Chronicles 7:14; Leviticus 26; Luke 13:3; 1 John 1:8-10).On the surface, it might seem noble to forgive unconditionally. But unconditional forgiveness is usually motivated more by fear than by love. And because of this it’s usually destructive. If a wife continues to forgive a habitually unfaithful and abusive husband unconditionally, her toleration of his behavior will probably result in even more abuse and disrespect. This kind of “unconditional” forgiveness expresses a determination to cling to the status quo. No matter how bad things are, this woman fears that things will probably get worse if she holds her husband accountable. Her passive acceptance of his behavior will probably encourage him to continue in his sin. Instead of her forgiveness being a helpful act of love, it is actually a violation of love that will hinder his growth toward Christlikeness.Article by Gospel.comPat says:I was in a marriage where there was physical, mental, verbal abuse. What does the bible say about divorcing in this case?Tricia W. says:I have been searching the bible on that same issue, but it only speaks of divorce because of adultery. it is spoken about in matthew, john, 1 corinthians just to name a few. the issue is, God never intended for divorce. it was not His will, but He honored Moses’ law on it (for what is bound on earth will be bound in heaven Matthew 18:18) because of the callousness of our hearts.Pray on it and seek the Lord’s counsel. And do whatever He says. God does not delight in seeing His children in pain or broken or hurt. He sees all and knows all. He is just and merciful, so trust in Him that He has the answer and that He will bring healing. Then be patient and wait on Him. A good scripture to read… Psalm 92Jackie says:I too was in a horrible marriage that was filled with abuse and also adultery. I divorced and has since been remarried to a wonderful man who respects and takes very good care of me and my children. Although the Bible only offers adultery as an out and for remarriage, it also commands the husband to love his wife as Christ loved the church and this is not happening in your situation. You need to get out. You’ll have to seek your heart about divorce and remarriage if that becomes an option. I only know that now I can worship the Lord with gladness and without fear. I’ll be praying for you as you seek guideance.
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FACEBOOK MESSES UP RELATIONSHIPSComical look at how facebook can impact a relationship. very entertaining and contains some not so obvious truths how the open viewing communication system can effect people. For people considering marriage or already married should take heed to this skit. Relationships are effected by the new online communication. Love relationship can need some serious advice after viewing this.
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“It’s Crunch Time!“, by Marie Brewer (www.helenbrewer.com for the link to book) This is my book ofmuscle for boys (ages 9-12) to point them in the direction of HOPE!...This is an interactive book where they can write about their feelings. It discusses acceptable behavior, good self-image, respect for females and animals, appreciation for teachers/school, choosing good friends. The book also talks about resisting gangs, guns, drugs, violence, alcohol and bad influences. Let's attack the behavior, not the boy. "It's Crunch Time!" , by Marie Brewer, www.bbotw.com Be a part of the village to help our boys envision their true God-given purpose!We can turn this thing around!SEE! THINK ! ACT!
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WHO IS STAFFINGFORCE?Independent Sourcers, Corporate Recruiters and Sales/Business Developer's and anyone who has the entrepreneurial spirit wanting to start their own business..... WE NEED YOU!!!StaffingForce is growing like crazy. We have openings for those of you who are Independent Sourcers, Recruiters and Sales/Business Developer Reps.We need you! Come be your own boss! Work from home and... work as much as you want or as little as you want in helping others! You can make money 7 different ways. Yes 7 and then you are an in…www.mystaffingforce.com.Check out some of the upcoming webinars and learn more about building your own wealth while you help others succeed.http://www.weoai.org ~ referred by Yolanda Lamar-Wilder, Consultant StaffingForce
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